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The Problem With Meghan Trainor’s “No”

She’s done it again. After her last album of flawed-messaged hits like “All About That Bass” and “Dear Future Husband”, Meghan Trainor is back with new a new brunette hairstyle and new single “No”.

There’s no denying that the tune is catchy, and it will strike a chord with every woman who’s been clubbing and has a few horror stories from creepy guys on nights out. But let’s take a look at the lyrics:

I think it’s so cute

And I think it’s so sweet

How you let your friends encourage you to try and talk to me

But let me stop you there

Oh, before you speak

Na to the ah to the no no no

My name is “no”

My sign is “no”

My number is “no”

You need to let it go

You need to let it go

Na to the ah to the no no no

Here’s the problem.

It takes balls to chat someone up so don’t be a dick.

Now let’s make this clear. I’m not Talking about the guys who will try and grab you on the dancefloor, start touching you when you don’t want them to, or put the hand between your legs when you’re walking up the stairs (this actually happened to me). Unwanted physical contact= not cool, so these guys you can reject as brutally as you like. But a guy just talking to you? He might be nice. He might not even be trying to get with you. But Meghan Trainor rejected this poor guy before he even said anything. Give the guy a break. Even if he’s completely not your type, it takes balls to approach someone, so at least talk to him for a bit before using the “I’m a lesbian” excuse, so you don’t crush his confidence completely.

Missed opportunities.

I have this friend who can get any guy eating out of the palm of her hand. Even the most notorious womanizers out there have begged her for a commitment. It helps that she’s Eastern Europoean and a solid 9, possibly even a 10, but the thing that really gets these guys is that she’s very outgoing. Whenever I’ve been out with her and someone starts talking to us, no matter how weird, she always chats away to them and entertains them with all her stories.

And that’s something we should all try to emulate. You wouldn’t run a marathon without training beforehand, so how do you expect to bowl the hot guy over with your breathtaking charisma when he comes along if you don’t practice talking to strangers? So be super-social with everyone. After all, that guy might not be your type, but you never know who his friends are…

The one exception.

The one exception to this rule is if you are white and in a developing country. Guys in bars out there look at you and all they see is £££, and if you’re polite to them they will take it as a come-on and not leave you alone.

So in that situation, all you have to say is na to the ah to the no no no.

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