As humans we all fantasize about the way we live our lives or the way we want to. Our mind makes it all up. We want people to see us in a certain way, the way we desire. We want them to treat us in a certain way, where we see ourselves high. I mean , all of this falls under natural human instincts.
So, there is a stage in everyone's life where we set the bar high and hope the life comes clean towards us, hoping we would be there where we wanted to. Its all fantasy anyway because only around 20 percent of the people make it up there.
Now, I want you to understand that traumas of life are very tricky ones. Dealing with these is the toughest I consider. I mean what could be more difficult than getting through your problems. It's all we have to go through to make our-self happy.
It all depends on the way you react to these traumas the get you mad. At least, that brings the ratio to 20:80.
- Never mind
So, there is a stage in everyone's life where we set the bar high and hope the life comes clean towards us, hoping we would be there where we wanted to. Its all fantasy anyway because only around 20 percent of the people make it up there.
Now, I want you to understand that traumas of life are very tricky ones. Dealing with these is the toughest I consider. I mean what could be more difficult than getting through your problems. It's all we have to go through to make our-self happy.
It all depends on the way you react to these traumas the get you mad. At least, that brings the ratio to 20:80.
EMOTIONAL TRAUMA
Life, being a wonderful creation has many aspects to deal with.
Opening up, emotions are hard to deal with. They relate to everything we do. They get us through the happiest moment of our lives and also bringing in grief. I think emotions follow a concept of balance.
However, dealing with emotional traumas is trickier than ever as it can get. Disturbing experiences that come with emotions have all the doing in the "moment-after". Let me explain....
All of that we have for most of our time in emotions is regret. We overthink and admit ourselves to something that we may or may not have done, depends on the situation though. So say, all of the effects of emotion are felt after a certain moment is done and until then the show's running clean.
So, stability is the key to gain onto them.
You only grow up when you realize the fact that all of this doesn't matter at the end but it surely does now. So, its all confusing.
REALIZING POTENTIAL
Trauma is basically an alternative terming for disturbed feeling.
Its just that you have to realize your strength to get over it.
Believe me when I say life is interesting and wicked. In order to realize your true potential , its a case that you have to go through your traumas. Its when you will realize what you're good at. Messing up things is the way to approach to a solution.
"You have to go through your traumas to get through them"
- Never mind
DEALING WITH GUILT
Again this has climbed back to the part of emotions, and yeah emotions are what makes humans special.
You know maybe you are holding back onto something too long, hoping for something to happen. I mean its just a blunder from you. No offence, but there is a stage where we know that this is not gonna happen. It's just upto you to pick upon and look forward , leaving all the hopes. You may feel the guilt but its the best choice that you could have ever made.
Just leave it all behind but be sure to carry your teaching from past.
Just leave it all behind but be sure to carry your teaching from past.
Just a matter of time and thinking. No big deal !!!
FINAL SAY
Life offers everyone something. It is inevitable for us to escape the trauma but what you do after getting hit matters.
Traumas are painful, tricky and cause much more. Its just that we have adapt the concept of adjustment and way-to-deal.
All of it depends on way you react and you know for sure that you are the master of your thoughts. Never let anything interrupt mind and spoil a beautiful creation on Earth. Well, I am talking about you "human".
Love life, grow up with it, deal with it, master it but no matter what do not turn on your back.
Hope you end up in the 20 percent.
Hope you end up in the 20 percent.
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