It’s only when we decide that life is “as we choose to see it” rather than its real condition, a self-generated mad scramble for survival, that we get poor self-esteem, hate, gangs, and conflict everywhere.
All life is spontaneous! It’s self-driven. People are too.
When we Accept that, the result is Utopia.
When we pretend people need guidance, control, and forced limitations, first that point of view causes damage to them, and then we get the consequence, which is chaos!
Left to guide its own behavior, all life, including people is at it’s very best.
That’s because this is how life is designed to work.
Allow your Young free expression of their real nature, and they will not turn out as you wish at all!
They will turn out the strongest they could ever possibly be.
They are their own life!
Our attempts to direct them only causes damage!
They will also be loving, trusting cooperative and playful.
Why? Because that’s who undamaged people really are!
Our civilization is not allowing our young to be themselves any more. Not very much. Only a few of us ignore the world and allow their young to be their real selves.
The consequences are not hard to see. Our Environment has become increasingly dangerous, unfeeling, and lonely for all of us.
Self-esteem has bottomed out. People don’t know who they are.
Many of us want to improve our self-esteem. It’s become an epidemic.
It’s difficult because losing the power in our early years that we were born with, causes physical damage, which must repair itself as the repair process develops.
I have to admit that it’s a slow process.
The rewards though, are everything.
Nothing anywhere could possibly provide more pleasure than even the tiniest return of the inner strength that people are born with.
I believe our present environment works against people keeping or regaining their own inner strength. That makes recovery even more difficult.
Our entire world believes in too many incorrect assumptions of how life works.
Our ability to help those in despair is still in its infancy as well.
First, we believe infants are to be taken care of, rather than seeing them for what they really are.
They are new life, with an insane need to power their own survival.
Accept and encourage that as all other life does, and we would all still be living in Utopia.
We try to solve problems with punishment, never catching on that the bad behavior has already been caused by our own lack of respect, and our insistence on control.
There is no more loving creature than a human allowed to fully express everything that they are, without censorship or restrictions on their own drive.
I believe mankind is slowly becoming aware that life has its own needs. We have developed an understanding that the helpless have natural rights.
As time goes on, more of us will recognize that our young not only deserve, but have an imperative to receive the same respect for their own efforts and inner drive.
That’s the fulcrum. The pivot point.
That change instantly removes all conflict, to be replaced by acceptance and understanding.
I expect the recovery of our inner strength will be far, far easier in an accepting environment such as this. Our healing skills get support as well in a more compassionate world, rather than opposition.
Thanks for listening.
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Good luck on your own journey,
Take care,
Norm Cormier
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