Being humble, as we learn more and more to work for the good in ourselves, our Light, does not mean that we become doormats. That is not humility nor does it serve those of us wishing to serve.
Respect for the Self we have been given by our Creator is a must and those who try and diminish our worth need be thoughtfully evaluated, prayed over and handed to His Holy Spirit.
If you suspect you are being used or negatively held back by someone close in your life, do this:
For every time you encounter this person silently invite the Holy Spirit to be there with too. Say, “I invite the Holy Spirit into this relationship with me and ….” And say thank you, Amen. Then watch what happens.
In the beginning and from my own experience, sometimes the words that came out of my mouth seemed to be harsh and not very kind, yet I knew I had consciously connected to His Light and Holy Spirit by requesting it, so I was unsure what was happening.
I came to learn that I was speaking to that person in the way they could hear, in the way they were vibrationally accustomed to receiving and learning information. I was often left astounded at the abruptness of my delivery and the bluntness of my words, yet somehow, I knew it was out of my hands. I seemed to open my mouth with the best of intentions and then Bam! Out came a succinct message of enough is enough!
I was confronted by my own confronting and spent time trying to understand what was happening.
I learned that I had a pre-conceived idea that as a follower of Jesus I was meant to be kind, tolerant and always accommodating of the other person.
That is not the way to the truth He was teaching but is a route to becoming burnt-out and disillusioned in your decision to work for the Light in you.
I also learned that the more I pursued my relationship with the Christ within me, deeper and deeper my level of intuitive sensitivity developed, to the point that I could seem to know all of a person in one glance, one head bow in their presence. This is part of working for His Christ in you, we become attuned to the Truth and are gifted with sight to not only see the others illusions (lies) they have surrounded themselves, but we are in distinct training to look past it. Beyond its deceptive cover which tells most to stay away from another or not to like them. We are dedicated to the Truth and real truth does not judge, it merely looks upon all that is and accepts, knowing that the lasting core of any one individual is not those lies and illusions they have succumbed to and identified with.
It is a tightrope we must learn to walk, and we will wobble, tempted to look only upon the parts of them we do not like. However, we are not here to extend their false perceptions particularly if they are unhealthy and encroaching on others, including us. It is not tough love, although some may call it that, it is His Holy Spirit telling us that here is one whose acceptance of the Light may be conditioned and filtered through their own negative views and we may not be more than a passing street light to them, offering a short burst of our Ray on their journey home.
Do not feel guilty as you exit yourself out of their life. After consultation with His Holy Spirit, for we do not make decisions without Him, what will be will be, simple. And peace will be the prevailing mark of a correct decision.
I look in earnest at how I prepare myself for the interaction with the other person and can sometimes see there are clearly things about them that I find hard to digest and work with, my inner knowing tells me.
I am generally a kind and accommodating person, always wanting to help and assist where I can, so I knew that I am being authentic in my dealings with them. I always hold high intentions of our ability to commune on some level that is beneficial for us both and healthy.
When you walk away from someone and have offered your authentic self and strength, but feel tired or confused or even agitated then something is out of balance and defiantly unhealthy. If you recognise this and re-connect to His Light you may be recharged, but not necessarily equipped to do that sort of exchange for prolonged periods and on an ongoing basis.
And often it is those closest that attach to us, sucking us dry, making it doubly hard to disconnect from them, as we feel guilty we have not been ‘good’ enough or worked hard enough at delivering His Light into their lives.
Can you hear the flaw in that? We have not…
Remember we are here to shed the light, but not make another take it up, so shine your light wherever you go, ALWAYS, but do not linger in the darken mind-valleys of another long or you too will forget who you are in Him and become depleted and lost.
We are here to complete a mission, to answer His Call, because we have heard it and can do nothing else but respond to the internal pulling it induces when we stray, and sometimes this means leaving some people where they are.
Be kind and gentle with yourself if you have had to disconnect from one who’s Light is covered over and they want yours to become so as well. Bless them and move on.
For we cannot reach the height of Eagles if we flock with the Turkey's and it is only from our great height that we can look down and send the blessings more effectively than if we too had become confused, lost in anguish, squabbling around at ground level.
Prepare yourself every time you know must land, and we all must land to feed. Yet our nourishment does not come from these types of people but from what they impel us to do, return to the Source. We cannot be gifted with the vision of Christ and not share it, it is both our duty and produces our own healing. We must hold the hand of another brother to know ourselves in Christ.
Bless all our brothers, but also yourself, keep your Light held high above grasping tentacles and you will be able to deliver your light in the most beneficial way instead of enabling them to reduce and glue you to their dark spot.
And we love them, for they are ourselves in fragmentation, waiting to be saved but with little knowledge how to source their own Light. Be the model of Light distillation but do not be their Source. Be their inspiration or motivation to move a little more away from their own thoughts and actions which hold them down but do not coddle, go-along-with or align yourself to their illusions of themselves, you will pay a price of disconnection and the pain of this will be acutely felt.
Then the soul cries out for His Holy Spirits intervention and we may find our earthly selves speaking words sharp enough to cut the cord of their unhealthy connection from us and free us from their lies.
Truth is what we know innately and because of this, we will always be Self-respecting whether we like it or not because the Lights for Christ are not doormats nor are we fools. We are teachers and reacher’s for higher realms, always, and we are His students in the way, the truth and the life. Amen.