Making a girlfriend seems an impossible task to many boys out there.Many a times what stops you from proposing a girl you really like is the fear of rejection and losing a great friend.However,this is not as tough as it may seem to be.You just need to play some simple mind games and I bet you she will start falling for you.Just make sure you are following some of the things I am going to tell you and she will crave for your attention as much as you do.
So,most important of all is not giving her too much importance and attention she may be seeking at the first place.Its human tendency to get attracted to things which are unapproachable and hard to get.Similarly,girls are attracted to guys who are confident and not clingy.I am not saying that you got to ignore the girl you love.You simply need to play slow and steady.And trust me,slow and steady wins the race.Rushing things may ruin things.
Girls are usually attracted to guys who charming and have a great personality.Personality here,doesn’t include your looks.Be yourself and be truthful with her.Its basically the way you carry yourself.So all you need to have is a confident look in your eyes,charming smile on your face before you approach her every time for a talk.Your way of dressing also becomes a part of your personality.So make sure you are always dressed suitably when you are around your girl.
Another important thing involves listening to each and every detail she tells you with a lot of interest and intent.No wonder she will love to see you taking the pains of remembering the details relating to her life.Also make sure that you keep reminding her subtly that you still remember the things she told you a few months ago.This way you will be hinting that you are capable of being a suitable lovable boyfriend in near future.Also try to connect with her more on an emotional level .You need to make sure that she laughs and giggles with you.
Another thing which is very crucial would be the compatibility and understanding.I am sure you would want to be with a girl who shares similar interests as you and you guys are on a same page.The girl you are falling for,wont think twice before she agrees to your proposal if you guys are two faces of same coin.So make sure that the girl you approach has many things in common with you.This will only increase your chances of becoming the love of her life.
One of the last aspects you can be focusing on is flirting and playing around with her to be sure of her feelings before you make the next move.Giving indirect hints etc will help you know whether she is interested in you or not .So if she is positive and replies to your indirect questions in a positive manner,you can be sure of your next move.Just make sure that you are giving adequate time to yourself before you think of entering into a relationship.
These are some of the things which you need to keep in mind if you are planning to propose the girl you like.
About author: This article is written by Vagisha Arora and published under XoToZo Writers (a Team of creative writers). Vagisha is a professional writer who is currently pursuing MA(English) from DU. You can contact her at [email protected] .
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