It is very important to know and also understand how things are going in your life at a given point in time.
Clearly knowing and articulating what's going on is a very liberating exercise.
Of course, understanding why you are not happy and content with your life doesn't mean the issues will be resolved.
It will only make you feel better about your ability to handle them in a positive way.
Or rather your ability to handle yourself in a positive way!
So why are you not happy and content with your life?
Your career is not going anywhere.
The company you work with is a lala-company where merit and competence has no value.
The only thing that matters is loyalty to the top man.
The person you have been forced to report into doesn't even know how to spell the word "merit".
He is a double-timing, scheming manipulator whose only qualification is his blind loyalty to the to top man.
This man is no better than an ass with a stinky hole.
This man spends his energy in playing games behind your back and in performing acts and saying words just to disparge you.
You have merit and competency. You lack loyalty and that's your undoing.
Yes sir, you are forced to report into a "yes sir sttoge".
And of course, there will be some more of his ilk. As expected, there will be some more stooges when you work in such an organization.
Either you find a may to move on or suffer the agony seeing the stooges and the top man do all kinds of non-sense.
Remember, to stay calm and positive till the time you have to bear the agony.
You marriage is not going anywhere.
This can be very painful.
And if this happens along with the challenges you have on the career front, thr agony gets compounded multile times.
Your wife is not emotionally mature to realize the value of marriage.
Her own wishes are the only things that matter to her. Your wishes can go down the drain.
Yor crave caring touch, physical proximity and yes sex too. She is frigid and toxic.
She takes your advances and initiatives to get closer, both physically nd emotionally, as if she is doing an obligation to you.
She would say, "what's so big deal about it?".
And answer, "what's not so big deal about it?.
A good marriage rests on three key pillars - physical, mental and spiritual alignment. If one or more or missing than your marriage has no meaning.
In fact, even to be good friends, the above is a sine-qua-non.
The relaton between a man and his wife is different from the relation between a man and any other woman in just one way - intimacy and oneness.
Ideally speaking, in a good realtion, a man should not have physical relation is any other woman other than his life.
When your wife doesn't understand the above, it can be difficult for you.
So if your wife does all kinds of non-sense to make you feel as if you are not wanted by her, you are not important for her, your needs to get intimate are not valid you would feel the pain.
In addition, if your wife doesn't have intimate talks with you, about your needs, desires and anxeities and about your lives together something is really seriously wrong.
Such a relation is actually walking on crippled legs and will not walk any smoothly and very far.
One of the choices you have is to either go with a divorce which is not a good idea especially if you have kids.
The other choice is to beomce detached from your wife. Just imaging that's its over (it actually is, so this is more of a realization that its over) and don't waste your energy on her.
It is okay to not have a fulfilled marital life. And that is so because whatever it is, in the long run nothing really matter since in the long run all of us are inevtiably dead!
So take philosphical solace in your impending death, which may still be far away but which is slowly progressing nearer you every month.
Your wife doesn't deserve your best if she doesn't give her best. Period.
And don't think marrying another woman will fix that. Maybe there are issues with you. You never know.
Your health is going somwhere and your age is going the other way.
Remember this, you will be dead one day. Maybe tomorrow.
What are the ways to die?
So you would want to take extreme care of your health.
Maybe the sights and sounds that you expericence when you visit a hospital bothers you very much.
You are distressed and moved when you see a very old, frail person who is probably knocking on detah's door.
You get reminded of the fact that you will be that person one day!
You are worried about becoming blind when you become old due to acute myopia.
You are also worred about the above impacting other members of your family, espcially your son.
You think it is so unfair that you have to spend a lot of money get spectacles made for you and your family.
You also hate when you have to spend money pn buying medicines for your daugther. And espcially so since she doesn't seem to care about the importance of a healthy diet.
Like the above, there may be several other things that may be hte reason why you are not happy and content with your life.
So why you are not happy and content with your life?
You should know. That would help.
Clearly knowing and articulating what's going on is a very liberating exercise.
Of course, understanding why you are not happy and content with your life doesn't mean the issues will be resolved.
It will only make you feel better about your ability to handle them in a positive way.
Or rather your ability to handle yourself in a positive way!
So why are you not happy and content with your life?
Your career is not going anywhere.
The company you work with is a lala-company where merit and competence has no value.
The only thing that matters is loyalty to the top man.
The person you have been forced to report into doesn't even know how to spell the word "merit".
He is a double-timing, scheming manipulator whose only qualification is his blind loyalty to the to top man.
This man is no better than an ass with a stinky hole.
This man spends his energy in playing games behind your back and in performing acts and saying words just to disparge you.
You have merit and competency. You lack loyalty and that's your undoing.
Yes sir, you are forced to report into a "yes sir sttoge".
Either you find a may to move on or suffer the agony seeing the stooges and the top man do all kinds of non-sense.
Remember, to stay calm and positive till the time you have to bear the agony.
You marriage is not going anywhere.
This can be very painful.
And if this happens along with the challenges you have on the career front, thr agony gets compounded multile times.
Your wife is not emotionally mature to realize the value of marriage.
Her own wishes are the only things that matter to her. Your wishes can go down the drain.
Yor crave caring touch, physical proximity and yes sex too. She is frigid and toxic.
She takes your advances and initiatives to get closer, both physically nd emotionally, as if she is doing an obligation to you.
She would say, "what's so big deal about it?".
And answer, "what's not so big deal about it?.
A good marriage rests on three key pillars - physical, mental and spiritual alignment. If one or more or missing than your marriage has no meaning.
In fact, even to be good friends, the above is a sine-qua-non.
The relaton between a man and his wife is different from the relation between a man and any other woman in just one way - intimacy and oneness.
Ideally speaking, in a good realtion, a man should not have physical relation is any other woman other than his life.
When your wife doesn't understand the above, it can be difficult for you.
So if your wife does all kinds of non-sense to make you feel as if you are not wanted by her, you are not important for her, your needs to get intimate are not valid you would feel the pain.
In addition, if your wife doesn't have intimate talks with you, about your needs, desires and anxeities and about your lives together something is really seriously wrong.
Such a relation is actually walking on crippled legs and will not walk any smoothly and very far.
One of the choices you have is to either go with a divorce which is not a good idea especially if you have kids.
The other choice is to beomce detached from your wife. Just imaging that's its over (it actually is, so this is more of a realization that its over) and don't waste your energy on her.
It is okay to not have a fulfilled marital life. And that is so because whatever it is, in the long run nothing really matter since in the long run all of us are inevtiably dead!
So take philosphical solace in your impending death, which may still be far away but which is slowly progressing nearer you every month.
Your wife doesn't deserve your best if she doesn't give her best. Period.
And don't think marrying another woman will fix that. Maybe there are issues with you. You never know.
Your health is going somwhere and your age is going the other way.
Remember this, you will be dead one day. Maybe tomorrow.
What are the ways to die?
- You become too old
- You meet with an accident
- You are killed by someone
- You become terminally sick with disease
In any case, your health will start depleting as you start aging.
You may have acute myopia.
You may have pain in you left knee area,
Your tongue may have cuts.
You may have had pain and sensation in your left shoulder.
The middle bone of your nose is bent one way.
You feel a burning sensation around the heart and chest area.
You have issues with your digestive syste,
And so on and on and on.
The key thing is, health is a blessing if you have it in a good shape and it is a curse if it is not in a good shape.
So you would want to take extreme care of your health.
Maybe the sights and sounds that you expericence when you visit a hospital bothers you very much.
You are distressed and moved when you see a very old, frail person who is probably knocking on detah's door.
You get reminded of the fact that you will be that person one day!
You are worried about becoming blind when you become old due to acute myopia.
You are also worred about the above impacting other members of your family, espcially your son.
You think it is so unfair that you have to spend a lot of money get spectacles made for you and your family.
You also hate when you have to spend money pn buying medicines for your daugther. And espcially so since she doesn't seem to care about the importance of a healthy diet.
Like the above, there may be several other things that may be hte reason why you are not happy and content with your life.
So why you are not happy and content with your life?
You should know. That would help.
