Most people spend their life at the mercy of circumstances. Living at home the mercy of what happens to them and mercy of other people. They are stuck in the prison of their past unable to live in the present.

Don't allow yourself to be influenced or controlled by the things I will list in this article if you want to live a great life.


Don't be control by other people's opinion

Don't allow other people's opinions and judgment to control the direction of your life. The need to fit in and feel wanted can cause you to journey on the path you never thought of an unplanned misdirection influenced by pressure of frustration leading to the wrong path. People's pleasing is a curse that should be avoided at all costs.

Before you do anything  ask yourself : Am I doing this because I want to do it, or because of my fear of judgement from others if I don't. You were born unique for a reason, you were born to stand out, to be appreciated and loved for WHO YOU ARE. Don't dim your light so that you can fit into the dull background of other people's lives.

Shine bright AS YOU ARE those who really care for you will see that light and shine with you  


Relationships 

If you are always need another person to be happy or if you are feeling incomplete without spending time with a partner in a relationship then your life might likely be in disarray or chaotic leading to mental breakdown when the person leaves you.

It is not out of place or wrong today be in loving-kindness relationship as love is one of the greatest force on earth. It is a big problem to you if you can't live without being in a relationship to an extent that you can be with anyone including the wrong ones to avoid spending a moment of being a lone then something is deeply wrong with your life.

It is very important to develop a mental strength that you get to certain point in your life where you don't need others to make you happy as you are just as happy being alone as you are in a relationship.

What I am saying in essence is be you are in a relationship or not you are happy with your life, an independent fulfillment that comes from satisfaction within you.

Money 

Majority of human in our planet are control by money. This does not mean you should not work to get money or have abundance of it. It doesn't mean money is evil as some of panted it to be. It is a known fact that you can do great things with money and how many people you can help with money.

In the light of importance of money, don't allow your decisions to be controlled by money. If you are choosing something only on the factor of how much money is involved. You have just made the wrongs decision.

What you will find is that when you follow your heart, and you lead with your intention to serve others, to give your best to other - EVERY SINGLE TIME, when you follow your intuition and truly GIVE your soul..... then the money will come, and it will come in far greater amounts than if you simply chase money for the sake of chasing money.

So, challenge yourself to live the life you want to live. Free from being controlled by ANYTHING. Find your freedom. LIVE FULLY!


Your Past 

Don't allow your past to influence or control your present or your future life whatever that may have happened in the past you must let it go.

Leave the pain of your past behind to prevent it from ruining your future. Also, let go of the darkness of your past behind so it can't block the light of your bright future.

Your past is gone whatever happened, be unjust, cruel, harsh, whatever the case, reliving or replaying the event in your mind eyes will never do any good but rob you of your present happiness. 

If someone did you wrong the ONLY way you can win, is if you let go and move on. If you live in the victim story they win. If you want to win you must focus on building your future, and start right now.

Release that weight from your back so you can be free. Don't allow events of the past, which are now gone, to ruin this moment which is perfect........ This moment which is now to enjoy  which is ready for you to LIVE FULLY.

Your Limiting Beliefs 

Do not allow your life to be control by your own limited beliefs! NOW, a warning with this one. These beliefs may be conscious, but more than likely they are subconscious.

They may be subconscious limitations that have been conditioned in you from a young age and throughout your entire life by listening to those around you who never reached for their own dream.

Notice your own limited beliefs and tell them to shut up. There is NOTHING you can't do, NOTHING you can't have and NO ONE you can't become "if" you believe in yourself!

If you believe anything is POSSIBLE! When you change your belief from limited to unlimited your potential will become unlimited.

Imagine what you could achieve if you lived your life as though ANYTHING is possible. As though MIRACLES are a standard requirement of everyday. As the saying goes : " When there's no enemy within, the enemy outside can do you no harm". When you have nothing inside holding you back, there is nothing outside that can hold you back either, your entire life will change the very instant you decide to see everything as a gift.

When you DECIDE to see every circumstance and challenge as a blessing rather than a curse or failure, the very instant you become CONSCIOUS to the fact that everything is as it should be and know that fighting what IS, is INSANE.