Chapter 9: Making New Friends

Sophie’s Story—Always the New Kid

“My mom has a job that makes our family move almost every year. I’ve been to four schools already. Just when I get used to a new town, new school, and new friends, I have to start over.

I get really worried each time I start a new school. I wonder how hard it’ll be to meet new friends. I wonder if the kids at my new school will like me. But even though my stomach’s all tied in knots, I try to smile and be friendly. I figure nobody wants to be friends with a grump. The first few days are kind of lonely and awkward, but then it gets better and I meet some new friends.”

At some time or another, everyone needs to make new friends. Possibly your best friend moves away, or you realize a close Friendship is unhealthy. Starting over and finding new friends can feel scary, so here are some tips to help:

• Know what kind of friend you want to have and be that kind of friend.
• Be friendly, confident, and positive.
• Smile, say hello, and ask questions to get to know kids—people