The quote goes around: "You are the average of the five people you Hang around with most."
Well, I couldn't really say who those five people were, so I changed that into the five kinds of people I hang around with most. And that for me became clear that I wanted to change something. I'd rather not focus on the past, but I'd rather focus on the present and future, what are the kind of people I'd like to hang around with.
And you too can ask that question for you. What kind of five people would you like to hang around with? Would you like to be surrounded by people who lift you up or who put you down?
We are social creatures, we can't live without other people. We survive because we live in groups. I'd like to go over a few groups that are good for you.
You have a family, something really precious but also very fragile. Depending on the relationship you have with your family, they can be in your comfort Zone or your safety zone. The safety zone is within your comfort zone. When you're in some kind of trouble, some of the family members will have your back no matter what!
It's really good to have a group of friends with who you can have fun with and when it is needed also get the comfort or help you need. Sharing happiness is probably the best thing you can do when you meet each other and just have a blast. The one question you can ask yourself is: do you want quantity or quality friends?
A community full of people that are on the same level as you are is just as important. Sharing the similar kind of thoughts just brings joy as you don't have to explain yourself and just truly be the person you are. You don't need to put a mask on because they will see right through that.
The Society is a tough one. They are expecting things from you, but that depends on your social status. However, you are a creator of how the society is. When something wrong happens in the society, it is absolutely important whether someone steps in to do the right thing or when nobody does the right thing. Either way, it creates our society.
This is a subject I have to come back to later on in my blogs. Right now, the words aren't coming anymore.