Going round and round trying to decide which of the one pieces to pack in to your hospital bag? Or is your internal debate more centred around which pair of your fluffy pyjamas will be the comfiest when sleeping in a hospital bed? These are all very common thoughts that run through the minds of moms-to-be from the western world, but for some, the pressing question is which size basin should I bring so that I can wash myself properly.
Going through pregnancy and giving birth is a very different experience depending on where in the world you come from. To showcase this point, the organisation WaterAid recently dispatched a photographer to take photos of mother’s hospital bags from all around the world and then ask them about what they packed. While this project did bring up a lot of inconsistencies in the standard of living for each of the women, it also highlighted the resemblance between each of the mothers’ love for their not yet born babies. Each of the mothers will be raising their babies in different circumstances, and each will face different challenges but all of them love their newborns as much as the next.
So while fluffy pyjamas do not transcend borders, a mother’s love definitely does.
Speaking to WaterAid, this is what the expectant mothers had to show and say:
Cathelijne Geuze (U.K.)
“I am bringing mainly clothes for myself and the Baby, and some snacks, also an e-reader and an iPod, but I don’t know if I will have time to use it. And a water bottle! My first labour was very long and I did not want to eat, but the water bottle for keeping hydrated was very useful. I bought lots of snacks, because the first time I remember getting a very boring breakfast of white bread and cornflakes after giving birth.
The most special thing in the bag is the hand knitted blanket my aunt made, my mother bought the yarn and my aunt knitted it. It was the first thing I found to pack.”
Takako Ishikawa (Japan)
- Clothes for the newborn baby. He/she will wear them when we leave the hospital
- Insurance card, seal impression, consent form for hospitalization, consent form for blood transfusion, mother-and-child health record notebook, patient’s registration ticket
- Maternity shorts (puerperant panties), crop-top bra (easier for breast feeding training and/or consultation)
- Daily sanitary goods such as shampoo or tooth brush
- Tissue paper
“Women should not touch water right after a delivery, for about a month. It means that women should concentrate on taking care of her baby, not housework, including using water for cooking and washing. It is said that symptoms of climacterium [psychological and biological adjustment] tend to be worse if a woman used water soon after the delivery. Although I am not sure if this is reliable, it has been handed down for long time. With the development of technology, we now have highly developed home appliances and food delivery services which allow us to live without touching water a lot in housework, so it may be one of the reasons why Japanese live longer than before.”
Mestawet Legesse (Ethiopia)
“I have already given birth to three children, so I know a thing or two about it. So I brought with me a towel to hold and cover the baby with. That is all he needs for now. For myself, I brought sanitary napkins, some underwear, sweatpants and a long loose dress, a pair of socks and a bottle of Mirinda [orange soda]. The Mirinda helps move your stomach as if to throw up, and it helps to turn the baby around so it goes out properly.”
Chadla Suyhidy Morales Benjamio (Nicaragua)
“I have my sheets, my towel, a sweater, and some cotton to put in my ears after giving birth. And something to tie my hair with.
They tell me the way I should bathe my baby and that the baby has to bathe every day… I think everything is good, but the earliest only problem I have is that the water from the well irritates my skin. It itches a lot and it also gives me an allergy, leaving scars on my skin and I cannot drink the water.”
Kemisa Hidaya (Uganda)
“In preparation for my child’s delivery, the midwife gave me a list of things to bring in my mama kit. In private hospitals pregnant women don’t have to take all these things, but those who deliver in public hospitals have to because services here are over subsidized.
I was requested to come along with the following:
- Two nylon sheets which are spread on the bed during childbirth
- Ten pairs of gloves, but I only bought two because I did not have money to buy 10.
- A pair of new razor blades for use during the childbirth process
- Cotton wool roll for padding and cleaning blood in the process of delivery
- Washing soap powder for cleaning the labor room after delivery
- A bottle of Jik disinfectant
- Bucket and basin for bathing and urination
- Flask for hot drinking water and cups
- A roll of toilet paper
- Baby receiver to cover the baby
- Bedding for use while in the hospital
- Emergency money
In addition to the things demanded by the midwife at the hospital, there are others I bought specifically for my baby and these include a pair of bed sheets for the baby, baby sweater, a cap to cover the head, and body stockings.”
Merina Milimo (Zambia)
“We bought the following for our baby: a baby blanket, napkins, a peg for clipping the umbilical cord, chitenge (wraps), cotton wool, my sanitary pads, and a dish. We also got a baby suit and several other baby clothes. My favorite is the baby dress, which I bought. If it is a boy, then then I will just keep this dress for the babies to come.
I have heard elderly people saying that while I am pregnant, I should not eat boiled eggs or potatoes because the baby would be born without hair. I was also told not to put on clothes that have a belt to tie around my stomach. They said the umbilical cord will tie around the baby and make it difficult when delivering.”
Tiff Rolf (U.S.)
“The only mandatory thing to bring to the hospital is a car seat to take the baby home. The rest are things to make my hospital stay more comfortable: my birth plan, pyjamas, flip-flops and slippers, snacks, mother’s milk tea (to help with breast milk), and a cute outfit for the baby to wear home. And a present from him to his big sister—a lollipop and some Playdoh.”
Marie Lucette (Madagascar)
“During my last check-up here a few weeks ago, our midwife told us to buy and bring everything we would need before, during, and after the delivery. These were items like a receiving blanket, a compress, cotton wool, nappies, new clothes made of cotton for the baby and warm clothes, flip flops, a thermos, a sheet and pads for myself.
But as some of my family are also here to support me, they brought almost everything that we will need to be able to stay here for a few days. This includes our cooking pot, firewood, plates, spoons, food like rice and some vegetables. They also brought for me a chicken for soup because I really need it after the delivery. Chicken soup is really effective for recovering quickly after giving birth and also helps with breastfeeding.
In my village we have many traditions, taboos, and things that you can’t do during your pregnancy. For example, pregnant women should not put ginger in their pocket. If women do put ginger in their pocket, their baby will grow a sixth finger or toe. I do follow them all because I try to be respectful. I don’t want to be cursed by ancestors, and above all I don’t want something bad happening to my new baby.”
All Photos are accredited to @JennyLewisPhoto and @wateraiduk.