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At the end of the day, you are all you have.

Sure, you may have great friends. You may have shared fun and memorable moments with them. They make you “happy” and laugh a lot. They “defend” you. Bla Bla. Woof Woof. OMG. They are your Best Friends Forever and ever and ever… But trust me, every single being only cares about himself. This is what everything comes down to. Every friend of yours will always choose somebody else or themselves over you.

You may have a loving and supportive family but even they may fail to understand you at some point in your life. So you are alone there too.

And well wishers come and go with time. They are not constant.

So who is left ? You.

You are stuck with you for the rest of your life. Pretty tragic and depressing, huh ?

Nope. You may feel bad about it but let’s face the reality. Nobody will be there for you at the end. Nobody. Only you. When you Fall, only you will be there to pick yourself up. You and only you can truly understand yourself. You are your own BFF and soul mate. You are like a personal journal to yourself and you hold your innermost thoughts and secrets. You know the true feelings that are buried deep inside your heart. You can fool others but you can never lie to yourself.

So, you need to Love yourself, trust yourself and learn how to sit on this rollercoaster of a life all by yourself.

You don’t need anybody else to complete you. You are a whole being all by yourself. When people leave your life, just send them off with love. Don’t make yourself suffer. Your world isn’t coming to an end. Relax. You will make new friends, fall in love again, and learn how to be happy again.

Personal advice :

Trust but don’t be naive.

Don’t make somebody your whole goddamn world. Give everybody a small place in YOUR world. Be independent and complete and content.

Whatever hurts you, just let it go. Don’t give it the power to weigh you down.

Be selfish enough to love yourself first and then anybody else.

Your ultimate goal in life is to achieve self love, self respect and self happiness.

So, set some goals, stay quiet about them, smash the shit out of them and clap for your damn self. *favorite quote reference*

If you ask me who is my BFF, I will say Me, Myself and I.

Because at the end of the day, every person only cares about himself.

At the end of the day, you are all you have.




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