Written by: Garv Sultania, a contributing author for Lightning Speed Dating blog

Are you single and feeling desolate? Have you been trying to catch sight of your Soul Mate in crowds during an outing with your single ladies? Don’t lose hope yet, there is nothing wrong in leading a single life. Try to find your footing while you go for a drink with your friends, enjoy the senses as fleeting as they might be. Don’t be disheartened if one of your friends ended up finding the Love of their life- singledom is most definitely not the end of the world.

Now I understand, to move ahead in life is easier said than done, but there are some ways that I’d suggest which is bound to make a lot of difference for you and will surely help you out of this current situation. It’ll work in your favour by helping you get out of all things awkward and guide you to show something beautiful like love.

1. Stop Focusing on your Status.

There’s no reason for why you should make your forlorn heart your exclusive identifier. Avoid sending all your negative energy toward the disappointing factoid of not having anyone to cuddle with. Everything begins with recognizing what you are searching for and for the sort of commitment you are really prepared.

2. Stop Over thinking it.

Over thinking is entirely unhealthy and over thinking on matters related to your heart may be asking for more emotional trouble. Listen to your heart. Follow what it wants and shed all your worries to embrace unadulterated happiness.

3. Look in the face of your past relationships

We all love to sweep the past under the rug but we should take note of the fact that this modus operandi is damaging in every essence. Take a look at what might have possibly caused discrepancies with your past relationships. Was there an absence of effective communication? Doubts? Couldn’t you rely on them? Did you and your partner draw out the most exceedingly awful in each other rather than the best? Search for the root of all the problems that appeared to rehash themselves on numerous occasions. This will effectively help you from making same errors in your future relationships too

4. Nurture what you have.

It’s so critical to realizing your self-worth as well as the value of the great things you have in your life. Connections take steady diligent work and they should be bolstered and watered to keep so that it develops steadily day after day. Try not to disregard yourself, your well-being, your appearance or your accomplice! Learn to be aware of each choice you make, the words you talk and the activities you indulge in; it is no easy process yet the reward will be justified, despite all the trouble! When we acknowledge and support what we have been given (counting our own life) we live with more gratitude, appreciation, euphoria, and peace.

Consider all of these above-mentioned points and once you’ve made peace with your mind, then you can handle a relationship. We, at Lightning Speed, provide different types of services to overcome these difficulties faced by anyone. Dating Coach is one such kind of service, where our coach provides you with one to one sessions explaining early signs in a relationship, maybe good or bad. Effective tools are provided, so the process of finding your love or soul mate is conquered without any glitches.

This blog was edited by Amalia Abbar from our Corporate Office.