Oftentimes, dumpees assume that by looking good, they can mesmerize their ex and make their ex feel impressed, envious, or jealous. They think they can make their ex wonder why they look thi… Read More

Do you miss your ex and want to reach out? You’re not the only one. Most dumpees miss their ex like crazy and have a hard time staying away from their ex. They want to contact their ex… Read More

Breakups may feel like competition, but that’s just an illusion. Breakups aren’t about finding another person and marrying him or her quicker than your ex-partner. They’re… Read More

Asking your ex to get back together requires more than just timing. To get back together successfully, certain conditions must first be met. The most important one is your ex (the dumper) as… Read More

If your ex fell in love with someone else very quickly and you’re baffled by your ex’s ability to move on super fast, the first thing you need to know is that your ex didn’… Read More

Does your ex have a new girlfriend that he treats better than he treats or treated you? If he does, don’t worry, this is completely normal. New relationships aren’t accurate repr… Read More

If your ex is cold and heartless post-breakup, it’s evident your ex doesn’t have any more romantic interest, respect, and patience for you. Your ex has run out of them and can&rs&hell…Read More

If your ex is obsessed with you, you probably left your ex and triggered his or her separation anxiety. You deprived your ex of love and made your ex crave your validation and the reassuranc… Read More

When your ex texts you, “Thinking of you,” your ex wants to communicate with you and get some kind of reaction from you. Usually, your ex wants to see that you forgive him/her fo… Read More

If your boyfriend cheated on you and you’re wondering why he did that, you should talk to him about it. He’s the one with all the answers and explanations, so ask him why he took… Read More

If you’re thinking about whether your ex will come back after no contact, the first thing you need to know is that you’re not supposed to reach out to your ex after a certain num… Read More

Did you ever wonder how long no contact takes to work for a dumpee? I know I did. Every time I woke up, I added a day to my no contact counter and wondered if I was a step closer to my goal… Read More

People (especially exes) hate confrontations. They hate being told or reminded they did something wrong and that they need to fix it and be better people. Dumpers are done with the relations… Read More

3 weeks into no contact, your ex probably won’t regret leaving you and ask you to get back together. 3 weeks of silence are not enough for an exhausted dumper to get into trouble, chan… Read More

Many dumpers go on vacation after the breakup. They’re tired from their emotionally-draining relationship and feel elated when they’re away from their ex, so they grab a friend… Read More

It’s not appropriate for your ex to demand to meet your new partner. Your relationship is between you and your partner. It doesn’t concern your ex at all, which is why your ex sh… Read More

No matter how you look at it, relationships are investments. You put time, effort, money, happiness, and sadness into them and expect commitment in return. If you don’t get the same ki… Read More

Do you want your ex’s new relationship to fail? What are you hoping to get out of it? If you want your ex to get back together with you, you’re essentially craving your ex’… Read More

When your ex-girlfriend says she doesn’t want a relationship with anyone, she’s talking about her feelings in the moment. She feels overwhelmed, so she can’t even imagine h… Read More

When your ex insults you, your ex wants you to know that he or she isn’t happy with the breakup. Your ex expected the breakup not to happen or to unfold on his/her terms and to have co… Read More

When an ex keeps texting you even though you ignore him, your ex doesn’t care that you need space and quiet. He wants what he wants, so he keeps talking to you despite his reach-outs m… Read More

Narcissists are said to be highly competitive, envious, and jealous people and get angry and offended easily. Everything that happens to them and around them makes them feel inferior and tri… Read More

When a guy just wants to be friends after dating, he thinks he can’t reciprocate your feelings and be with you romantically. He can only bond as a friend as a relationship with you doe… Read More

Silence can make a woman miss you. But for her to miss you, the woman you’re using the power of silence on must respect you and care about you. She must think you’re worth her ti… Read More

When a man is angry after a breakup, he doesn’t listen to what you say, do, and expect. He’s done listening to you, reasoning with you, and making changes for you and because of… Read More

If your ex is giving you mixed signals, it’s unlikely that your ex is looking for ways to be with you. Your ex is probably shifting between hot and cold and confusing you because your… Read More

Before we discuss what to do when your ex won’t stop contacting you, we need to clarify whether your ex is a dumpee or a dumper. If your ex is a dumper, your ex probably feels guilty a… Read More

When a man feels guilty after a breakup, he’ll reach out from time to time, take the blame, apologize, explain things, cry, and make himself look stupid. He’ll try to make it see… Read More

How long you should stay single after a breakup depends on how attached you are to your ex and your ability to process the separation. Some dumpees don’t get attached much and get over… Read More

Are you wondering if your ex will ever talk to you again? Do you worry that you’ll never hear from your ex and get back together? If you do, you first need to understand that worrying… Read More

If you’re looking for signs your ex is pretending to be happy, you need to know that after the breakup, most dumpers don’t pretend to be happy. They feel happy, relieved, and fre… Read More

Have you ever wondered how to take someone off a pedestal? Someone like a crush, a taken/married person, a player man/woman, an ex, or someone who can’t be with you or isn’t good… Read More

Breaking up after 10 years of being with someone is extremely challenging. Breakups are hard as they are, but when you break up with someone you’ve known for that long, the world comes… Read More

Are you desperate for someone to love you and you don’t know why? Before you brand yourself as a person who’s desperate for love, you need to ask yourself if you’re despera… Read More

Talking to your ex about getting back together requires a lot of patience, confidence, understanding of your ex’s feelings, and breakup knowledge. It requires you to know your role in… Read More

If your ex is talking to you again and you’re wondering what to do, know that there’s only one thing to do. You need to figure out how your ex is talking to you and what’s… Read More

If another woman came between you and your partner because she didn’t know you were together, she should have stopped interacting with your partner and backed off the moment she found… Read More

Your ex may be a narcissist, but narcissists get curious too. They’re human beings capable of thought and emotion, which is why occasionally, your narcissist ex thinks about you. Somet… Read More

Ghosters may run away from people when they feel overwhelmed, but that doesn’t mean they stay away from them forever. Sometimes, they return in one way or another and try to get someth… Read More

Although it’s common for couples to break up and get back together, I wouldn’t call it normal. A breakup is a sign that something is seriously wrong with the relationship and tha… Read More

Sadly, falling out of love during deployment is very common. Many women (and men) lose feelings for their partner while their partner is away. They think they no longer feel connected to the… Read More

If your ex left you and is telling you about his life, your ex could be doing this because he thinks it’s helping you accept the breakup and move on. It could be a sneaky distraction t… Read More

Dumpers realize they made a mistake when they distance themselves from problems, grow, or make some kind of mistake. Mistakes (especially big and painful ones) oftentimes force them to open… Read More

In a breakup, there’s less than a 1% chance that your partner will do as great as you and about a 50% chance that your partner will do better than you. Someone is usually the dumper, w… Read More

For those who don’t know, a serial dater chases the high of a new relationship. He or she seems very eager and invested at first, but when emotions of excitement wane, so too does his… Read More

When a dumpee finds a new person to date within a few months, that is normally considered a rebound as the dumpee hasn’t fully processed the previous relationship and let go of hope. T… Read More

What makes a dumper change their mind usually has nothing to do with the dumpee. The dumpee may be a good person and easy to work with, but that doesn’t compel the dumper to come back… Read More

First of all, breakups aren’t competitions. It’s not about who finds a better, smarter, prettier, and rich partner first and who has more positive experiences to brag about on so… Read More

Breaking up over text is seen as an inconsiderate way of ending a relationship. Regardless of how long a relationship lasted, when a dumpee has feelings, breaking up via text shocks the dump… Read More

If you want to know why your ex still follows you on social media, you must understand that dumpees and dumpers follow or keep following their exes for slightly different reasons. Dumpees ge… Read More

Just like it’s wrong to date your ex’s friend, it’s also wrong to date your friend’s ex. Dating someone so closely related to you is immoral as it shows that you don… Read More

If your ex’s friends are contacting you, asking you questions, and being nice to you, they’re probably surprised by what has happened. They know you and have a connection with yo… Read More

Hanging out with an ex while you’re in a relationship is a bad idea. Friendship with an ex (especially a close one) is difficult and wrong because it makes your new partner uncomfortab… Read More

This is a question I get all the time. Many dumpees want to know why their ex unfriended them but didn’t block them. They think and hope that unfriending without blocking means that th… Read More

Living with your ex is a bad idea because you and your ex constantly remind each other that you failed as partners and that you don’t feel good around each other. Your presences alone… Read More

Exes often drink, party, and engage in self-destructive behaviors after the breakup. They feel a strong sense of relief and a need to express their relief, so they act on their post-breakup… Read More

When an ex swipes right on you, your ex does this for two possible reasons. Your ex either does it accidentally (very unlikely) or half-jokingly to show that he or she discovered your profil… Read More

Showing your ex you don’t care anymore is easier than you may think. You don’t need to text, call, or tell your ex in person that you’re over him or her and that you’… Read More

Does your ex seem unaffected by the breakup and you don’t know why? It might surprise you that most exes are unaffected by the breakup. They’d been thinking about breaking up for… Read More

When someone ghosts you, your initial feeling is perplexion. You don’t know what you did or didn’t do that made you get ghosted. You don’t know if you said something you sh… Read More

Boyfriends and ex-boyfriends sometimes feel guilty and avoid their (ex)partners. They have a fear of confrontation and don’t know how to deal with difficult emotions, so they avoid the… Read More

Did you ever want to prove your ex wrong and make your ex regret dumping you and/or being with someone else? I know I did. I wanted my ex to see I learned from the breakup and that I could m… Read More

If you had an argument with your boyfriend and you want to know if he will come back after the silent treatment, you need to ask yourself who’s giving the silent treatment to who and w… Read More

Some dumpees wonder if it’s better to be mysterious after a breakup than it is to post on social media and let their ex see and hear what’s going on with them. They want to know… Read More

When your ex sees you moving on, your ex probably won’t react in any significant way. Your dumper ex will be okay with you taking care of yourself and enjoying your life as seeing you… Read More

The journey of self-discovery that follows a breakup can lead to significant personal changes. It can force dumpees to suffer and grow and make dumpers so relieved that they do things they p… Read More

Showing up at your ex’s house unannounced is probably one of the worst things you can do as a dumpee. Not only do you shock your ex, but you also force your ex to communicate with you… Read More

Many couples transition from a physical relationship to a long-distance one and break up shortly after the transition or even before that. They do this because their commitment to each other… Read More

Big age-gap couples often downplay each other’s age. They say things like, “He’s older, so he’s more experienced” or she’s younger, but she’s very m… Read More

People are desperate to find someone new after the breakup for various reasons. Dumpees are desperate because they’re hurt and want to feel validated and secure whereas dumpers are det… Read More

If you humiliated yourself after the breakup, you probably begged and pleaded with your ex, showed up at your ex’s door/work, proposed to your ex, sent your ex gifts, got your ex&rsquo&hell…Read More

It’s very common for breakups to mess us up mentally and emotionally. Breakups have devastating effects on us as they cause a blow to our self-esteem, confidence, and direction in life… Read More

If you sent a closure text to your ex but got no response, your ex doesn’t see the pain you’re going through or doesn’t care about it. Either way, your ex feels victimized… Read More

Sadly, most dumpees encounter breadcrumbs from an ex at least once after the breakup. They receive confusing messages that initially empower them with hope and make them anxious. But when th… Read More

It’s highly recommended to disappear after being dumped. Your disappearance not only demonstrates you respect your ex’s decision to leave but also shows you respect yourself. It… Read More

When dumpers end a relationship, they typically don’t want to be friends with their ex and hang out as if nothing happened. Most of the time, they want the dumpee to understand their f… Read More

The majority of dumpers are not afraid to contact dumpees. Dumpers feel tired from the end of the relationship, so they go through the stages of a breakup for the dumper, starting with the r… Read More

Most people reading this, including me, wanted to get back with an ex at some point in our life. Whether it was right after we got dumped or months later, we wanted to reconcile because we w… Read More

The workplace is generally the place where affairs happen the most. Work “confines” people in the same place and allows them to communicate, joke, flirt, and bond in ways that ma… Read More

If you were a rebound, your relationship with your ex probably lasted anywhere between a few weeks to a few months. It lasted until your ex decided that the relationship wasn’t giving… Read More

Have you ever wondered how to part ways with an ex in a way that makes you look mature and leave the best impression on your ex? I know I have. I wanted to know if my last words could make m… Read More

Most dumpers are so focused on how they feel and what they want to feel that they don’t realize or care they hurt you. They’re so done with the relationship and feeling miserable… Read More

When an ex reaches out to apologize, his or her goal isn’t to persuade the dumpee to get back together. It’s to obtain forgiveness and alleviate feelings of guilt. By doing so, t… Read More

Exes often reach out and go silent after the reach out. They don’t see the need to communicate and stretch things out unnecessarily because they get what they want from their ex and fe… Read More

Unfortunately, most couples break up when they’re still in love. Someone (usually just one person (the attached one)) still has feelings and romantic expectations of the other person a… Read More

Chasing an avoidant is no fun. Every time you try to get close to an avoidant and think you’ve made some progress, the avoidant steps on the brakes and shows you that you’re not… Read More

Narcissists are extremely opinionated and stubborn people. They’re emotion-driven and unwilling to change their beliefs no matter how polite and right people are. They’re constan… Read More

Christmas holidays can be very painful and challenging for dumpees. They can make dumpees feel incredibly nostalgic, lonely, and sad—as for the first time, they’re forced to spen… Read More

Some dumpers never regret breaking up with their ex whereas others realize they’ve taken their ex for granted and want their ex back. Such dumpers get hit with waves of anxiety, nostal… Read More

Blindsided breakups are the worst. They hit dumpees out of the blue and leave them with tons of pain and separation anxiety. Unlike dumpers who are detached and don’t care about their… Read More

If you’re thinking about leaving a long-term relationship for someone else, you’re basically getting ready to discard someone you’ve committed to and invested in. You&rsquo&hell…Read More

Have you ever wondered why men leave good women? Why do they abandon them and go with someone that is the complete opposite of them? I know I have. I thought men get bored or tired of women… Read More

Seeing your ex for the first time after no contact may scare you, but know that you have nothing to worry about. If your ex regrets abandoning you and wants you back, your ex will be way mor… Read More

If you cheated on your husband and made him want to leave, you need to know that you’ve hurt your husband badly and caused a lot of damage to the relationship. Not only did you destroy… Read More

Since breakups happen for different reasons, it’d be unfair to lump them all together and state that exes always come back a certain number of months into the breakup. The painful trut… Read More

When an ex blocks you, it’s normally out of repulsion, anger, or frustration. He or she isn’t happy with your behavior or presence and thinks that the best way to deal with the u… Read More

Sometimes exes call us at predictable times such as our birthdays and celebrations, and other times they call us at the strangest times imaginable. A strange time to receive a call from exes… Read More

People call their exes for all sorts of reasons. Dumpees (those who get dumped) call their exes because they miss them and want to talk to them/get back with them. They find the post-breakup… Read More

If your ex won’t give you your stuff back, your ex is obviously being difficult on purpose. He or she either stopped caring about you and wants to avoid you like the plague to avoid de… Read More

If you’re anxiously trying to get your ex back, you need to understand that the breakup doesn’t just hit the dumper out of the blue after a certain period of time. The breakup hi… Read More