You love your Mistress. You would do anything for Her. Unfortunately, for many of us, that sometimes means running ourselves ragged. Between work, family and everything under the sun that we can do to serve our perfect Goddess. It’s easy to take on too much or to reach a point when you can’t take any more.
Being a submissive takes its toll on you emotionally, mentally and physically. This life is not for the weak. Even my daily grind can become overwhelming at times, never mind when we are faced with difficult situations or extra demands.
That’s also when you are most vulnerable to making mistakes and copping a bad attitude. Recognize when you are reaching this state, learn to know your body and mind, and be prepared to talk to your Mistress about it.
You most likely will be quite surprised, by two things.
- She understands that you are human. She doesn’t expect you to have both endless time and boundless energy. But, She can’t read your mind, so She may not recognize that your breaking point is coming.
- She wants you to get rest, and She is perfectly capable of taking care of Herself for a bit. Remember that whole Female Supremacy thing? She doesn’t need you to do everything. She just likes it when you do.
Don’t be afraid to ask for a day off or to go to bed early or anything else that you believe you need. Don’t expect Her to just sign off on you going out for drinks. She wants you to take care of yourself, get some Rest and not do more damage to yourself.
If you’re a good and loyal subby boy, then She will want you to recharge your batteries so you are ready to serve Her better when you return to Her knee. You never know, She may be run down too, and a rest from the hard work of supervising you may be a reward for Her as well.
Needing a night off is hardly a failure on your part. Again, you’re Human. So don’t be afraid to ask.
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