2023-08-31 11:03
Last week, I posted my Bucket List and was surprised at the response it received. Now, I’m posting my Anti Bucket List of 10 things I have no desire to do. Taking a cue from… Read More
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The Adventures of a 50-Something First -Time Dad
2023-08-22 14:47
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Writers are constantly looking for writing prompts when their creativity disappears. Reading my friend Ginger Cook’s Backward Bucket L… Read More
2023-04-17 18:17
Photo — iStockI was 50 years old when my son Cristian was born and a stay-at-home dad for the first two years of his life. Initially, this concerned me because I had never changed, fed… Read More
2023-03-30 16:16
Image – iStock
A few years ago, my family participated in a charity walk—we do a lot of them. Before becoming parents, my wife Esther and I ran, rode, or walked for many… Read More
2023-03-18 21:39
Photo – Aron Visuals/UnsplashMy apologies for being missing in action. It’s hard to create a social media presence when my only posts are funny memes on Facebook.
Despite… Read More
2022-10-03 17:12
My dad is on the left, holding the hammer.
It started with an email from Spain. My cousin Soledad’s daughter, Marta, was working on a school project on expatriates and she needed m… Read More
2022-06-29 12:27
This is Cristian. He’s seven years old, loves to read books, play soccer, and he’s a yellow belt in karate. He’s also autistic.
People constantly tell my wife Esther and… Read More
2022-02-09 16:58
Image iStock
“How is it that the ultimate prize in the most macho sport ever inventedis a piece of jewelry?” — Jennifer Garner in the movie Draft Day… Read More
2022-01-31 21:34
Sunday Morning Soccer PracticeHe’s the child of older parents. I was 50 and Esther was 42 when he was born, so we knew he wouldn’t be playing with our friends’ kids. As he… Read More
2022-01-05 22:54
2022 is five days old. On any other year, the gyms would be packed with people. The ones who haven’t given up on their New Year’s Resolutions. Although the gyms are still… Read More
2021-12-29 21:00
Photo iStockIt’s December 29th and we’re at the end of another long year. It’s human nature to become introspective while reflecting on the year that’s about to… Read More
2021-10-09 04:06
I miss this little guy
Esther and I were busy seven years ago. We looked forward to becoming parents. and eagerly waited for our son to be born. And waited and waited.
As new par… Read More
2021-08-19 15:58
I have fond memories of my father cutting my hair. My dad cut my brother Bob, and my hair on Sunday mornings while Mom made breakfast and Abbott and Costello movies played in the backg… Read More
2021-02-27 01:09
Our New Reality – Image Pixabay
And I’m back. I’d wish you a Happy New Year, but it’s almost March, so that ship’s sailed. Like many, I’m j… Read More
2020-09-08 04:58
It’s September 8th, Labor Day Weekend has come and gone. Fall will be here soon, with the promise of cooler weather and pumpkin-spiced everything. Calling 2020 an odd year… Read More
2020-08-25 20:49
Working remotely with Miss Jess, his Occupational Therapist.It’s the Dog Days of Summer — the last days of August are winding down as we wait for Labor Day and the start of a… Read More
2020-04-24 20:24
Spending time at the Jamaica Bay Wildlife PreserveLike about 90% of Americans, I’ve spent the two months under a stay-at-home order. Being introverted this would have appealed to… Read More
2020-03-28 18:23
Selfquarantining at homeCOVID19 aka, the Coronavirus has changed our lives globally. Working from home, social distancing, and wearing rubber gloves and masks before going outside is t… Read More
2020-01-30 16:26
Cristian as Baby SupermanI have a fond childhood memory getting haircuts from my
father. On Sunday mornings after church, while Mom made breakfast, and
Abbott and Costello movies playe… Read More
2020-01-01 01:11
It’s
been a while since I’ve posted new material – about eight months. A
few things changed since my last post while others have stayed the same.
Cristian… Read More
2019-04-23 04:02
This is the face of autism.Hi, my name is Frank Priegue, I’m the father of an autistic child. It felt good to write that. This isn’t a deeply held secret, our family… Read More
2019-03-24 19:20
Cristian not quite grasping the concept of running the bases.I’m a simple man with simple tastes. Those who know me will say I love photography, running, a good cup of coffee, Es… Read More
2018-12-20 14:08
Christmas 2014, after pulling Santa’s finger.It’s Christmastime once again, my better half’s favorite time of year. She enjoys spreading Christmas cheer to everyone around… Read More
2018-11-29 14:48
Cristian running on the Coney Island BoardwalkIt was a Wednesday morning, which meant Cristian and I were off to Coney Island. We weren’t going to the amusement park although I p… Read More
2018-11-19 20:52
Do I look like his father or grandfather?I spent my fiftieth birthday in sitting in a movie theater on a humid Summer afternoon. Waiting for the previews to start, I thought about my l… Read More
2018-11-07 08:40
My last post was well received, thank you readers and Dad 2.0 Summit, but there was more to write. Sitting down with my notes, I crafted a new post from deleted bullet points –&nb&hell…Read More
2018-10-27 18:59
With the Birthday Boy at his pre-school.Recently, Cristian celebrated his fourth birthday. For about a week, Esther and I relived our first days as parents. There is something nostalgi… Read More
2018-10-09 10:00
The Birthday BoyHappy Birthday Cristian, today you are four years old. You looked so happy when we put you on the school bus this morning. Mommy and I have a surprise for you, we planned a b… Read More
2018-09-24 10:08
The finished product.You’re in the twilight hours of your pregnancy surviving the baby shower, Lamaze classes, and pregnancy hormones so intense they make a rectal exam from a longshor… Read More
2018-07-30 20:58
The last time it was easy to find someone to babysit.As the father of a three-year old, the concept of a lazy weekend is distant memory. Saturdays, are for chores and errands and Sunda… Read More
2018-06-17 11:35
Today is Father’s Day, I know this because for the past few weeks, my email accounts and social media feeds have been clogged with gift ideas for Dad, everything from Omaha Steaks, t… Read More
2018-01-02 10:43
Don’t let the smile fool you, the bib tells the story.The past three years of parenthood has brought its share of challenges. One of our bigger challenges is finding a reliable b… Read More
2017-12-21 15:08
The 2017 Priegue Family Christmas Card – English Version.It’s almost Christmas making it a perfect time to talk about holiday traditions. A new one for us is family Christm… Read More
2017-12-11 05:06
A few weeks ago, Cristian celebrated his third birthday—how did that happen. I still remember clicking my infant son’s car seat into its base so gently you’d though… Read More
2017-07-11 10:24
Like every parent I thought I’d be cooler and more laid back than my parents were, 33 months later, I’ve had to rethink that. My parents weren’t always the strict, s… Read More
2017-06-24 21:33
So you’re expecting a baby? I’ve taken the same phone call several times over the past months. “Hey Frank, great news, Stephanie’s pregnant, we’re h… Read More
2017-03-04 17:38
Happy Anniversary! Two years ago I launched I’m Not Grandpa—kinda sorta. I posted the Introduction, on September 26th 2014 and a second pos… Read More
2017-02-09 16:14
A few posts back, I shared my battle with maintaining a healthy weight. Before stepping off the scale, my better half and I knew we had to do something. We headed back to our old… Read More
2017-01-31 19:57
Cristian taking off on the Rockaway Beach Boardwalk.Once again it’s time for I’m Not Grandpa to provide valuable information for those considering having children. Parentho… Read More
2017-01-23 04:23
A few posts back I wrote about exorcising 2016’s demons and weight gain. I actually started gaining weight in 2014 during Esther’s pregnancy. I always thought stories of ex… Read More
2017-01-19 14:39
Getting ready to go over the wall when he found out his daycare does not show CNN.After Mommy and Me Class Esther and I talked about putting Cristian into daycare a few days a week so he cou… Read More
2017-01-14 17:13
Cristian at the Long Island AquariumIf you follow this blog you know I’m a cranky dad, a marathon runner and a dog lover. When my better half and I were dating, her dog Chico&rsq&hell…Read More
2017-01-12 04:58
How I’m feeling these days.The beginning a year is for dreams. Dreams of self-improvement, of being healthier, happier and more productive. It’s a time for resolutions&mdas&hell…Read More
2017-01-07 10:34
Enjoying my days as a SAHDIt’s been awhile since my last post—too long. A lot’s changed in the four months since I posted about sore nipples—they’re still… Read More
2016-08-30 19:05
Cristian’s First Piece of Original Artwork. Esther loved it, but I’m going to wait before we think about sending him to art school.I haven’t spent much time at the keyboard… Read More
2016-07-10 06:50
Dad in mid conversation, probably talking politics.A year ago today my Dad passed away and I’ve spent the past week with an overwhelming sense of déjà vu. Whether i… Read More
2016-06-29 19:57
Time has a way of sneaking up on you. I have a hard time believing I’ve been a parent for over year and a half. Spending time with friends recently reminded me how much my… Read More
2016-05-26 16:47
My brother showing me the proper way to hold a baby.A funny thing happened a few weeks ago, Cristian turned 18 months old. A lot’s changed in a year and a half, I no longer look… Read More
2016-04-30 10:50
I’m excited to announce I’m Not Grandpa’s first Guest Post. Please allow me to introduce my new friend Lisa E Hill, a Child Development Consultant and Blogger.
It&rsq&hell…Read More
2016-04-08 11:15
Lola’s children, Esther, Rose Marie and Bobby will be back in Prospect Park tomorrow morning to honor Mami’s memory.Tomorrow morning Esther, Cristian and I are running a 5K… Read More
2016-04-01 10:40
Preface – This is one of my favorite posts. I wrote this as a new father reflecting on childhood memories of my Dad. I’m reposting it on what would have been his 90th… Read More
2016-03-26 17:19
Cristian with some old guy.Before becoming a Stay at Home Dad, I had no idea of what to expect. It was so bad I did a Google search to find out what SAHD meant. Working without a… Read More
2016-03-13 13:46
Esther and I BC – Before CristianParenthood is a life-changing experience, I love being a Dad. That said any parent, or more specifically this parent is letting you know your lif… Read More
2016-03-10 19:39
Esther and I before becoming parents. Notice the smiles on our faces.We all love our kids but being locked up with your little booger monster takes a toll over the long haul A blizzard… Read More
2016-03-04 14:00
Wow I can’t believe it’s been a year since I launched I’m Not Grandpa—well sort of. My first post, the Introduction, went live September 26th 201… Read More
2016-02-25 14:18
Don’t worry son, Daddy has it under control.Becoming a father was an experience filling me with a pride I’d never felt before. When the initial euphoria passed my emotions… Read More
2016-02-20 13:56
I’m Not Grandpa was nominated for a Liebster Award by Jeremy Atkins of Go Ask Your Daddy. Thank you Jeremy! Please take a few minutes and check out Go Ask Your Daddy.
Accepting… Read More
2016-02-17 17:39
A few posts back I wrote about the winter of 2016 wreaking havoc on my family. It’s been a rough one for the baby. Last year he was pretty healthy, but this year he&rs&hell…Read More
2016-02-14 00:36
Another time-honored part of parenting is showing the latest pictures of their son or daughter to friends, family and anyone else who look at them. Bringing stacks of pictures to summ… Read More
2016-02-10 18:04
A Twenty-Something me, with beard and mullet (I know) tailgating before a Grateful Dead show. Photo Randall LuttenburgBecoming a SAHD (Stay at Home Dad) at 50 concerned me a little—oka… Read More
2016-02-06 22:24
2016 hasn’t gotten off to the start I expected. Is it too late to ask for do over? January started off well-for about nine days–then things started unraveling.
Unrave… Read More
2016-02-04 18:27
Parenting is a time-consuming, energy-draining proposition. Babies expect to be fed and those diapers need to be changed every day. I knew this when I signed on, or thought I did… Read More
2016-01-11 22:51
Congratulations you survived the first year of parenthood! It was rough but worth it. This post is an INTERVENTION to any parent thinking it gets easier from here on out. In the… Read More
2016-01-01 21:45
This post also appears in North Queens Runner
Esther, Cristian and I after finishing our Hangover Fun RunThis morning Esther and I continued a family tradition when we took Cristian to Eisen… Read More
2015-12-31 13:57
I’m reluctant to call this post a best of, or highlights, because not everything is a happy memory—but they are memorable. 2015 will be remembered as bittersweet.&nbs&hell…Read More
2015-12-30 15:45
Running the 2012 Battle of Brooklyn 10 Miler
Note this post appears in North Queens Runner in addition to I’m Not Grandpa
I’m back in a familiar place—in front of the keybo… Read More
2015-12-19 16:16
Esther and I pose for a picture during the Tour de Cure, a fund-raising event benefitting the American Diabetes Association.
A few weeks ago Esther, Cristian, and I participated in a charity… Read More
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