2023-01-30 09:40
Hey Max’. From an email: “Nash, I think you and I are similar in a lot of ways, though you have a lot more experience. I see you live in SF and was wondering if you’ve ever… Read More
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2023-01-01 10:55
And now for something completely different: A tribute to women. And to a particular part of their anatomy… and a magical pose that inspires me, and apparently many other men and artis… Read More
2023-01-01 07:12
This post is about Extraverts. And about how certain psychological types can make or break a relationship. And about how underneath a lot of concepts we talk about in Game, the meta concept… Read More
2022-11-28 14:15
I recently wrote a post about “breaking rapport,” with lots of theory and quotes from PUAs. Here is a follow up where I reuse some of the quotes from my last post, and combine th… Read More
2022-11-15 09:04
Last night, in some nonsensical moment from a dream, I said to someone, “I’m going to give her the ‘White Monster’.” If that sounds like a “high school ki… Read More
2022-10-18 13:55
I want to talk about a concept called “Breaking Rapport,” and how breaking rapport is used to create attraction, as a part of push/pull (a mega concept in Game). And I’ll p… Read More
2022-10-02 03:59
Here is an idea that’s been kicking around in my head: Game isn’t as much about what you do as it is about how you respond to her reactions to you. That is the main thing that se… Read More
2022-06-12 05:23
Miss 19 is the “recently deflowered” former virgin turned lover to this 49 year old man. This story is about girl wrangling, a sexy girl, and making out in public places. Maybe I… Read More
2022-03-14 14:32
I recently met this lovely, young girl – we’ll call her Miss 19. Pickup was solid. Got her out: Nice daytime coffee date (I was excited about her). Got her out again, did the &ld&hell…Read More
2022-02-27 13:07
This is a story about BrownDaygamer and his 2021 daygame “jaunt” to the completely filthy fine city of Las Vegas. “If I look at the trip from non/daygame lens then I had a… Read More
2022-02-05 12:40
UPDATE: It is January 4th, here in Japan (or it was, when I originally wrote this). And my one date with Miss Breakfast was three weeks ago. I had not seen her since, until just now…… Read More
2022-01-01 13:26
How do you set up a date to get a girl into bed? Common wisdom says: Meet late, for “drinks.” One drink, and then maybe another in a more intimate venue. Then bounce her back to… Read More
2021-06-15 15:07
I haven’t written a post like this in a long time. A “first date” post that has as many questions as answers. Here I am, years deeper into Game, in the same or similar scen… Read More
2021-04-25 07:22
Even though she is properly Japanese, I am going to call her Aloha. I give her that name because this morning, after a long night in bed, she was naked, leaning over a table by the window, p… Read More
2021-01-02 15:07
365 days later I am in the same coffee place as last year, and again, I want write about “Big Things.” I want to talk about Game, and Girls, and Goals. To get started I will dive… Read More
2020-11-30 09:53
I have a new story to share – and it is, in fact, a lay report. I am still turning her (and the story) over in my mind. It has been a proper seduction (perhaps by both of us). And each… Read More
2020-10-03 13:45
After I moved to Japan in December, I settled in and did about 20 approaches in January, I met Miss Happy, and dated her all through the months of this year when this city was a desperate gh… Read More
2020-06-21 14:09
HBO ran this series called The Deuce – a show about New York City in the late 1970s and early 1980s. It was about bartenders, and hookers and pimps, and cops, and the first porn stars… Read More
2020-06-13 11:21
I am always on the lookout for a point of view that really cuts into what I might call “Game,” and Pat Stedman gets it. He stands out for me as one of the voices I’ve learn… Read More
2020-05-24 12:07
I have never gotten a girl pregnant. I have never been involved in an abortion. I have never even had a real scare with a girl. And while I am 100% pro-family, and I like kids, I’m not… Read More
2020-04-17 14:24
I just finished reading Lolita, by Nabokov. I was surprised to learn that the term “Lolita” didn’t quite mean what I thought it to mean. I was close, but not exactly right… Read More
2020-03-22 15:14
I am going to tell a sex story. And I like the story very much, but it’s all a build up for a new reference experience I had at the end of the night. The story itself is full of all of… Read More
2020-03-15 14:11
This is a lay report. But the “notch” itself isn’t the part I like about this story. I’ll lead with the fact that she and I had sex on the first date. I’ll talk… Read More
2020-01-04 15:21
This is Part II of my story where I combine a lay report with some Game theory. In Part I of this story, I talked about Mystery’s “Seven Hour Rule.” That was a set-up for t… Read More
2020-01-01 14:29
Today is New Year’s Day. I have had a plan in mind for almost two years now… and that plan included sitting where I am sitting now, and writing a post something like this one. R… Read More
2019-12-03 06:44
In September, I closed a 20 year girl while on a trip to Japan. We’ll call her Miss Nervous. She was a “long lead” I had met in America two months earlier. All greater clai… Read More
2019-11-18 06:43
It started like this: August is White Girl Month. Except, I had some kind of goal and I didn’t hit it before I had to leave for a Japan that month. So I re-committed for last month and… Read More
2019-09-01 06:42
I am in Japan. I just finished another “very long date.” Three days this time. With the girl that was a virgin until this February (when I cured her of that problem). She is Chin… Read More
2019-08-25 13:46
Two years ago I was looking at some statistics about my blog and some related websites, and this name “Satori PUA” came up in the tools I was using. He is a daygamer. I have been… Read More
2019-08-18 20:08
At the level of theory, the theme of the year for me is that we are different Types of men, we want different Types of girls, and the Context in which a given man tries to accomplish his goa… Read More
2019-06-05 05:41
I just wrapped up the longest “date” I’ve had in years… eight days and seven nights. This was my fourth date with Miss Bangs. Most of the previous ones were long too… Read More
2019-05-17 05:49
It has been a week since I wrote about Miss Tease. About how she surprised me with a lunchtime “booty call,” about how I wasn’t really craving sex that day, and how I stepp… Read More
2019-05-08 05:33
Here is my third story about Miss Tease. This isn’t entirely about her, but she is the primary “feature” of this story. And I had an interesting day with her… anothe… Read More
2019-05-01 23:16
And now, for all the street hustlers and daygamers out there, I will post a review of a surprisingly interesting and relevant book: How to Pickup Girls, by Eric Weber. The copy I have of thi… Read More
2019-04-22 04:31
My new favorite “player” to study is a guy named Hans Comyn. He has a lot to say, but this post will focus on a concept where he describes the Three Phases of the Seducer. His th… Read More
2019-03-03 16:40
It is time to report the final stats from my daygame trip to Shanghai, China. This trip took place in Fall, 2018. I spent three weeks running game on pretty girls in the second biggest city… Read More
2019-03-01 09:44
It has been a strange theme of my time as a daygamer that I would have so much contact with virgins. I have dated so many. I have had a few in my bed. In those times, there was a lot of sexu… Read More
2019-02-15 17:03
I woke up on a Saturday morning in Tokyo with not quite enough sleep. While it was morning for me, it was late Friday afternoon California time and I was up early for a quick call with a bus… Read More
2019-01-30 15:37
A guy and I were having a side conversation about a girl on Twitter. He asked my opinion about a “shit test.” I started to reply to him… but then thought it would be bette… Read More
2019-01-26 14:39
I have some thoughts on marriage and long-term relationships… and many of them are not my own. I am going to curate a compilation of some of those thoughts, forging together notes fro… Read More
2019-01-12 16:22
I have a million posts I want to write but I had a fresh idea today so I’m going to spit it out. It combines two bits of content that have inspired me. The timing of the post is based… Read More
2019-01-08 08:16
This is the final part of my story about the 19yr old Chinese girl I picked up while running daygame in Shanghai, China. In Part I, I described how a moment of eye contact on the street led… Read More
2019-01-06 16:28
This is PART II of my story about a girl I call Baby Dragon. She is a 19 year old firecracker I met while on a daygame trip to Shanghai, China. In the first part of this story, I talked abou… Read More
2019-01-01 03:45
I tag my posts “+0” when I have a “sexual” story worth telling, but one that didn’t end in sex. This story is full of sexuality… but doesn’t end wi… Read More
2018-12-07 05:46
There is a guy that calls himself TDDAYGAME. I know him from Twitter, where he is one of my favorite voices on that platform, dumping tons of high quality advice into the Tribe of Men. He co… Read More
2018-11-30 05:28
She was my third notch on this trip. First, I had my “surprise” nightgame lay with HK Business Girl. And a fantastic weekend where I closed a long lead, Miss Bangs. That was a da… Read More
2018-11-21 06:08
I kissed six girls on my trip to Shanghai. And fucked three of them. And this girl… I never got to taste. Not her mouth. Not her body. But she and I had such an unusual time together… Read More
2018-10-28 17:09
I am wrapping up the first week of my trip to daygame in Shanghai, China. I have hit the streets. I have talked to a lot of beautiful Chinese girls. I have taken a bunch of numbers. I scored… Read More
2018-10-25 07:57
I am a daygamer. Committed. I almost never even try to score via nightgame. And I wasn’t trying this time either. I was tired. I was looking to have a beer and write a bit. But I could… Read More
2018-10-25 06:26
Shanghai, China is the most populous city in the world… And I am here on a daygame trip. I’ll do more while I am here than hunt the sidewalks… but running game and scorin… Read More
2018-10-19 14:33
It took me a minute to remember what I call her in the context of this blog: Smart Girl. She is smart, that is true. But in my mind I increasingly think of her by her Chinese name. And with… Read More
2018-09-29 06:52
This piece was inspired by my good friend MovingTarget, and his feelings for a former lover. They are no longer together, and yet he continues to feel for her, as if her blood was somehow in… Read More
2018-09-17 03:37
A couple of weeks ago, Krauser had a guest post featuring Jimmy Jambone‘s thoughts on “getting out of the game.” On the back of that, I got any email from a guy we’ll… Read More
2018-09-07 21:37
Here I present a case study from the Land of Daygame. This is about a guy on his daygame path, how he met a cute girl, and tried to take her on a date… but it never happened. I like t… Read More
2018-08-26 22:20
I have a theory that “The game is played in the text messages.” It’s true, but I don’t want to oversell it. There are a lot of opportunities for artful practice in te… Read More
2018-08-18 23:01
I have taken a break from this blog, but I want to get rolling again. This is a long overdue lay report, from back in May. This lay has its own interesting aspects for me – every story… Read More
2018-07-10 20:28
Recently, I am experiencing a windfall of attention and sex from girls that I picked up months ago. I categorize sex with girls from previous pickups as “Recurring Revenue” (in c… Read More
2018-06-25 01:03
It is my great pleasure to present a bullish review of Daygame Infinite, a fresh edition from Nick Krauser detailing the “how to” of daygame… and quite a bit more. For ser… Read More
2018-06-15 07:27
It took five dates… and even then, she said it was faster than she would have gone if she had more time. But she didn’t have more time. She would leave for a summer internship i… Read More
2018-06-12 01:45
I don’t usually write “how to” posts on this blog. There are a lot of “how to” articles out there, and most of those posts are generic, impersonal and dry&helli&hell…Read More
2018-05-29 06:34
For the second time in two weeks, I claim a notch from a married woman. This is the one I am calling Smart Girl… and I already posted about her, and the circumstances around when I fi… Read More
2018-05-10 06:33
Another “single serving” connection. Chinese. Tourist. I picked her up on Tuesday… after I met Miss Tease for our 2nd episode of afternoon sex in hotel. I was only out run… Read More
2018-05-06 08:41
This is another story about a married woman. Not the one I fucked last week. This one is new… and she’s local. I picked her up about three weeks ago. I approached her one aftern… Read More
2018-05-02 21:10
I got into game to get more chicks naked. That is true. But… it’s a side effect of game that as I run around the internet yammering about girls and pussy all the time, I have en… Read More
2018-04-23 20:44
35 days. I didn’t think it would take this long. And when I started my daygame streak, I didn’t even intend to have a streak. It was three days. Then five. Then a week, straight… Read More
2018-04-21 07:24
She just left my place. I am covered in her perfume. I am definitely a little sexually frustrated… but I am smiling. It was a good time. I will post soon about doing 30+ days of dayga… Read More
2018-04-09 06:48
It’s been a month since I’ve been back from my trip to Japan and I haven’t finished telling those stories yet. And this story… is my personal favorite. It’s a… Read More
2018-03-27 20:17
I want to get back to my Tokyo stories, but I have a fresh one from here at home… from this last Friday… let’s do this story first. She is the first date I’ve had w… Read More
2018-03-22 08:45
For the second time today, I’m inspired by the Chateau Heartiste. Both times related to “pickup techniques.” And the theme for me today is VALUE. So much of the pickup talk… Read More
2018-03-19 02:13
I am curious this week about two classes of sex available to the player: 1.) Fucking a new girl and taking a notch, versus 2.) Getting a previously lover back into bed for some “recurr… Read More
2018-02-21 03:20
Here is a long-read about a short girl. She is the third girl I fucked on this trip. This story is about some aspects of game. And the story starts in 2014, so it is also about long game. It… Read More
2018-02-20 05:29
Tonight… was an extraordinary night. My second date with a 23 year old Japanese girl… a virgin… a Mormon virgin… a Japanese Mormon virgin. We had a really hot mak… Read More
2018-02-19 02:58
Here is PART TWO of the Miss Athlete Story. It took about a week after date five, after the end of my last story, for us to finally have sex. And there’s more to it than that for me. T… Read More
2018-02-12 04:57
I’m a frustrated monster tonight. I am posting this story, for three reasons: 1.) There are a lot of personal details and “date notes” here that guys might find interesting… Read More
2018-02-11 06:28
I can see two primary and very different strategies for moving toward sex after you’ve picked a girl up. I see FAST SEDUCTION… were you try to fuck her same day or first date. W… Read More
2018-02-05 05:56
Krasuer had a cool talk about daygame with the Street Attraction guys recently. And in this talk he goes off briefly about how game produces better knowledge of “the human courtship ri… Read More
2018-01-24 11:01
When I left this girl after our first date last Saturday afternoon, there was a spring in my step. I had that kind of smile that is an indication a man is “love drunk” on good ch… Read More
2018-01-22 05:34
As I write this I am eight days (of active game) into my latest siege on the girls of Tokyo. My trip had a wobbly start, and I am beginning to think that wobbly starts are to be expected. Si… Read More
2018-01-18 17:24
Jordan Peterson had an interesting interview with Cathy Newman from the UK news program Channel 4 News. This talk is interesting, not because of the content per se, but much more so about ho… Read More
2018-01-12 15:17
This post has sort of spiraled out of control, but has been fun to write. I’m going to showcase some ideas from Paul Janka here. I’ll present him as one case study in the wide ra… Read More
2018-01-07 22:23
What an odd day for this humble daygamer. First, Heartiste wrote a post about a comment I made on that very fine blog (much respect to CH). They completely missed the point of my comment, bu… Read More
2018-01-05 09:33
It’s 2018. My shoulder surgery (which dominated my December) is behind me. It was the slowest of months in terms of game. I ended up taking a few weeks off to give myself time to heal… Read More
2017-12-24 07:37
The year is wrapping up. I’ve been recovering from a surgery so my hunting and dating life have been mostly on hold. It’s been a tepid end to an otherwise hot year. But I have an… Read More
2017-12-14 10:57
This a review of Tom Torero’s Street Hustle daygame textbook. This post is about his book. But maybe more so, it’s an attempt for me to unpack why I don’t trust or respect… Read More
2017-11-28 08:34
Here are the final notes on my NYC daygame trip… but first, a confession: I promised to approach 30 girls per day, for five days. I was targeting 150 girls that week (I had my reasons… Read More
2017-11-16 09:47
Have you seen this clip of Tom Torero doing daygame in NYC? Check it out. Highly recommend it. Not only is it a very good example of daygame in practice, but the **consecutive approaches** h… Read More
2017-11-09 22:38
This girl is my last, and richest story from my NYC daygame trip. I’ll do a wrap up later on broader themes, but this is the last girl-specific episode from New York. In this story we… Read More
2017-11-01 08:00
Just wrapped up a good date with an interesting little girl. I am working on a longer piece about the last girl I dated in NYC, but I’ll interrupt again to talk about this new girl. Go… Read More
2017-10-25 07:59
I interrupt my NYC stories, to bring you this… I just made out with Miss Tease. She is a sexy little girl and the makeout was hot. Kissing her was fantastic, actually. But the bigger… Read More
2017-10-19 04:12
I “pulled” last night. It’s +0 for Nash, because I did not fuck that sweet girl. I would say it was a close call, except it wasn’t. Or maybe it was?? I don’t kn… Read More
2017-10-17 16:51
She was the first set of the day. Just looking at her, I got “that feeling” in my body and I could tell it was going to be a better day than yesterday. Yesterday wasn’t bad… Read More
2017-10-16 15:06
Greetings daygamers… from the Big Apple. I’ve been here a few hours. I’m excited. Life for me right now is a mix of promise and self-doubt. This is going to be a good week… Read More
2017-09-21 22:05
Had a date with a new girl. The pickup was interesting. The date was great. I like her. I met this girl a little over two weeks ago. It counts as daygame, but it wasn’t a street approa… Read More
2017-09-19 21:38
This is a story about Sundance’s* latest daygame lay. About little girls and the Secret Society. And about the role of experience in the sexual marketplace… Who’s got it… Read More
2017-09-13 20:10
“For some reason, at least half a dozen women have told me on first dates or near first dates about abuse or “abuse,” and with every one of them I did the same thing: no mo… Read More
2017-08-30 07:55
Here’s the run down… I supposed the bad news is, she’s still a virgin (and I will not have a new notch in August). The good news is, she had a very good time tonight&helli&hell…Read More
2017-08-28 07:12
Ahhh, she just left. It was a fantastic night. We spent a lot of time in my bed, but she still has her flower. Our last date, on Friday, was an awesome date. If there was one sign that parti… Read More
2017-08-25 06:59
I met this girl 15 days ago. Tonight, we made out. After I’d kiss her each time, the look in her eyes — that “paralyzed,” slow, breathlessness look — wow. She&r&hell…Read More
2017-08-02 02:03
I had a great lunch this week with Trackstar and Buckle. Some smart dudes. Good conversation and Japanese food. That’s a strong formula for a memorable afternoon. Trackstar was a major… Read More
2017-07-31 07:10
From Rivelino and I in the comments of a recent post: “I’m still in awe at how quickly ‘strangers’ can touch each other’s lives.” — Nash so beautifu… Read More
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