2019-07-15 14:08
Missing our former partner may be the most defining emotion we experience after the end of a relationship. It’s absolutely natural to miss someone, especially if that person played a l… Read More
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Advice on how to get over your ex girlfriend and how to get over your breakup for men. I will teach you about surviving, dealing and coping with a breakup.
2019-05-20 08:43
I worked with a business coach over the span of a couple of months. As of this writing we’re no longer working together and also not in touch with one another. The reason I think this… Read More
2019-05-16 07:25
I received an email from a reader and would like to take the time to respond. I will comment inline as I think that will give us all the most insights. Subject: Please help me get my ex back… Read More
2018-12-14 15:38
During a negotiation, one of the most powerful positions to have, is one where you have the power to walk away. If the other person needs something from you more than you need something from… Read More
2018-12-09 20:22
When we’re in love we feel amazing and we tend to think the person we’re in love with is uniquely suited to be with us. We believe they are irreplaceable. It takes a failed relat… Read More
2018-11-27 04:04
One of the most valuable lessons there is to learn about weathering the emotional storm of a breakup is realizing that the pain, the sadness, the negative emotions, all come in waves. When w… Read More
2018-11-21 10:53
Here’s another common trap I see guys fall into. They say something like this: I shouldn’t be feeling this way it’s been 6 months (or longer)! or I shouldn’t be feeli… Read More
2018-11-05 07:38
I often get questions about what to do with gifts that were a present from the ex. Throwing away seems too harsh, or nonsensical (in the case of, say, a fine watch). Giving it back is a not… Read More
2018-01-31 16:53
Hi Jesse, I think it’s sugar coating reality when you say she isn’t lying. Well I can’t agree with it. When a woman left you for another guy and goes into the relationship… Read More
2018-01-20 11:56
There’s a class of reasons for breaking up with someone that I call “The easy let-down”. It’s when someone’s feelings have changed to the point where they don&r&hell…Read More
2018-01-20 11:45
First off, thank you for writing this post. I related with a lot of the points you made. My girlfriend left me a couple of weeks ago and I’m currently trying to piece myself together… Read More
2018-01-05 09:44
We’ve been dating 3 years. I cheated a year ago. Thought we were past it. She dumped me a few days ago saying she’s not over it. Finally stopped being irrational and crazy emotio… Read More
2017-11-21 12:36
From Alex: My girlfriend of 4.5 years recently broke up with me and it has really screwed me up. I am someone who is ready to settle down and she was also the same. I met her when she was st… Read More
2017-11-06 13:44
The authors of “The Grief Recovery Handbook” describe grief as the set of conflicting emotions that accompany a change in a familiar pattern. That’s a broad definition, and… Read More
2017-11-06 13:41
Meet Steven. Steven is in pain. His girlfriend told him she needs space. She doesn’t like how he focuses on her flaws and not his own. She says she’s tried telling him, but he do… Read More
2017-10-28 15:47
Hi Jesse. A month ago my fiancé dropped the bomb on me that she’s not ready for marriage and wants to be single and independent. We’d been together for exactly two years a… Read More
2017-10-22 23:18
Hi Jesse, Still feeling like shit it’s been roughly three months since this break up. Finding out she’s pregnant and then just the other week found out she’s been cheating… Read More
2017-10-14 13:57
Hi Jesse, Just wanted to say a big congratulations on the site. The advice here is pretty much exactly what I needed and relates so closely to how I’m feeling. I am 26 and my (ex) girl… Read More
2017-09-07 13:52
When my college girlfriend left me for another guy while we were on a break, I had isolated myself somewhat from my friends. Looking back I think I sensed she didn’t mix well with my f… Read More
2017-07-13 20:36
For many of us, our way of dealing with adversity is some form of thinking. “Oh shit, X happened. What does that mean? What should I do?” When faced with adversity we try to thin… Read More
2017-06-21 23:13
In Attached psychiatrist and neuroscientist Amir Levine and psychologist Rachel S.F. Heller break down our current understanding of Attachment Theory, how it shapes our relationships an… Read More
2017-05-09 17:36
This is an interview with Carl, an old friend from my uni days. I wanted to interview Carl because he’s been in several long-term relationships and he’s lived through several bre… Read More
2017-05-04 20:31
This is the first a new interviews series I’m doing. In this interview I talk to William, a good friend of mine from college who (at the time of writing) went through a recent breakup… Read More
2017-04-25 16:53
From “Why we love” by Helen Fisher: Why do lovers continue to hope, even when the dice of life come up relentlessly against them? Most still hope the relationship will spring bac… Read More
2017-04-16 22:57
The quickest way to avoid more pain than you’re already feeling is to make sure you don’t see your ex-girlfriend anymore and aren’t reminded of her anymore. This is incredi… Read More
2016-06-25 17:48
Throughout the aftermath of your breakup you will feel a wide range of emotions. Some will be more overwhelming than others and some will be less pleasant than others. Our goal is to pr… Read More
2016-06-21 05:38
A large part, if not the most part, of our behavior is guided by our unconsciousness. Who we are attracted to, when we get mad, what we think about something — we don’t get to *c… Read More
2016-06-18 09:15
One of the natural reactions to adversity is viewing yourself as the victim of some external circumstance. We find ourselves in pain and ask “what caused this?” The answer, invar… Read More
2016-06-17 05:30
You may be reading this and still very much feel in love with your ex-girlfriend. There may have been many signs that would indicate that the relationship is over and she wants nothing to do… Read More
2016-06-16 05:31
From Why We Love: Adversity often feeds the flame. I call this curious phenomenon “frustration-attraction” but it is better known as the “Romeo and Juliet effect.” So… Read More
2016-06-16 05:20
Grief is the normal reaction to a loss of any kind. The feelings you are having are normal and natural. However, in a society where we are increasingly conditioned to expect instant solution… Read More
2016-06-15 06:04
The dictionary definition of being addicted is being physically and mentally dependent on a particular substance. Typically we associate this condition with drug use, but doesn’t heart… Read More
2016-06-14 06:00
Generally, the initiator of the breakup has an easier time getting over the relationship. If you’re reading this, more often than not, you’re not the initiator. So that will make… Read More
2016-06-14 05:49
Growing up as children we are constantly observing the world around us, absorbing it, and learning what lessons we need to learn to help us to prepare for the road ahead. So too with attachm… Read More
2016-06-13 06:00
If you say “She is the only one I could ever love,” you feel it is true. This statement is a feeling disguised as a fact. [1] When certain thoughts are played over and over again… Read More
2016-06-02 05:45
In the Why it hurts we learned that, essentially, a breakup is supposed to hurt. The pain we feel is Nature’s way of telling us that there is something here we need to avoid to im… Read More
2016-05-31 05:55
An excerpt from my book: In order to alleviate some of the pain you’re feeling, it’s worth understanding why those emotions are there in first place. By understanding their purpo… Read More
2016-05-30 05:59
If I go through the emails I get from readers it is always painfully apparent how much hurting goes on. Infidelity, abuse, insensitivity — you name it. Often times guys will descr… Read More
2016-02-02 07:44
Getting dumped and having your ex-girlfriend leave you for another guy is the most painful thing I have ever experience and many of the guys that have commented on this blog would probably a… Read More
2015-08-27 20:00
When you’re going through a breakup you’re going to be hit by waves of emotions. Waves turn out to be the perfect metaphor for several reasons. Think of yourself as swimming in t… Read More
2015-08-27 06:00
Here’s one of the poems I wrote when going through my breakup. It’s translated from Dutch to English and doesn’t rhyme, but that shouldn’t matter: Sometimes I&r&hell…Read More
2015-06-28 20:48
From Chaz in Mexico: I am on a really good path to becoming a better man, we broke up two months ago after 7 years together. I am physically and mentally ok. The only problem is this hunch a… Read More
2015-04-11 13:58
From Brian in the US: I am trying so hard to stop communicating with my ex. Your articles are very helpful. I feel so “weak”. I am 45 years old and my ex was my first love. I was… Read More
2015-04-05 20:56
Have you ever felt a certain way about something only later to completely lose that feeling and even to have a hard time remembering how you felt in the first place. Sometimes you&rsquo&hell…Read More
2015-03-29 18:20
Hey Jesse, I love your website and have started to really get into the reading. I am coming out of a 7 year relationship and it is truly horrible. I have a particular problem, we work togeth… Read More
2015-02-28 18:56
The breakup that was the catalyst for this website was back in 2010. I went through a lot of different emotions and only once I had overcome most of them, did I start writing this blog. Some… Read More
2014-05-18 14:12
From a reader: Hey Jesse! My girlfriend and I had been dating on and off for about 3 and a half years, now that we are both about to go off to college things got stressful and we started fig… Read More
2014-05-10 15:23
After my breakup, several years ago, I decided I wanted to get better at interacting with women. I had always been nervous and shy around women and it left me without any control over my lov… Read More
2014-05-07 18:54
From a reader: Hi, my girlfriends been left the house now for 6 weeks saying she wants time and space so that is what I have given her. It’s been tough really tough. Anyway I found out… Read More
2006-06-07 11:16
In this post I want to cover the posts I’ve written on this website to help you get over your ex-girlfriend. (This is a work in progress post) Stage 1: Dealing Step 1 of getting over y… Read More
2006-06-07 11:16
A recurring pattern I see in breakups is guys being utterly shocked and dismayed at how fast their ex-girlfriend has moved on. Perhaps she started seeing someone new within days of your brea… Read More
2006-06-07 11:16
You’ve only truly recovered from a breakup or divorce when you are able to start dating again while you feeling good about who you are, what you stand for and you feel you’re abl… Read More
2006-06-07 11:16
stages – for lack of a better word – namely: dealing with a breakup, healing a broken heart and moving on after a breakup. They’re not really stages, because they may very… Read More
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