To create and live a good, quality life, it takes lot of effort, dedication, discipline and change. Life has lots of small puzzles to be solved in a perfect picture.

A Guide to Life

What you will read here is not something you can do in a week or a month, this is a project, your life project. Let this be your guideline for a lifetime. Let me explain you how I created a perfect lifestyle, financial freedom.

Freedom

The biggest thing in this life you can accomplish is freedom! Financial freedom, freedom from your parents, your boss, freedom from your fears. A life where you wake up whenever you want and you go to bed with whoever you want whenever you want. When you achieve this lifestyle you can be sure you made it.

Push yourself outside of your comfort zone

Life starts outside of your Comfort Zone. Most people live in a prison of their own minds and beliefs. Push yourself to do things you have never done before, push yourself outside of your comfort zone. You feel bad/nervous doing something? Fear should be your motivator. One thing you have to do as a man is to conquer all your fears. You as a man, you have to be free from all those society influenced fears. Then and only then you will be totally attractive to women and very interesting to everybody else.

Take care of your body

Your body is the only vehicle you have in this life. You can buy everything, but you cannot buy a new body. Reserve an hour a day for your body, take care of your body. It’s a long term investment – go to a gym, work out, do some sports, be active. Do not take your health and body for granted. It won’t stay like that for years. Modern lifestyle is forcing us to be passive all day long, sit in front of our computers in offices and not move much. Life is about moving. Life is moving. For millions of years we were moving, we were hunters, walking, running; the last 50 years we started to do the opposite. Our bodies were not designed to sit all day long. Our bodies were not designed to process fast Food and all the poisons they place there. It’s a time bomb. Therefore take care of your body and your body will take care of you for years. Girls like to have sex with guys who are in shape, just like we like girls who have their bodies in perfect shape. Invest time and energy into your body.

Use your evenings for dates

Fill your evenings with different girls, date as many girls as you can. You do not need to have sex with all of them, but keep your options open. In order for you to get Knowledge and experience for choosing that one special girl to spend your life with one day, you have to go through many of them. You have to gather experience with girls who are too crazy too keep, who are gold diggers, who are just for sex. This is a life skill you have to understand and develop.

Work for yourself

Most of the people today live in a slave mindset. Selling their time and energy for someone else’s dreams. One of the very first decisions in your life you will have to make is:
Will you work to make someone else’s dreams come true or will you work to make your dreams come true. There is no middle ground. Most people on this planet get hired to work on a job they do not like, they do not care about and they are working to make someone else’s dreams and vision come true.
When you are doing what you love, you do not see it as a work, but rather as a pleasure, as a love. One of the first pieces of advice I will give you here, and that’s how I built my dream is to get independent. Instead of selling your time, sell your knowledge, sell your passion. People would buy that. This cannot happen overnight. It’s a process to set up a business and jump from being a slave of modern society to being an entrepreneur. Some people simply do not want to be free, they enjoy and love someone else controlling them. Are you one of those?
The moment you start working for yourself you get lots of free time for your hobbies, activities, for yourself. It is the greatest thing you can do for your time and life.

Eat healthy

The modern food industry is all about profit. They do not care about your health and which poisons they place in the food you eat. One really important part of living a happy life is eating healthy. Eating clean. Try to remove all processed food from your diet: sugar, junk food, unhealthy fats. You will start feeling the difference. The better you eat, the more energy you will have during the day and you will slower the aging process.

Sleep enough

Sleeping is crucial for your body recovery. Testosterone which makes a man a man is built during sleep. So make sure you get a good night’s sleep. Scientists have gone to great lengths to fully understand sleep’s benefits. In studies of humans and other animals, they have discovered that sleep plays a critical role in immune function, metabolism, memory, learning, and other vital functions.

Date multiple girls

Date and have sex with as many girls as possible. Girls and women will teach you some amazing life lessons. After each one of them you will be smarter and wiser. Just follow our player’s rule: Make sure you leave her in a better state than you found her. It doesn’t matter if you have been with her 5 minutes or 5 years, she should go away better than when you met her. Life is too short to spend it with one woman. Enjoy women, have fun with them, love them, take care of them and in return they will give you some of the greatest pleasures you can get in life. You have to experience one-night adventures, long-term relationships, long-distance relationships. The more experience you accumulate in your 20s and 30s, the easier you will be able to find „The Right One“ one day.

Write down a list of sources or things that make you happy

Sit down and think about what really makes you happy. Write down those things on a piece of paper.
Do a list like: drinking good wine, hanging out with friends, dating attractive girls… whatever it is. By the time living on this planet you should have figured out what are the things that make you happy. It’s time to write them down. It’s not as easy as it sounds. Once you write them you will realize you are not doing them that often. Well, now when you know what they are, you should add them to your daily routine as much as possible. Maximize things that make you happy in a day and minimize things that produce negative emotions. That’s how you will start living a happy life.

Learn about everything

Get knowledge about wine, get to know secrets of your city (take a tourist guide), learn about music, movies, history, invest in yourself and gather as much different knowledge as possible. You will meet different girls and different people every day and you should be able to talk about everything. For girls there is nothing better than a guy who can teach them things and who can talk to them for hours about life and other different things that interest her. You as a playboy should have wide and deep knowledge about everything.

Make mistakes with confidence

Mistakes are a part of learning. The only way you can learn something is to do mistakes. Be confident about going out and failing, in anything you do. Remember how you learned to walk? You remember how you learned to ride a bike? Drive a car? Everything in life is done this way, learning = doing mistakes. It’s a part of life.
When a reporter asked Edison “How did it feel to fail 1,000 times attempting to make a light bulb?”, Edison replied “I didn’t fail 1,000 times. I found 1.000 ways how not to make a light bulb”. Be confident, stay positive, experiment and do mistakes.
The way to mastery in anything is through doing mistakes.

Travel

Travel as much as you can in life. It doesn’t matter where, just travel. Each time you come home you will feel wiser, smarter, more educated. Discover the world. We live in the best time in the history of the planet. The generations before us never had this opportunity to hop on a plane and go somewhere for a weekend. You have it. Use it. It won’t stay like this forever. Humans are destroying and killing our beautiful planet. Enjoy it while you can.

Find hobbies

Do things that make you happy. What fills you up with energy? If it is playing tennis or go-kart, do it. You will walk around this planet as a much happier person. No matter how silly your hobby is, do it. Do what makes you happy.

Master the art of time

You feel time flies too fast? There is a way to slow down time, but you have to master the art of controlling your time. Get rid of all Facebook, social media bullshit, do not spend too much time on your cell phone, stop watching TV, and focus on what’s important to you. You will realize you have much more time for everything around you. Don’t let hours just fly, do things instead. The more things you do in a day, the more time you will have. Overload yourself with activities and you will see how time goes slowly.

Focus on yourself, not others

Most people today are focused on making others happy and in that process we forget about our own self. It is a little bit selfish, but that’s life. If you want to be happy you have to do what makes you happy, not others. In your life you will be in many cases in a position where you will be pushed or asked to do something for someone that does not make you happy. It’s OK to help others, but in your daily life you should be doing what you enjoy and what makes you happy. Move your focus from satisfying others to satisfying yourself.

Travel alone

If you’re looking for an ultimate transformation that combines all of the points above, you should travel alone. Traveling with other people can be fun, but you won’t get the opportunity to truly get out of your comfort zone. You’ll be exposed to different social cultures, break social norms that you didn’t even know existed, and ultimately be forced to burst out of your small bubble. Bring as little as possible and fit everything into one backpack.

Plan nothing, except for a one-way flight ticket to your destination — figure everything else out when you’re there. Trust me, you’ll be just fine. It won’t be easy initially, but don’t get discouraged. Being comfortable with the uncomfortable will grow with time. I continue to struggle with it every day, as do many others. But you need to get started today.

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