The most authentic human needs aren't materialistic. Human beings dream of finding meaning, of sensing identity and gaining insight into love. To be seen through loving eyes is to tap into a healing environment. How many people have you met who have never known what its like to feel love or compassion ? Do you know ?
To be truly seen as we are, that is, to be loved and appreciated with all our idiosyncrasies and imperfections, is to be healed in a setting of growing intimacy. To feel comfortable confiding in someone you care about is to make yourself vulnerable. Yet, it also opens you up to deep healing. This offers you chances to share parts of yourself that will not only transform your soul through growing faith and trust, but they can also positively enrich and heal others. Why not start fresh ?
Lots of people say they seek love, but far more spend time hiding from it or dwelling on past hurts which they never permit to heal. You may know friends who dwell on stories of their emotional scars and short-lived relationships. Regardless of your past, of what you've heard from others or feared inside, deep down you realize you deserve more than superficial comfort, more than second-rate love experiences.
Real love is healing, comforting, and enables you to feel reborn. It will test you in so many ways. To sense encouragement is like an invitation to evolve into who we really are. We grow to understand a deeper sense of completeness through intimacy. This enables you to transform how you feel and what you think you know. Healing is continually expanding through you. All you have to do is catch the wave and learn.