2024-02-04 15:43
Recovering from the struggle to get out of an expired marriage takes places on several different levels. There is the financial recovery where both individuals work out an agreement, usuall… Read More
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2024-01-20 18:38
We come into this world needing love. Contrary to some popular opinion, that need never leaves, it simply goes underground. The need for love is a fundamental characteristic of a human bein… Read More
2023-11-05 20:51
We come into this world needing love. If we don’t get the love we need at the beginning of life there are dire consequences, all the way from threats to our physical survival to life… Read More
2023-10-14 20:18
There are two general categories of people looking for love in this world. Those who are psychological and emotionally prepared to form and sustain a healthy love relationship, and those wh… Read More
2023-08-31 03:33
Reader, before you read this article, I want you to know something about myself. I do not believe that being in an adult love relationship is required or necessary in order to be a happy an… Read More
2023-08-05 16:13
Your love life started the day you were born. You start learning about love relationships in the relationships with family members usually beginning with your mother. That learning takes pl… Read More
2022-10-30 19:31
The idea that not everyone of age is psychologically ready to have a healthy love relationship is for some people unacceptable. It is common to think that just because you are an adult… Read More
2022-10-16 17:54
Divorces happen for emotional reasons. The hard part is, most people don’t really know their own personal emotional reasons for divorce. Of course, if you ask someone why they’v… Read More
2022-08-22 16:21
You’ve fallen in Love, that mysterious emotion we humans are unable to predict or control. My description of the emotion with the little “in” before the word Love would be… Read More
2022-08-12 14:10
There are essentially two ways that “being in love” with more than one person or what is currently called a “polyamorous” love life can occur in a person’s lov… Read More
2022-07-31 14:53
Why is it so hard to change our love lives? I’ve known so many people who have made the same mistakes over and over again in their love relationships, as if they were committed to doi… Read More
2022-03-13 18:17
There is one problem that has been plaguing humankind since the beginning. Our human tendency to convert uncomfortable vulnerable feelings into anger and its sick cousin rage. This hu… Read More
2022-01-09 20:15
Relationships are challenging, disappointing, and painful. Have you ever said these words? What if they don’t have to be?
I can remember, before I changed my own psychological love li… Read More
2021-12-31 21:52
If you’re in a love relationship and experiencing repeating relationship problems, this article will outline a highly effective and reliable way of making permanent improvements in yo… Read More
2021-08-13 13:59
If you find yourself making the same mistakes over and over again in your love life…it’s time to work on your love life. If you’re stuck feeling lonely all the time, feel… Read More
2021-07-16 17:28
I’ve recently heard predictions that many more people than usual will be getting married as the pandemic lessens and more people feel freer to resume a normalized life. I’m assu… Read More
2021-05-29 19:26
Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life Thomas Jordan, Ph.D.
A sincere thanks to all my friends and colleagues who supported this writing proj… Read More
2021-04-24 17:32
Working as a clinical psychologist and psychoanalyst throughout the past year, I’ve noticed a few things about this pandemic in my practice and beyond that have convinced me that many… Read More
2021-02-28 21:55
The question I’m hearing now that our sensitivity to gender inequality has grown is: How do I approach a person I am interested in without crossing the line into sexual harassment? Ha… Read More
2021-02-07 16:38
I’m sure you’ve heard or spoken the phrase “be yourself” to somebody in the course of your life. It’s something we humans say to each other when we know someon… Read More
2020-12-30 18:12
Current research is reporting that more people are saying they are not interested in getting married. The research concluded that marriage is becoming less and less popular. Losing this dee… Read More
2020-11-15 16:57
In the age of “fake news” and “alternative facts,” dishonesty has unfortunately become a little bit more fashionable. I say unfortunate because, the price you’… Read More
2020-10-17 17:57
How to get out of a love relationship that has turned irreparably sour is as important as how to get into one. I must admit, this blog has been mostly focused on how to get into a love rela… Read More
2020-10-09 23:13
Are you being emotionally abused in a love relationship? Read this post if you suspect you are.
There are a few important things to know in order to be able to identify this type of abuse… Read More
2020-09-08 20:22
It’s time to talk about dating in the age of the pandemic. This coronavirus has negatively affected all aspects of our love lives, especially dating. How does a single person date wi… Read More
2020-09-03 17:20
What’s in your Psychological Love Life? Strange question or the potential answer to why your love life is not where you want it to be? Here’s the thing, your love life is not sim… Read More
2020-08-24 20:10
The most common love life problem for single, separated, and divorced people is what I call repetitive love life disappointments. This is when a person, hopeful that she or he will fin… Read More
2020-08-21 15:00
In my ongoing search for websites that acknowledge and support the self-published author, one of the best is the Scott Hughes’ OnlineBookClub.org, a free site for authors and… Read More
2020-08-10 17:07
This post is the first in a series of posts that will focus on the type of unhealthy relationship experiences we can all have in life that negatively affect our love lives. The good news is… Read More
2020-08-09 16:19
You marry someone and his or her mother hates you. Why? What did I do? Answer, you married my daughter or son. I didn’t know that was a crime or insult, loving your adult child. I thou… Read More
2020-06-07 03:27
Guest Post & Book Review by Dr. Carolyn Bowen
Quote of the Day: “Becoming conscious of what we’ve learned unconsciously (about love relationships) is a necessary step in get… Read More
2020-05-31 20:04
Why does just reading Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life have a therapeutic effect on your love life? One reason is, the major premise of this book is that a d… Read More
2020-05-29 03:10
I have decided to rewrite this post a couple of times because of what I’ve learned about this topic from the commentary and reactions sent to me over the many months since I’ve… Read More
2020-05-03 23:43
If you’re in a love relationship and you can’t stop cheating, the first step is to consider is the idea that you have an emotional problem. Plainly stated, you have a problem wi… Read More
2020-04-18 05:27
Remember the phrase, “we are at our best when we are at our worst.” I believe our best is the love that is possible between people. Our worst is the sickness, death, and g… Read More
2019-12-04 21:23
Unfortunately, too many people are being “abused” in one way or another in love relationships. My purpose in writing this article is to give you a simple and effective understand… Read More
2019-11-17 18:13
2019-05-08 20:48
Is he or she emotionally available? This is the most important question you should be asking yourself when you are dating for a relationship. Dating for a relationship being a “state… Read More
2019-03-31 19:42
Finding someone attractive at work is common. What to do about it is tricky. Let’s assume you are emotionally available and attracted to a person at work who is attracted to you. Sho… Read More
2018-06-27 16:44
Every once and and while I like to write about a love life problem that is a bit more on the messy side. Falling in love with your spouse’s sibling I think warrants that description… Read More
2018-06-13 21:28
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Acknowledgements
Introduction…………………………………………… Read More
2018-06-01 01:03
Every once and a while I have to rewrite a post, either because I think of something that updates the information in it or I get feedback that the post needs more work. This post needed mor… Read More
2018-04-15 18:13
Not easily. The first thing a “victim” of this behavior needs to consider is whether or not the cheating is a “pattern.” Pattern meaning, something that has reoccurr… Read More
2018-02-27 16:29
Is it time to fix your love life?
Victoria and I are now launching our Love Life Seminar on Manhattan’s upper west side. Our first seminar is on Saturday, March 24th from 12:00 Noon t… Read More
2018-01-31 22:17
I’m sure you’ve heard of that old statistic that married men live longer and healthier than single men. I figure it has something to do with the fact that when you find love, wor… Read More
2018-01-16 17:15
“Living without love” is an often misunderstood phrase. Just because you’re not in love with someone at any particular point in your life does not mean you should be &ldquo&hell…Read More
2018-01-06 22:13
What is a “Baby Mother?” The definition is the mother of a child, with the implication that the Father or “Baby Father” is not involved or co-parenting the child.
In… Read More
2017-09-18 00:20
So you’ve married a person who doesn’t want children. Let’s talk about the less painful forms of this problem before discussing the harder ones. You married someone who is… Read More
2017-08-15 22:23
A “profession” is different than a job. A job is something you do. A profession is something you are. Professions take dedication and you will probably have to train and wait for… Read More
2017-05-26 06:31
Why do some couples try to solve their couple problems with “triangular” solutions? By triangle I mean, draw in another person, creating a 3 out of a 2. It usually happens becaus… Read More
2017-04-29 17:25
If you’re dating, this is the very first question to answer. Unfortunately, assumptions can be made on very little information. The most common assumption derived from hope is: he or s… Read More
2017-01-22 20:15
In this age of “falsification” and “alternate facts,” the “Truth” remains as a characteristic of being human that is intrinsic to our natures, especially… Read More
2017-01-22 08:31
You married a man who has not yet separated emotionally from his mother. How can you tell? One very obvious sign is she (mother) will be trying to control her son, you, your marriage up clo… Read More
2017-01-12 22:13
To All Our Readers…We’re back! Sorry for the pause….We got hacked and we had to recover from that uninvited intrusion. The Love Life Learning Center is back an… Read More
2016-10-31 14:55
The problem with traumatic experiences is we are “vulnerable” when they occur and we tend to hide them to “protect” ourselves. This simple reaction is understandable… Read More
2016-10-28 22:16
What happens to your love life if you’re unfortunate enough to be brought up by a sick mother? If you’re not conscious of what you’ve “learned” about love relat… Read More
2016-07-08 16:11
What did your family teach you about love? Weird question? I don’t think so. Your family of origin, that classroom you spend your childhood in, taught you all kinds of things about lif… Read More
2016-05-18 23:06
Free Educational Presentations in Manhattan:
“Improving the Psychological Health of Your Love Life”
Dr. Thomas Jordan & Victoria Jordan LCSW
We hav… Read More
2016-02-26 14:00
The question is, should you stay with someone you don’t love for other reasons besides love? How about money? You get together with someone who has more money than you do. Maybe you m… Read More
2016-02-14 22:42
If you are considering a marriage to a woman who comes as a “package deal” with a “narcissistic mother” in tow, you need to read this post to understand what you are… Read More
2015-09-24 13:42
I love the internet. I’ve got the Mac, the iPhone, and I’m online for a big part of most days. Sometimes my computer is on all day. There are days when most of the human contact… Read More
2006-06-07 11:16
If you love a married woman and you’re in a love relationship with her, read this post. You are engaged in what is commonly thought of as a ‘triangle.’ Triangles are rough… Read More
2006-06-07 11:16
You complete me. How? Now this is a pretty common love life belief with lots of implications. It is very common to fall in love, and experience the person you love as possessing “… Read More
2006-06-07 11:16
Unfortunately there are too many people out there who are looking to take advantage of those of us who are ready and willing to “fall in love,” broadly speaking. These individual… Read More
2006-06-07 11:16
Somebody coined the idea of a “80/20″ relationship. What does it mean? It means that a person in a couple is available 80% in the relationship while keeping someone else on the s… Read More
2006-06-07 11:16
The following excerpt is from my new eBook entitled: HEALTHY LOVE RELATIONSHIP: LEARN HOW. Excerpt from Chapter 14 ”Relearning To be Honest In Love” Imagine, Cupid’s… Read More
2006-06-07 11:16
Are you shy? What are the psychological and interpersonal causes of this uncomfortable condition? In many instances shyness is a consequence of past interpersonal experience that was a bit d… Read More
2006-06-07 11:16
This post is about the experience of losing your husband after your baby is born. Why does this happen in some marriages? What is the psychology of a man who abandons his wife at the point w… Read More
2006-06-07 11:16
You meet someone, fall in love, date, move in, (maybe even have a kid or two – optional), OK so when are you supposed to receive a proposal of marriage? More than a few women have show… Read More
2006-06-07 11:16
This is how I met my future father-in-law. My wife, then my girlfriend, had practically moved into my little apartment. Now it was time to meet the parents. Her parents were no longer marrie… Read More
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