Yes! To be or not to be is the matter of choice. There are certain times in one's life when it seems difficult, in fact very difficult. That Difficult Situation is actually an opportunity which can either break you or make you.
Attitude is an individual's way to respond to any situation or rather it is a way of thinking about something. It can further be explained as an individual's feelings/emotions, behavior and beliefs. Knowledge, ego, adaptive, anger, self-esteem, confidence etc. constitute an individual's attitude.
No one is perfect, neither me nor you. There are strengths and weaknesses that we all possess and our strengths and weaknesses combine make our attitude. However, what is important is defining what Right Attitude is?
You may ask, what right Attitude is? How can one define it? How do I know if I have the right attitude? Should I ask people or should I ask myself?
Self-reasoning is an important skill to possess in order to develop Right Attitude.
Before asking world, ask yourself. And that brings me to a point where being opinionated is good but listening to others and understanding their perspective is equally important. Right Attitude is admitting your mistakes and correcting oneself. I cannot be right all the time and whenever I realize my mistake I admit it and learn the right thing. Learning something new from someone does not make me small.
Do not spend too much time listening to people because there are some who will show you the right path while others may not. So, what should you do? What can help you?
How much do you see of an Iceberg?
Attitude is an individual's way to respond to any situation or rather it is a way of thinking about something. It can further be explained as an individual's feelings/emotions, behavior and beliefs. Knowledge, ego, adaptive, anger, self-esteem, confidence etc. constitute an individual's attitude.
No one is perfect, neither me nor you. There are strengths and weaknesses that we all possess and our strengths and weaknesses combine make our attitude. However, what is important is defining what Right Attitude is?
You may ask, what right Attitude is? How can one define it? How do I know if I have the right attitude? Should I ask people or should I ask myself?
Self-reasoning is an important skill to possess in order to develop Right Attitude.
Before asking world, ask yourself. And that brings me to a point where being opinionated is good but listening to others and understanding their perspective is equally important. Right Attitude is admitting your mistakes and correcting oneself. I cannot be right all the time and whenever I realize my mistake I admit it and learn the right thing. Learning something new from someone does not make me small.
Do not spend too much time listening to people because there are some who will show you the right path while others may not. So, what should you do? What can help you?
That's your Positive Attitude.
A person with positive attitude will find positives and learn from them. How to develop positive attitude is the question that might be coming to your mind.
As my blog title suggest, it is a matter of choice: To be or not to be. I can give you many reasons why to be positive in life but after reading this blog I want you to find your own reason. If you cannot find many try to find at least one reason to stay positive. The reasons could be anything that motivates you.
Before writing further about positive attitude, I want to write some points about life. We all should know and acknowledge that life is very precious and should not be taken for granted nor it should be wasted. Every new day bring an opportunity along with it. An opportunity for new learning. Learn from each moment of it. Learn from your mistakes/failures, success. Learn from them all. Do not ever stop learning.
Being Mother is one of the biggest responsibilities that nature gives to all the mothers. Being mother is not about giving birth alone. The nine months and the pain that woman gets while delivering but it is about upbringing too. Your mother took responsibility of being a mother and took care of you. Why I say it is one of the biggest responsibilities is because a mother spends her time taking care of her child and one mistake can cost a lot. Therefore, you are her hard-work and taking care of her hard-work is your responsibility.
Here I gave you one reason to love your mother and yourself and choosing positive attitude.
Donkey is considered a symbol of being useless, good for nothing and ugly. We ignore the fact that it is one of the most hardworking and loyal animals. When we are facing difficulties in our life we react immediately and sometimes end up regretting later. What we basically do is we act then stop and think. Let us look at the picture below:
How much do you see of an Iceberg?
Well that's only the 10% of the actual.
When we act without thinking it leads to many dangerous reactions such as blame, anxiety, complains, panic, anxiety, hurt etc. and that kill the positive attitude and builds negatively in us. Positive attitude is solution to all problems. We make mistakes, we all do and there is nothing wrong in it. But not learning and willing to change for better is negative attitude and what is worst is repeating your mistakes again and again. If we aim for growth in life it is very important to understand the need of positive change and continuous learning.
When you find yourself in difficult situation in life, remember don't act without thinking and regret later, rather think, stop and Act. Don't take your life for granted, similarly don't take other's life for granted too. Respecting others and yourself is equally important. Positivity is the key to a beautiful life. Putting others down does not make you bigger and getting bullied is not right either. Accepting your mistakes and correcting them is the right thing to do. Stop looking at the negative side. Being positive or negative in life is a choice and no one can make that choice except you. Be Strong and be a fighter.
As I conclude remember:
