How did you deal with the situation whereby people have wrong Opinion about you, people like your friends, families, coworkers, neighbours, relatives, school mates, marriage mate, in-laws etc what will you do to them at that moment. Will you try to prove them wrong? Rain insult on them? Pick up a fight? Or clear their wrong opinion by displaying a self pity behaviour? Despite all the show you put in, it can still be in vain. The big question is what should you do? Let us get into it.

First and foremost, everyone is entitled to their opinion there is nothing you can do about it. So, as people have right to Hold whatever opinion they have about you, whether it is a wrong or right opinion it is theirs and theirs only not yours.

Their opinion might be wrong to be realistic there is nothing you can do about it, you can't enter their mind to uproot it out or have the power to stop it.

Whatever, you can't change or control you don't need to worry about it. It only gives you unnecessary headache.

I will advice you to let it go, vaporise it in thin air if you are in such unfriendly situation. The bullet of truth is, their wrong opinion doesn't change what you will achieve in life and it is just what someone decided to hold about you, so be mature let it go and move on with your life.

As a serious minded person, discipline and mature, never try to change somebody opinion towards you by altering or maneuvering your own character to satisfy them. It will not be reasonable enough to change your behaviour just to satisfy others due to their wrong opinion they have about you. That will be a childish course of action to follow, it redefine your very person to what you ought not to be in that very essence.

When you are building your life for what someone want you to be due to their Negative Opinion and not what you actually want to be it paint you as a person who lack self confidence, with low self-esteem in achieving your own goals.

So, patterning your character or lifestyle trying to change someone negative opinion about you it means that person has conquered you successfully avoid such pitfall to prevent bounce back effect on your life.

Anyone who hold wrong opinion about you should not be regarded as your enemy it is your responsibility not theirs to act in wisdom. You know, when you label someone as your enemy it task you emotionally, psychological and physically and force you to adopt a negative behaviour you ought not to have in first place. In fact it increases the rate of fear, anxiety, stress, sadness and over consciousness.

Tagging someone as your enemy create a war between your mind and body robbing you of inner peace and serene life. It is logical to use the wrong opinion as a stepping stone to reach your goals in life without concerning yourself with the person involve or the opinion hold against you just move ahead.

To illustrate the scenario, when gold is extracted from mother earth core it often pass through refine process of heat and fire to remove the impurities or dirt before glowing with brightness and beauty. What you are facing is similar to the process of refined gold, you need to pass through certain life challenges or taken through certain level before the sleeping gold in you move out and shine brightly.

So, see any person who hold wrong opinion about you as a refining heat and fire to extract the best out of you removing impurities or dirt that might have prevent you from achieving your success in life, the gold in you, don't waste unnecessary time burning in emotional offense let it go, control your action, be discipline the gold in you will take you beyond the stars, then you will look back, shake your head, smile brightly and narrate your life story to inspire others to do the same.

It is a measure of insanity to act according to how others treat or talk to us. A times you need to inculcate self control without acting too emotional when someone hold wrong opinion about you simply ignore it regard it as garbage don't allow it to steal your happiness and dreams from you for you to get to your actual destination in life.

Sincerely, don't pay attention whosoever hold a negative opinion about you so as not to distract you from achieving your achievement kindly ignore it don't waste your precious energy, thought and time bothering about it channel that active energy of yours to accomplish a positive task that uplift you positively.

Beyond ignoring such people or situation take a prompt decision a worthwhile one, that on daily basis you will add value to your life in terms of learning, doing and acquiring new skills. 

Sometimes, there may be an element of truth in the negative opinion they may have about you therein, that notwithstanding keep on building, restructuring and reconstructing yourself to be a better person in focus more on that and see what become of you in a span of time you will be amaze if it is a continuous habit.

On a final note move on with your life no matter what others think of you, you don't have to satisfy any person to be fulfilled in life.

Who you are is what you are not what others define you to be because they are not the creator but the creation - Enakpodia famous

Note this " ships do not sink of the water around them. Ships sink because of the water that gets in them". So as an aspire achiever don't let what is happening around you get inside you and pull you down like the wrong opinion people hold against you.

Remain steadfast, unshakable in accomplishing your life's dreams remember the quote above no one knows you better than yourself except the creator, permit them to define you based on their erroneous opinion even though there exist therein an element of truth it doesn't change the fact that we are imperfect human liable to err or made mistakes it doesn't give them the knowledge to know you better than yourself nor understand the nature and nurture of your actions be yourself move to shoot above the stars. 

I remain Enakpodia famous continue flourishing with blessings of life enjoy your day.