Was lucky enough to fall into a Relationship with a great guy and am getting married soon. We've dated 8 months and everything has been fairly smooth so far, I feel incredibly grateful. Its so good that I am very scared it won't last and often worry about whether I would do something stupid to damage the relationship (is there a relationship equivalent of imposter syndrome?), havent told that to him though. How do I best ensure I am a wife he wants to keep? I am 26, average looking, working on getting fitter with better grooming. He loves me for my intellect and how caring I am. He's an introverted geek/nerd, possibly on the autism spectrum and fits what I recently learnt about 'autistic savant' (I haven't seen rainman yet). I wish keeping him happy came naturally to me - i am caring but I do have a problem of being too self-absorbed in my work/reading to the exclusion of everything else. So far he likes it because he's getting way more space than he expected in the relationship, but I don't know if it will irk him later that I worry about making money and doing better work more than i worry about him and what he needs. Thanks for reading and for your time.