2022-01-22 23:12
It's been a shitshow around here lately.We'd been planning our wedding celebration. Fully vaxxed with every safety measure we could put in place (other than just not doing it). My fami… Read More
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2021-10-06 19:00
Sir and I have been trying to take a walk together after work each night. Get into a routine.During our most recent walk, the local candy store was open! They've been closed for a while due… Read More
2021-09-29 01:54
For my birthday, Sir gifted me a Switch. And of course, my favorite video game to go with it. We're finally getting to a place where discretionary income is a thing again!I was floored… Read More
2021-08-03 01:48
Sir and I have realized over the years, that I definitely have a little side.I don't know her exact age, but somewhere between 5-8 I think.There are times where it's more pronounced th… Read More
2021-07-27 01:40
Lately, Sir has been staying up much later that I do.It seems I just can't go to sleep without him, though.I'd feel tired, get up and put myself in bed...And just wait there. Whether intenti… Read More
2021-07-20 01:47
Sir has me pinned to the bed. Held down at his mercy as I wiggle and struggle to no avail.He gets both of my hands pinned with one of his, and reaches back with his other hand in a move that… Read More
2021-07-13 01:28
This photo is love.Looking at it, I am immediately swimming in affection for this man.The beach is not Sir's thing.But it is absolutely *my* thing. Any beach, even a lake beach, has som… Read More
2021-06-06 20:51
Last night while I was sleeping, Sir sent me a message via Fetlife. That is typically how we communicate about kinky things in our relationship. So if I see a Fetlife message from him, I kno… Read More
2021-03-30 02:12
I sit in our office, in my customary computer chair. Sir sits in his. We are side by side.He tells me to close my eyes. I feel him place a very comfortable blindfold over my face.A gif… Read More
2021-02-10 04:30
So, at our wedding a few weeks ago, Sir and I wanted to incorporate somehow, in a subtle manner, some of the, ahem, *other* elements of our relationship. I of course wore my wristcolla… Read More
2021-01-24 05:02
2020 was a heck of a year, and a lot of it was awful even without Covid gumming up the works. I think it's best to just move on. Goodness.But Sir and I kicked off 2021 in a HUGE… Read More
2020-03-27 16:50
Sir:"Just because I'm saying it in the form of a question does not mean I am asking." Read More
2020-01-04 04:35
Stuff has been pretty rough lately. I don't know if I have the words or energy to get into everything.Yesterday, Sir decided that I was to get a beating. That I needed one. I agreed with him… Read More
2019-12-26 03:14
Merry Christmas 2019 from our home to yours! Read More
2019-12-18 01:20
Sir has been struggling with deciding what my winter uniform will be. He likes me having a uniform. But he also acknowledges that my original uniform would not be practical for the winter … Read More
2019-12-03 03:42
Life can just get so... stressful sometimes.I am really truly excited to get married. I love Sir, and I want to spend my life with him.But wedding planning is a lot of work! I see why they h… Read More
2019-09-28 02:33
My uncle is a historian and he posted this on his social media this week:I had wondered if this was actually real. If it was, I thought maybe they invented it as a way to discipline children… Read More
2019-09-24 03:08
Sir made some decisions about the uniform. The A-shirt stands. I've been wearing it for about a week and a half now.It is taking some getting used to, but in general I like it. I do feel a l… Read More
2019-09-17 03:30
Sir and I have just returned from a fantastic vacation to the Outer Banks.I haven't been able to relax like this in a long while. We rented this baller-ass house with friends. It slept 14, h… Read More
2019-09-02 12:32
Sir and I have not had much time to ourselves this month. Every day I have had off either Sir was not off or I have had an obligation. We are trying to make sure we make private time for eac… Read More
2019-08-28 00:27
There is more to the uniform story here.After the comments my last post, where Sir was thinking (key word here) about having me wear a black leotard as a uniform, I feel the need t… Read More
2019-08-16 19:52
Sir says that he is thinking about modifying my current dress code a little.As of right now, when I am not at work, or working out, I am to wear a dress or skirt. I do own some leggings to w… Read More
2019-08-12 03:11
It seemed like it had been a good long while since Sir and I got to engage in any real sex or kink or scene. We'd been on conflicting schedules, and the last few times we did get a chance, s… Read More
2019-08-05 00:46
One night after work, Sir let me know that something was going to go down after dinner. I love that; the anticipation. Thinking about it during our meal.After dinner and a shower, Sir w… Read More
2019-08-01 00:12
Just a little photo from when Sir tied me up last week. We DID get things back on track. I like the symmetry and the feet.I find it amusing that our vacuum cleaner and dance pad are back the… Read More
2019-07-22 01:57
So, a few weeks ago, Sir got bit by the play-bug and brought out some toys.I was excited! It had been a good long while.He decided to use the wrist and ankle cuffs he recently purchased. The… Read More
2019-06-24 14:30
A friend of mine is getting married and has asked me to be her maid of honor. I am happy to do it.I have been in quite a few weddings. I have been a maid of honor four times now, and in 8 we… Read More
2019-06-20 01:19
Sir is stroking my butt one night while we are in bed waiting to fall asleep.He stops."...What..." I say."It's nothing," he says."Just that I can feel your heartbeat . . . through your ass."… Read More
2019-06-05 01:51
We are both still in the glow of the newly-engaged.I am extremely happy and continually staring at my ring, which feels uncharacteristic for me. But as I never wear rings, and only wear jewe… Read More
2019-05-28 03:04
We went away this weekend to visit friends in another state.While we were away - Sir asked me to marry him! Of course, I said YES!He got down on one knee in a semi-secluded treehouse. It was… Read More
2019-05-21 17:50
You may or may not know, that in my private life, I have a dress code from Sir. I am to wear skirts or dresses. I may wear leggings underneath them when the weather calls for it.Sir wants to… Read More
2019-05-18 18:25
I've been struggling a lot lately. For months, if I'm being honest. Just in general, and it feels to me like it's with everything. With the stress at my job, with dealing with my family, wit… Read More
2019-05-13 17:39
Sir and I haven't been getting a whole lot of time together lately. We typically don't have the same days off. And when we do, there are usually other commitments.So we decided that once a m… Read More
2019-05-09 11:17
Sir bestowed upon me a new gift recently.These:We had a nice set of leather cuffs, but one of them broke. One of the ankle cuffs.It's probably been years since that happened. Sir finally rep… Read More
2019-05-06 03:21
I am freshly showered, nude, and told to stand in the middle of our bedroom.Sir ties my hands, something we have not done in awhile.Circling me... a pinch here, a tap there."Are you cold?""Y… Read More
2019-05-01 19:17
Have any of you watched Bonding on Netflix?Sir and I just binged the series.If you've seen it - what do you think? Read More
2019-04-26 16:35
I decided to be a dork and continue my tradition of making Sir an Easter basket this year.I think I may have went a little overboard.There's a bunch of stuff in there, including cookies (he… Read More
2019-04-21 12:59
Happy Easter to my kinky peeps! Read More
2019-04-08 02:26
I know, it has been a long time. Over four months. Things just got... unmanageable for me. I am hoping that has now changed. I have been trying to change things in my own life so that it wil… Read More
2018-11-13 22:05
So, it's been two and a half months since I engaged with my blog, or really, with other people's blogs.Things just got... stressful. In so many ways. And I really just couldn't deal. I still… Read More
2018-08-28 01:27
We're having a housewarming shindig in a couple of weeks and we've been working on getting the house minimally prepared for such an event. As of right now... it's not. This is where a lot of… Read More
2018-08-07 00:59
On the sidewalk of a house down our street, this fixture is secured into the cement:It is neat to live in an area with so much history! We live in an historic district, and it's really cool… Read More
2018-07-29 12:38
I'm slowly catching up here in blogland. Slowly, haha. It's a lot to catch up on!Sir and I are working on the house and working on us. D/s has gone just a little to the wayside. My collars a… Read More
2018-07-21 16:36
We're continuing to slowly work on the house. Since everything is not set up, there's an awful lot of echo in our place.Last week, Sir was giving me a spanking. You could absolutely hear the… Read More
2018-07-14 16:35
This long post is long.We're finally here in our new apartment, moving in July 1st! We have the first floor and basement of a cute rowhome. We didn't have internet for the past two week… Read More
2018-06-30 03:14
There's been way too much going on lately. It just seems that everything bad is happening, and everything is a hassle.I'll get into the events of the past few weeks in a few days. Tonight I… Read More
2018-06-03 12:09
Sometimes it can be hard for me to appreciate the good. Right now I just feel like life is hard and we're constantly getting shit on. Just when things seem to be on the up, it's time for the… Read More
2018-05-25 19:28
I've been a little MIA lately, and I expect that will be the norm for the next several weeks until we move and are settled into the new place. There's just... a lot.I ended up really injurin… Read More
2018-05-15 18:50
Lately, I've been feeling like things are just too much. I have too much to do. I've been too much in charge. And the few things I *wish* I could be in charge of (like my body working) are o… Read More
2018-05-14 14:39
Things have felt so crazy here lately. If it wasn't for Fit for Friday, I probably wouldn't have posted at all in the past three weeks.I don't think it is going to slow down until mid-summer… Read More
2018-05-12 02:29
Fit for Friday!!! I'm liking FFF not only for the health challenge, but this has become where I've started doing my "regular life" updates each week as well.Great news this week. Sir and I g… Read More
2018-05-07 02:46
Super late with my Fit for Friday. It is Sunday night right now, ha. Better late than never, though!Life has been crazy this week. I worked overtime 4/5 of my work days. I went to sport… Read More
2018-04-27 11:53
Fit for Friday!I'm back from my work trip. It was a good trip, and I feel I learned a lot. I definitely did not work out much, and I overindulged on the food. But I feel that life is m… Read More
2018-04-24 21:39
I am happily on my business trip. So far, it has been pretty good, except for missing Sir. We did a puzzle room as a teambuilding exercise, then went to dinner at this historic tavern, where… Read More
2018-04-22 03:52
Squeezing in Fit for Friday!Really crazy busy this week. Sir started his new job. We're apartment hunting. Work issues causing me to stay late. Volunteering, too. I'm gonna do a quick u… Read More
2018-04-18 01:58
Last Tuesday I was off work. On a lovely weekday. I had a nice lemon tart in a coffee-shop while reading a book. I got my car serviced. I made a nice dinner and spent time with Sir when he g… Read More
2018-04-14 01:44
Time for Fit for Friday!Hope the week is treating you all well. It's been a busy one for me with work and other things, but I'm off this weekend so hopefully I can play catch up, and be… Read More
2018-04-11 21:47
Over five years ago, Sir decided to give me a dress code. I was not to wear pants or shorts anymore. I was to wear skirts and dresses only. I could wear tight leggings under them, for warmth… Read More
2018-04-10 14:35
Heard this oldie but goodie on the radio the other day. It spoke to me; I could see the kink in a song I've always before enjoyed at face value Read More
2018-04-07 11:23
A little late in getting to the Tenth Fit for Friday!This was a busy week. Lots of exercise, lots of traveling. Lots of events. I straight up forgot to weigh in yesterday morning. Then… Read More
2018-04-07 02:11
We all lose sleep over things sometimes.Sometimes it is because we are anxious or worried. Sometimes it is because we are helping others. Sometimes it is because we want to have a little mor… Read More
2018-04-05 10:33
Two weeks ago, Sir went with me to the supermarket. He doesn't usually go with me; it is one of his most hated chores. Our financial division of labor goes such that he pays the rent (and ot… Read More
2018-04-03 10:22
My new "real" garter belt finally came in. I remembered that I still had an Amazon gift card, so I figured I'd take a peek at what they had on there. I chose this one:Rago Women's Six-Strap… Read More
2018-03-31 16:56
Squeezing in this last question on the last day of the month! Phew! Thank you all for your questions. I'd never participated before and wasn't even sure people HAD questions! It was fun!With… Read More
2018-03-30 15:26
9 weeks in - Fit for Friday!I feel better this week, like I'm finally starting to get the hang of this new schedule, sleep deprived and all. I switched back to a black tea in the mornin… Read More
2018-03-28 19:53
I'm nearing the home stretch! Just one more question to answer after this!Jz asked:They've given you a trophy."World's Best _______"What is written in the blank (and why!)?This was really di… Read More
2018-03-26 09:46
Fondles asked:Do you like musicals? And if you do, what's your favorite?I do like musicals! I think Sir probably likes musicals even more than I do, too!I grew up in New York City. Broadway… Read More
2018-03-24 00:00
It's been 8 weeks since Fit for Friday started. That's two months! Wow, what time has flown! This was a good week in general for me. I got to spend more time with Sir. Sir got… Read More
2018-03-22 23:37
Yesterday was fantastic.We got hit by the Nor'Easter. I didn't go into work (with my boss' full approval) and instead worked a little from home. After I realized I wasn't going in, I crawled… Read More
2018-03-22 09:59
Daisy asks:What's your favorite TV show, and what's something you want to try in D/s?Picking a favorite TV show is so hard for me! Sir and I usually watch TV together after dinner. We're alw… Read More
2018-03-20 21:38
Trying to get these questions answered before the end of March (not sure if that will happen, but I do promise to answer them all)!I have two questions to answer today (they both kind of rel… Read More
2018-03-19 16:35
I was a bit cranky this morning.When I am cranky, I usually need one of two things: carbs or caffeine. I mentioned this to Sir. He agreed."Yeah, when you're cranky, I just gotta shove someth… Read More
2018-03-16 23:14
Fit for Friday today. Starting this post after work rather than right when I start my day seems odd to me now. But here it is!I feel like I handled this week pretty well. Maybe this is me st… Read More
2018-03-13 09:47
For Q & A month, Roz asked if I had a favorite implement. Funnily enough, I had already nearly finished writing the following:Do you have a favorite in your kink toybag? If so… Read More
2018-03-10 17:37
I was really pleasantly surprised to see that I actually had questions for Question and Answer month! I've been blogging here for about 7 years now, and I've never participated before.My fir… Read More
2018-03-09 13:28
Another Fit for Friday is here! I made it through the week somehow, hurrah!This was a rough week for me. I started back at my "real" job on Saturday (I work super part-time a… Read More
2018-03-04 17:50
I felt like I had a bell around my neck. Normally, I don't really pay much attention to the sound my collar makes as I move around the house. It does jingle, and Sir absolutely loves that, t… Read More
2018-03-04 00:04
So I've heard that March is a "Question and Answer" month 'round these parts of the blogosphere.Someone recently asked me if I was going to participate (my first question, ha!). Originally… Read More
2018-03-02 19:11
Fifth Fit for Friday is here!I'm not expecting too much for this week. I went to my little cousin's birthday party this past weekend, and it turns out she was really sick, ended up goin… Read More
2018-02-28 13:38
Sir was walking out the door to go to his second job interview of the day."Hey, Sir, come here before you go." I lift my shirt. I'm not wearing a bra."Rub my boob for good luck!" He does, wi… Read More
2018-02-26 15:46
The search continues to find appropriate items to change my wardrobe for Sir. We purchased our first garter belt, and tested it out one night. Lucky I already owned ONE pair of thigh-highs.I… Read More
2018-02-23 13:14
Fourth Fit for Friday is here!I really overdid it on Sunday at sports practice and have been combating a big ol' case of DOMS all week. And not the kind of DOMS I usually like talk… Read More
2018-02-22 14:42
Sunday was a hard day. I was just having "one of those mornings". Where everything seems to be going wrong. Sir accidentally ate my breakfast, and had to be stopped from eating my other brea… Read More
2018-02-20 14:57
Do you ever find that you're much more motivated to do something simply because your Dom told you to do it?The other morning, Sir went to work. Before he went he told me to do two things: Do… Read More
2018-02-18 13:47
The Olympics. I am a pretty huge fan. I don't like to watch much sports on TV - I prefer to watch the few I enjoy in person. The exception for me is the Olympics. I'm pretty much glued to it… Read More
2018-02-17 00:16
Another Fit for Friday is here!Fondles had some interesting articles on her FFF blog about Interval Weight Loss. I looked up more after reading her post. Essentially, you rese… Read More
2018-02-14 22:41
Happy Valentine's Day!I am a happy, corny, type of person that loves little holidays like these. I know that you don't need an excuse to show your partner that you love them. I know that you… Read More
2018-02-12 13:40
So, a few days ago I noticed that I was getting a lot of traffic coming from a Catholic Blog Directory. When I checked out the website, my blog was not linked. Unless maybe they have the wro… Read More
2018-02-09 22:02
It's Fit for Friday! Time to check in.Workouts: I worked out 4/7 days this week. Two sports practices (one was cancelled because of snow), one yoga session, and three calisthenics workouts w… Read More
2018-02-07 18:02
Sir has changed my dress code. As such, we're trying to find new items that will help us in changing some of my wardrobe toward this end.One of them is a garter belt, to hold up my now winte… Read More
2018-02-05 10:22
I'm so glad to be home. I miss my friends, but it is comforting to sleep in your own bed, adhere to your own routine. And be able to hug Sir as much as I want.Last Monday, I got home late an… Read More
2018-02-02 06:20
Fondles started a Fit For Friday blog support group. Initially I didn't think I was going to join in, but they included me anyway and it might be a good thing for awhile. You know… Read More
2018-01-31 04:17
A few days before I left for my trip, Sir had decided that he was bringing this back:This is the first collar we ever had. It was purchased just down the street from Sir's old house back in… Read More
2018-01-27 21:27
Recently, Sir was told by a medical professional that he needs to keep his hands "occupied". Because of the nature of Sir's work, his hands are usually well occupied there.But not so much at… Read More
2018-01-25 23:17
I have been away from Sir for 6 days now. I miss him, but I'm glad to be here. I'm in North Carolina, visiting friends. I am so happy that each time, we pick up right where we left off. I mi… Read More
2018-01-18 20:21
On our Anniversary, Sir brought out a typed document.In it he had listed some changes to my dress code, and to my collar rules.Currently, my dress code states that I am to wear a dress or a… Read More
2018-01-16 04:03
Seven scintillating years with Sir! We had a pretty good day today, and a decent weekend too.Friday night Sir had me bring him some gaming stuff he forgot at home to him at his local gaming… Read More
2018-01-13 00:11
Today, my submission looks like making a 25 minute drive to meet Sir at the game store he frequents on Friday nights. He forgot his cards, and I will bring them to him.He didn't make it a de… Read More
2018-01-10 21:31
Last week, as Sir was walking out the door he said to me:"When I get home tonight, I want you to be ready.""Ready, Sir?""Yes, just ready. Love you."Then he went to work.All day I was wonderi… Read More
2018-01-06 21:04
One of my favorite blogs and people is treasure. A few weeks ago when talking about posting photos she mentioned that she thought about the fact that Sir chooses for us to remain anonymous… Read More
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