Understanding the psychological reason behind the behaviour of others build our social skills and how we treat others.
Here are the most surprising psychological facts that can help you to understand yourself and others better.
Restaurant staff
The way a person treats restaurant staff can reveal a deep personality flaws or strengths. So observe intently when you are with families, friends, partner or married mate.
The way a person treats restaurant staff can reveal a deep personality flaws or strengths. So observe intently when you are with families, friends, partner or married mate.
Notice their actions and reactions towards restaurant staff while dinning and winning. It will give you a clue how they will eventually treat you in later time.
Pain receptor
Women are special design they are wired differently when compared to men. It is not so surprising that Women have twice as many pain receptor in their bodies than men but men have higher pain tolerance.
Women are special design they are wired differently when compared to men. It is not so surprising that Women have twice as many pain receptor in their bodies than men but men have higher pain tolerance.
However, women who have experience child labour during conception have high tolerance to pain than women who are yet to pass through child bearing stage in dealing with life experience.
Insomnia thought interference
After an exhausted daily activities and mother nature kicked in and knocked you down to sleeping state yet you were unable to sleep as a result of streams of thoughts.
After an exhausted daily activities and mother nature kicked in and knocked you down to sleeping state yet you were unable to sleep as a result of streams of thoughts.
Get up and write the disturbing thoughts down this will set your mind at ease so you can sleep.
Keeping a secret
It has been claimed that women speak about 20,000 words a day - 13,000 more than the average man(7000 words a day) - and scientists say a higher amount of the Foxp2 protein is the reason women are loquacious(talkative) than men.
It has been claimed that women speak about 20,000 words a day - 13,000 more than the average man(7000 words a day) - and scientists say a higher amount of the Foxp2 protein is the reason women are loquacious(talkative) than men.
No wonder women find it hard to keep secret they can reveal a secret unknowingly due to their excessive talking nature.
The average amount of time a woman can keep a secret is about 47 hours and 15 minutes approximately 2 days.
Happiness of a lonely heart
Laughter they say is the best medicine it boost the immune system to fight disease causing germs. Findings shows people who laugh often live longer than those who laugh less.
Laughter they say is the best medicine it boost the immune system to fight disease causing germs. Findings shows people who laugh often live longer than those who laugh less.
Know this people who try to keep everyone happy often end up feeling the loneliest. In this regard comedian comes to mind they make us laugh doesn't not necessarily mean that they are always happy.
The happier we are the less sleep we require because smiling and laughing always reduces stress which contribute positively to our overall wellbeing.
Smart people
Smart people don't really have much time to waste visiting friends and catching fun. In most cases they are engrossed in their work.
Smart people don't really have much time to waste visiting friends and catching fun. In most cases they are engrossed in their work.
It doesn't mean they don't catch fun, they do that to ward off stress to reactivate and calm their brain of cortisol related stress hormone.
This lifestyle makes intelligent people to have fewer friends than the average person. The smarter the person is, the more selective they are.
Marriage and divorce
It might seem to be weird research shows that marrying your best friend eliminate the risk of divorce by a huge of 70%. This kind of marriage can last a lifetime.
It might seem to be weird research shows that marrying your best friend eliminate the risk of divorce by a huge of 70%. This kind of marriage can last a lifetime.
Giving the best advice
This is odd actually, did you know that people who give the best advice are usually the ones with the most problems.
This is odd actually, did you know that people who give the best advice are usually the ones with the most problems.
May be we can link it to difficulties they pass through over time and the experience it produces gave them the wisdom to churn out good and powerful advice on what others are going through. Strange right.
Body language and disagreement
We display certain behaviour using body language to communicate the way we feel about things or people.
We display certain behaviour using body language to communicate the way we feel about things or people.
When two people talk to each other, and one of them turns their feet slightly away or repeatedly moves one foot in an outward direction, this is a sign of disagreement.
This mode of communication occur in an unconscious level to reveal unsaid word during conversion.
Opposite Friendship
Women who have more of male friends stay in a good mood more often when compare to female friends.
Women who have more of male friends stay in a good mood more often when compare to female friends.
Lonely life
People who are alone for a specific long period of time develop a deteriorating health similar to a person who smoke 15 cigarettes daily. Loneliness often result to sadness, hence, sadness is cousin to insanity, while insanity give birth to suicide.
People who are alone for a specific long period of time develop a deteriorating health similar to a person who smoke 15 cigarettes daily. Loneliness often result to sadness, hence, sadness is cousin to insanity, while insanity give birth to suicide.
Communication
Our emotions doesn't affect the way we communicate, but the way we communicate influences our mood change(emotions).
Our emotions doesn't affect the way we communicate, but the way we communicate influences our mood change(emotions).
So what we speak attract the emotions that relate to our words and how it affect others, playing a vital role in the way things turn out in our social circle. The by product of the word producing emotions is "anger and violence," "calmness and peace ", " good and bad relationship", " hatred and love" etc.
Lasting friendship
Any friendship that start between 16 and 28 years of age is more likely to be fulfilling, enduring and long lasting.
Any friendship that start between 16 and 28 years of age is more likely to be fulfilling, enduring and long lasting.
Guilty conscience
People who have a strong sense of guilt understand other's thoughts and feelings more better. Cool isn't it.
People who have a strong sense of guilt understand other's thoughts and feelings more better. Cool isn't it.
Text message
Sending Good morning and Good night text messages activate the part of the brain that is responsible for happiness.
Sending Good morning and Good night text messages activate the part of the brain that is responsible for happiness.
If you are sensitive enough you often experience this sweet inner sense of feeling after you have sent a text message, a kind of soothing relief of calmness in your being. That is inner happiness release in your body.
Holding of hands
We release a feel good chemical (dopamine) when we are interacting with a person we have special feelings for or a person very dear and close to us.
We release a feel good chemical (dopamine) when we are interacting with a person we have special feelings for or a person very dear and close to us.
That is why when you hold the hand of your beloved especially, you feel less pain and worry. Most time you release bonding chemical(oxytocin), not letting go feelings, that is why Heart break cause physical pain, illness and even death in worst scenario. "Warning don't waste, force yourself, or overly attach to someone who care less of you to avoid disastrous consequences of heart break or heart attack".
Brain health
Non- worn out travel boots traveler's brain health and decreases their risk of getting an heart attack and depression. Travelling is also good for our well-being too. Amazing let's move on.
Non- worn out travel boots traveler's brain health and decreases their risk of getting an heart attack and depression. Travelling is also good for our well-being too. Amazing let's move on.
Interest and attraction
When you talk about your life interest, what you love doing or what you have passion for, you emit a feel good chemical, your heart beating rate pumps oxygen into your blood stream transported by your vein all over your body. Your skin is bath and refresh by the oxygenated blood circulation you started to glow and more attractive.
When you talk about your life interest, what you love doing or what you have passion for, you emit a feel good chemical, your heart beating rate pumps oxygen into your blood stream transported by your vein all over your body. Your skin is bath and refresh by the oxygenated blood circulation you started to glow and more attractive.
That is the reason why people look more attractive when they speak about things they are interested in. Have you noticed that motivational speakers are more attractive to you? Also, any individual who is educating or an expert in certain field of studies explaining, teaching and inspiring the audience or students. That is the secret behind their attractiveness, their passion and interest.
