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How To Get My Boyfriend Back After I Drove Him Away.

One of the questions that you may ask yourself is how to get my boyfriend back. The practice of dating
is full of ups and downs, and most of the downs are the result of a misunderstanding. So when you are
trying to figure out what went wrong, here are some clues as to where men get the wrong message and
end up backing off.

Many men back off for a reason that seems counter intuitive. By trying too hard to please the guy,
serving his every need, in the end you are selling yourself as a doormat in his eyes. The idea is
to be respectful with who you are, and how you sell yourself. That is not to say you should be dominant,
but that you should say that being someone who is respectable is how to get my boyfriend back. Men do
like to be treated well at times, but they want women who can standup for themselves.

Another thing that will send them away is to talk about your ex's. Men are competing when they are dating.
They are thinking of the other men who are potential competitors to their efforts, so when you mention
other men in your life you are giving them something to compare against. Again, this is not to say you
should not say anything. Background and personal history is important. Knowing that you dated one man
throughout high school and college is important. Telling your date that he is a football player with 20
awards, his game stats, where his tattoos are, etc. is too much. Focusing on one ex will sell the idea that
either you still have feelings for him, or if it is all negative, you will cause your date to over analyze

Business like behavior, or conversely being too promiscuous, will work against you. The general ideal is a
lady like or feminine behavior. Too much on the skin side can work against you, but being boyish will also
push away prospects. You should be feminine, conservative, and someone who is not cheap or intimidating.

Pressuring him is another turn off. This includes trying to get him to define his role and analyze who he
is and how he feels. Men tend not to like having their feelings challenged, and if he has an idea that is
proven wrong, then it can send him packing.

Another thing to send him packing is to try and change him. You can't. Men think that being steady means
that you want him for him, so trying to change him is going to tell him he has a serious problem. Even if
he does not have a problem, trying to change him will challenge his feelings and strip him of who he is.
Let him be him. If you need something else, find someone else.

No one is perfect, and no relationship is perfect; but when you are trying to figure out how to get my
boyfriend back, these are steps to make sure you do not scare him off.
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