We all have moments of high Stress in our lives, how we deal with the stress is up to us. One technique that could work for you is to think of your romantic Partner. A recent study has shown that in a stressful situation people who were with, or thinking of, their partner demonstrated lower levels of stress. What a lovely thought.
Those who had their partner physically present in the room or who thought about their partner had a lower Blood Pressure response to the stress of the cold water than the participants in the control group, who were instructed to think about their day. Heart rate and heart rate variability did not vary between the three groups.
The effect on blood pressure reactivity was just as powerful whether the partner was physically present or merely conjured mentally.