The Separated and Those at The Verge.
Hold on don’t sign those papers yet, don’t give up, there is great hope. It will get better again. I can’t possibly over emphasize this enough, “There is nothing impossible in the place of prayers”.
Yes family is worth fighting for, is there any good left that marriage? Sincerely look past your anger or disappointment, remember the sparkles you once had, hold on to it and go to your heavenly father in prayers.
Perhaps the problem is you; no longer interested, not feeling it anymore, just before you pack your bags, go back to God one more time, yes you have prayed before, pray again, ask God to restore and fill your heart with HIS love that you will have abundant to shear. Ask Him to heal you from every brokenness, and hurt of the past. Beloved in the Lord hold on a little longer, put a beautiful smile on your face for God has got your back. Try your best to forget all the wrongs, all the things you do not like put them aside, see your spouse like his growing, give yourselves time to heal, to learn, to Adjust and to recover.
Perhaps you are still in that marriage but its a living hell and you are Wishing its better, wishing he/she treats you right, wishing the constant nagging and fighting would stop. STOP wishing and start praying, pray on everything at home, the bed, couch, floors, open your closet Pray Peace on the clothes, go to the kitchen pray peace on the water, foods, drinks, literally everything in the house. Most importantly pray peace on your self, let the change start from you, when he/she picks a fight, if you don’t react it can’t continue, yes you can control it. When he/she throws hate at you, throw love back and relying totally on God, the change will appear. I know you might be thinking right now that, he’s not ready to change, stop trying to change him your way, remember the bible says the heart of a king is in the hands of the Lord, take your king(husband) or wife back the Lord their maker in prayers and allow God do the changing Himself.
God hates divorce, He does not want you to go through that pain, the horrible moments, mostly HE does not want it on the children. Children are the must beautiful gifts and inheritance that God has given us, Divorce, separation or a bad marriage is one if the quickest tool in destroying them, their mentality, even the way they will end up handling their own marriages, lets pay the price for them now, by praying our way out of every brokenness or separation, to give them the best possible up bring.
The Simple But Every Effective Steps
- Wake up early hours of the morning go to your threshing floor to separate your corn from every unwanted shafts of life.
- Search the scriptures on what God has said concerning marriage, pray with them for more effective results.
- Like Hannah in the bible, pray with a solid promise.
Give yourselves time to grow and heal, don’t expect all the habits and attitude that took years to grow to disappear in one day. Gradually the growth will appear. God is a God of process.
I pray for everyone reading this that God’s everlasting arm of Love will wrap us all in Jesus Name Amen.