This article is actually about way more than just fitness or nutrition, actually this is about transforming your entire being, your mind and your entire life. I think most of us, already know these 2 tips below, but may not practice them as often as we should
1. In Chapter 8 in Bill Phillip’s book, Transformation, he starts off the chapter with a shocking story about a man who tragically had his 20-year old son murdered by a teenage gang member 5 years prior. The story ends up a bit unfathomable to most of us, as it turns out that he actually forgave his son’s killer, in what can only be considered one of the most courageous acts of compassion and forgiveness than most of us could ever even contemplate.
After all, how many of us walk around for years Holding clashes with a friend or family member over something silly and stupid that means nothing in the big picture of our lives? However, this courageous father found it in his heart to forgive his son’s murderer, the ultimate act of forgiveness.
For most of us, forgiveness will not be for such extreme event, instead, it will be for smaller things that we’ve been holding deep inside (bottled up inside, causing us hidden stress) against a particular person, maybe a sibling, a parent, a friend, or a spouse. But what we don’t realize is that these bottled up clashes harm our health, and do very little to “punish” the other person.
“Resentment is like drinking poison and waiting for your enemy to die“.
Yes, you’re harming yourself more than the other person by holding onto resentment.
We all make mistakes and if you think back to the story about the father that forgave his son’s killer, was that teenage gang member really an evil person deep down to his soul? Or was he a victim of society, which led him into the gang lifestyle? There’s always more to the story than what is on the surface.
The most important thing we need to realize is that holding onto anger is scientifically proven to harm our healthand make us die earlier. Bill points out a study in the Journal of Epidemiology & Community Health involving 2,755 people over 10 years. According to the study that Bill summarizes,
“Those who repressed anger and held resentments were found to be twice as likely to die of a heart attack compared to people in the study who were able to process and let go of negative feelings.”
Another Very important thing that Bill points out, holding onto a grievance doesn’t give you control over the offender, and it doesn’t “punish” them; it just gives them control over you, and punishes you, because you’re the one holding onto the health-harming stress and lack of peace of mind.
Just think if we all kept these guidelines in the front of our minds daily, wouldn’t the world be a much better place, with less stress, fighting, hatred, resentment, and pent up anger?
2. This second tip is no less important than the first, and it is very powerful in helping you to live healthier and happier.
This is another important tip to living life to the fullest that was reminded by Bill’s book, Transformation. The story starts off with a day that Bill had the pleasure of meeting fitness icon Jack Lalanne and a reporter from USA Today interviewed them both.
One of the most important questions that the news reporter asked Jack in the interview was
“What should people who want to live a healthy life do first thing in the morning?”
The reporter had been expecting a specific tip about exercise or nutrition first thing in the morning, but instead, Jack replied with an answer that carried some very powerful wisdom, he replied
“A healthy person always starts the day by counting their blessings.”
What Jack Lalanne understands, that so many people don’t, is that gratitude affects not only the health of your mind, but that of your body and your entire well-being too.
One of the most important daily rituals that anybody can take up is to lie in bed for 1-2 more minutes after waking up in the morning and consciously bring to mind all of the things in his/her life that they are thankful for. It’s also important to write down what you are grateful for in your life.
In life everybody has struggles, but everybody also has things that they should be grateful for. This one daily ritual can literally change the biochemistry of your body and mind to put you into a more energetic and “feel good” state about your life, and thereby achieve more of your goals.
Well, according to Bill in Chapter 16 of Transformation, Dr. Robert Emmons, PhD, from the University of California Davis was involved in a large research project on gratitude, and here were some of his discoveries:
ü Those who kept Gratitude journals on a weekly basis exercisedmore often, felt better physically, and had a more positive mindset.
ü Study participants who kept gratitude lists were found to be more likely to have made progress towards important personal goals(academic, interpersonal, and health-based) over a 2-month period.
ü A Daily Gratitude intervention produced higher levels of alertness, enthusiasm, determination, attentiveness, and energy.
ü Those who participate in a daily gratitude exercise have lower levels of depression and stress and are more likely to offer emotional support to others and help them make it through their difficulties.
The bottom line is that although you may have heard about practicing daily gratitude in the past, are you really doing it daily? If not, you’re missing out on the health benefits, increased energy, better sleep and mood, goal achievements, and just living healthier and happier!
I told you that these 2 tips today would be powerful in helping to improve your life!