There was a man who used to earn money by selling different colors balloon daily. Whenever his sale used to go down, he leaves some balloon in the sky and children used to get excited after seeing that balloon in the sky and they immediately used to visit that man to buy one such balloon. Because of which his sale used to grow once again.One day a boy asked him that if he will leave a BLACK color balloon in the sky, will it flew? That man smiled and said it's not the color of the balloon but it is what's inside that makes it go up. These same principles are applied to our life also. Our ability, attitude and motivation always help us to move ahead in life.
Ability teaches us that How We DO. Motivation teaches us that Why We Do. but it's our Attitude that decides how Well We DO.YOUR ATTITUDE CONTRIBUTES TO SUCCESS. We all know the power of POSITIVE THINKING but very few people understand the power of NEGATIVE THINKING. Yes...this both things are powerful but in the opposite way. Positive thinking encourages a person to touch new heights of success, on the other hand, Negative thinking is the reason behind self-destruction. Our attitude decides how we face the problem. For example for positive thinking people, the problem is like a big opportunity for them whereas, for a negative thinking people, the problem is like a big obstacle for them. Every problem bring an opportunity along with it .
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There are many benefits of Positive Attitude like...you get a meaning for your life. You start to inspire yourself and others also, there is an increase in business and profit. You solve many problems by taking a positive decision. In short, it reduces stress and improves quality of life. On the other side, there are many consequences of a negative attitude. Negative thinking people live a purposeless life neither they are satisfied with anything. whether it is friendship, job, marriage or relationship.M moreover the level of frustration, rudeness and stress increase continuously in their life. Many time they want to remove such a thing from their life but their negative attitude resists them from doing so. Sometimes we become so comfortable with our negativity that we don't change despite of knowing that its good for us .
TWO MAIN STEPS TO GAIN POSITIVE ATTITUDE
CHANGE FOCUS, LOOK FOR THE POSITIVE
Many time people find that thing that they are looking for. That's why we should search positive instead of negative in others ANDREW CARNEGIE was the richest man in the USA and one of the largest steel manufacturer in the world having a net worth of 310 billion dollars. Once he was asked that how he deal with people Andrew said that dealing with people is like searching for gold we have to separate dust and mud while searching for gold. Similarly, while searching for the positive thing in a person, first we have to avoid negative thing about that person. So from now try to change focus and look for the positive in everyone.
MAKE A HABIT OF DOING IT NOW
I have procrastinated many things in life which I regret today. Also, Procrastination leads to the negative attitude which results into delay and regret. Some people procrastinate by saying that they are analyzing or getting ready for the future but even after six months, they are still analyzing or getting ready. if you want to develop a positive attitude then stop procrastination and make a habit of doing it now.
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So to conclude... WINNING is like an event but being a winner is a spirit. DEVELOPE "YES YOU CAN" spirit in yourself by developing a positive attitude. Always remember one thing Winners don't do different think..they do think differently ."DARE TO DREAM...!!!"