Cheating is for less serious people.
If you ever think your Partner is not completely honest, you’re probably right.
But that is because absolutely none of us is absolutely honest at all times. And that is normal until the lies become more serious and bigger and affect your happiness
. That is already, say the experts, an alert sign. Although science has not yet been able to find a way to find out exactly whether your partner is cheating on you, there are still a few scientifically proven ways in which you can discover whether your partner is hiding and honest. And these are the seven ways you’ll quickly find out if your partner hides important information from you:
Ask your friend what they think about cheating
Other people, even strangers, have a strange but fairly strong ability to identify when something is wrong with someone’s relationship.
Psychologists at Brigham Young University conducted experiments by giving couples the task of drawing the object together by drawing one of the partners out of bound eyes while his other partner gave instructions on how to draw.
The whole procedure was taken, and before they started, the pairs were psychologically answering several questions about their own relationship, including whether they ever cheated their partner or partner.
Then a group of complete strangers viewed the drawing images, and they had to guess where the partner was cheating or sometimes cheating. And the volunteers were surprisingly accurate in their estimates.
Although this research was premalignant, psychologists argue that external observers really have the ability to recognize when someone is cheating or when the connection generally does not work.
“People can fairly evaluate someone’s situation after a brief insight into their common behavior and relationship,” said psychologists.
Think before you judge
People are usually bad judges – at least knowingly. But when we have the chance to think about something more in detail, we are much better off to distinguish lies from the truth.
In a 2017 study, psychologists have given students the task of observing people who testify in court and have to say what they think – whether they tell the truth or lie. Students who had time to consider before making a decision – who at the time had the opportunity to think about something else, and not just about the testimonies of the people – more accurately found out who was lying and who was telling the truth.
“These findings show that the human brain is not, however, unable to distinguish a lie from the truth, but also that this ability depends on how much before deciding what the person said or did,” – said the researchers in this study.
Listen carefully to what words are used
In a recent study at Southern Methodist University, Professor of Psychology James W. Pennebaker and his colleague Diane Berry have analyzed the contents of various textbooks and found an interesting and specific language form that can help us find out when someone is avoiding telling the truth.
They claim that liars usually rarely use some of the following words:
- The words in the first person like I, My …
- Cognitive words like I understand – I mean …
- Words like: But, Except …
And these are the words used by liars more often:
- Words that express negative emotions like Hate, Anger, Enemy…
- Words that express movement such as Walk, Move…
Listen to their voice
In a recent Canadian study, volunteers were given the task of listening to the recordings of several pairs of speech, and then, by their voices, had to list a list of the most attractive to the least attractive individuals. After that, they had to estimate what they were doing to fool their partner or partner.
Women’s respondents to the largest extent have argued that men with deeper voices are cheating, while male respondents say that they are more likely to cheat women with high voices.
Research has shown that deeper voices have men who have more testosterone, which means that a higher amount of testosterone is associated with the greater chance that a man will cheat. Researchers are still exploring what associations exist in women and their current findings have to be tested on real and concrete behaviors.
Notice the sudden mood swings
If you’ve been in a relationship for a long time, you probably already know what your partner’s “normal” behavior means.
So follow the sudden changes in body language, facial expressions, or speech patterns, as they may be a sign of your partner hiding something, claims the behaviorist Lillian Glass.
“These changes occur when we’re nervous or tense – that is, when we lie,” she wrote in her book The Body Language of Liars.
Keep track of how social networks are used
Recent research claims that people who are more active on social networks such as Twitter and Facebook are more often arguing and are more often experiencing “scams, breaks, and divorces.”
In this study, conducted at the University of Missouri, researcher Russell Clayton has studied social networking habits on a sample of about 600 Twitter users. Most people use Twitter for about an hour a day and five days a week. But those who used it more than these numbers, more often quarreled with their partners, more often divorced, but more and more relieved. Namely, the more time they spent on Twitter, their relationship was in a better condition.
Although we can not claim that twittering and blemishes cause more frequent scams, a certain dose of attachment seems to exist …
Follow a sudden pause in speech or persistently repeating the same question
One of the key signs of lying, Glass claims, is an abrupt speech disability. This is because our nervous system responds to stress by dry mouth and lack of saliva.
The second sign is the shift from the subject and the mismatch to the question, the former CIA staff members Philip Houston, Michael Floyd and Susan Carnicero claim in his book Spy the Lie.
And in a study published in 2011, the professor of psychology at UCLA, R. Edward Geiselman, discovered that people who are lying have the habit of repeating the question before answering it, “to give yourself enough time to answer the answer.”
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