Modern child Support is a failure too often more than it's a benefit... then society is saddled with the shortcomings caused by the burdens the system only really seems to only grow larger.
What can we do to be more effective in all of these areas of failure ?
Taking a man's license so he can NEVER pay child support is the most idiotic action of all !!!
Then, he can never be in proper alignment...
...and when may his Children see him and he they??? (or she too, yes)
Who is this helping ??? ...as you contemplate your answers, it's your tax $$$ paying for the shortcomings...and look at the damages acruuing around you in society today ... Worth it ???
I have ZERO children...
...but I've paid child support !!!...and I've many a friend who see their children not, and are left NO avenue to correct the current perdicament.
It's not a gender argument either, but it is a practical and governmental argument and we need deep deep changes effective immediately.
Why permanently smash a man's soul ?
It's one of the saddest things I've watched repeat over and over, and it's no better for any of these children... they ABSOLUTELY suffer the worst ;(
The children causing the problems of today are the children of my generation, and that rips my soul out and shreds my heart...I thought we would make such drastic changes and differences... in another direction.
I pray this selfishness is cured with better practices from more committed souls.
