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Why People Tell You That You Have Changed

I came across a post on Facebook that reminded me of how much I have been told that I have Changed. What Surprised me is that these are people I have not met in quite a long time. They seemed surprised at how much I have changed that it made me surprised as well.

Life is all about change

As time goes on, we have new experiences that impact us in different ways. These new experiences help us learn new things and become better versions of ourselves.

But it still surprises some people that you are not the same person they knew a year, two or ten ago.

It's amazing that people expect you to be the same girl/boy they knew years or months ago.

I have met people who have told me how much I am no longer the girl they used to know and how much I have changed.

But of course, I am not the same person as yesterday. I have met new people, I have loved again, I have visited new places, I have experienced new joys, pain and tears. They have all impacted me and contributed to the person I am today.

I don't know if people want you to be the same because they don't expect you to change or because they don't want you to change.

They may regret why they didn't value you more in the past and want things to go on as before.

Change is inevitable after every relationship is broken. We need to get to know each other again, understand and tolerate all over again for it to be rebuilt.

This is because, in life we love, we grow, we move on, we get new experiences, we meet new people and learn new habits.

When you cut links with someone today, you are opening them to new relationships that will change their lives.

If you left someone and returned to find them the same person, then don't be surprised that you would leave them again.

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Why People Tell You That You Have Changed


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