Many boyfriends in a relationship complain that their girls are no longer the same happy-go lucky type,they fell in Love with at the first place.The question that usually troubles them is what exactly made their girls act like crazy. Boys are unable to comprehend this changed behavior while in a relationship and hence reduce their girl friend to be mere ‘psychos’.
First thing I want to tell you is that girl who is may be behaving weirdly with you these days, is surely not a PSYCHO Girlfriend of yours. Why you think her as a psycho girlfriend because she have just become over possessive about you and maybe all she wants is your attention and your love. A girl usually acts like a psycho when insecurity of losing you creeps in her mind. Trust me,she loves you like mad. Maybe she is behaving this way because she is afraid of losing you.How long does it take you to reply to her calls or texts? Do you bother to contact her first?When was the last time you planned to make her feel like a princess? Ask these questions before you reduce your girlfriend to mere psycho. You need to understand things from her point of view.
If I were to say something , I will just say that “IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND IS NOT A PSYCHO, SHE ISNT IN LOVE’. Insecurity, jealousy all comes in abundance with a girl who really loves you and cares for your well being.I am just trying to make you understand that with passing time girls tend to become emotionally attached with those they connect with. So if the girl is really serious for you and is insecure in some ways,she may behave that way. If she is taking pains to make things work and is getting anxious about your every little move, all you need to do is spend more time with her.Guys, all she needs is your time and things will be back to normal. Maybe she is feeling unwanted in the relationship or maybe she is unable to confront you with her insecurities.
A girl behaves in such a manner,one thing is sure that she is in love with you deeply.But at the back of her mind,the fear of getting separated from you lingers, which has made her behave the way she is. Maybe you are not able to fulfill her expectations.
You need to see things from her perspective. This is all I can say. You are lucky if she really questions your every move and is putting in extra effort to make you happy. If you guys have been in relationship for years, she is bound to be in love with you even more. All you need to do is tell her that you will love her till your last breath. Actions speak louder than words. So make sure that you are constantly doing things for her and I am sure she will be back to her normal self.
About author: This article is written by Vagisha Arora and published under XoToZo Writers (a Team of creative writers). Vagisha is a professional writer who is currently pursuing MA(English) from DU. You can contact her at [email protected] .
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