2021-01-04 17:00
We all like to think that the people we choose to spend our time with are our friends, and that they always have our best interests at heart. We love watching teen movies for the drama of th… Read More
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Hi, I’m Abi! I’m a 22 year old undergraduate student at Loughborough University. I’m an opinionated, passionate writer who attempts to use my own experiences to help others. Here you will find creative writing, opinion articles and little snippets about my day to day life.
2020-11-20 11:04
Well, it's been a while hasn't it? Nearly 4 months actually. Which is baffling as it's gone so fast but also so much has changed since the last time I put pen to paper (or whatever the onlin… Read More
2020-08-17 16:00
There’s no doubt about it: we're living in a very strange time. As the COVID-19 pandemic has taken hold, everything has been turned upside down – the way we live, work, socialise… Read More
2020-08-02 16:00
Despite the fact that we are in fact living in the 21st century, unfortunately there are still many myths circulating out there about the mystical thing that is, the vagina. Why this is, I'l… Read More
2020-07-26 16:00
University can be the best three or four years of your life. You meet new people, experience new places, immerse yourself in uni culture and managed to scrape together a degree, which promis… Read More
2020-07-19 16:00
Let's be real here - the amount of actual beneficial information in sex ed classes can be pretty hit and miss. Some schools don't even have formal sexual education, and others teach the biol… Read More
2020-07-07 15:42
Can anyone honestly remember the last time they got dressed up? It feels like a lifetime ago since I last went out for anything other than a Tesco shop, and I didn't realise how much I would… Read More
2020-06-28 16:00
As the UK starts to ease lockdown restrictions, I'm hearing of more and more people that feel uncomfortable about life returning to normal, myself included. The term post lockdown anxiety wa… Read More
2020-06-21 16:00
It's hard enough to think of long distance relationship date ideas at the best of times, let alone in the middle of a global pandemic! It's even more important whilst we are still in lockdow… Read More
2020-06-14 16:00
The way we learn about sex and relationships can have an impact and play in a part in our lives as we develop our own relationships as adults. We should be using sex education as a pla… Read More
2020-06-07 16:00
I know from personal experience that trying to save for a house deposit can be being incredibly difficult for young people nowadays. It's really daunting to think that you, in most cases, ne… Read More
2020-05-31 16:00
Well, this post is a little bit different isn’t it? A few weeks ago, I received a letter in the post from the NHS, on behalf of Imperial College London, asking if I was willing to part… Read More
2020-05-25 12:22
Whether you call them jiggle balls, love eggs, kegel balls or Ben Wa balls, they all amount to pretty much the same thing. Rounded, often weighted, products you insert into your vagina for p… Read More
2020-05-10 16:00
Even if you don't usually experience anxiety, being on social media frequently can lead to unhealthy thought patterns such as the dreaded FOMO and comparing yourself to others. And with the… Read More
2020-05-03 16:00
Netflix is such a lifeline at the moment, with the UK still being in lockdown thanks to the C-Word. Can you imagine what it would have been like if this had happened 15 or 20 years ago, and… Read More
2020-04-26 16:00
It's not very often that I review books, as I really don't get to read as much as I would like to. But, given the current C-Word situation I've had a bit more spare time on my hands! I've re… Read More
2020-04-19 16:00
This is a guest post by my lovely friend and fellow blogger Emily, who has recently gone through quite a journey with her boobs! Now, I am in no way claiming to be a professional bra fitter… Read More
2020-04-12 16:00
Period sex is one of those taboo subjects that no one wants to talk about, but deep down, everyone wants to know the details - so what's the real deal? Does sex actually feel better when you… Read More
2020-03-29 11:21
If you've been reading my blog for a while, you'll probably be aware that my boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship at the moment, with about a 3-hour drive between us. However… Read More
2020-03-15 17:00
The topic of how to make friends in your twenties is something I've frequently chatted to others about. It's so easy at this age to start feeling pangs of loneliness as your friends from hom… Read More
2020-03-01 17:00
If you haven't used sex toys before, scrolling through thousands of 17-inch dildos online can be a pretty scary experience. Dipping your toe into the extensive world of sex toys can feel ove… Read More
2020-02-23 17:00
Your twenties are arguably the biggest chunk of time in which you make (and learn from) a multitude of mistakes. From spiritual awakenings to learning that hangovers do get worse with age, o… Read More
2020-02-16 17:00
Luckily, we now live in a world where there are a variety of period products available to us, so no matter what your flow or personal preference, there is bound to be something out there tha… Read More
2020-02-02 17:00
I've recently started getting more anxiety dreams, which I've talked about quite a bit over on my Instagram, so to ease my mind I thought I'd do a bit of research into them and also share my… Read More
2020-01-26 17:00
Whilst I'm not a huge fan of Valentine's Day itself, I do appreciate how diverse gifting has become. Long gone are the days where all you can get is a box of chocolate and some flowers - now… Read More
2020-01-19 17:00
It feels like such a long time ago that I was sat in a stuffy classroom with 25 other teenagers, being taught how to put a condom and a banana and being shown pictures of genital warts. When… Read More
2020-01-05 17:00
Nowadays, it is not uncommon for a lot of people's friends to be spread out across the country, having travelled and relocated for work and relationships since university. And whilst a lot o… Read More
2019-12-15 17:00
It's that time of year again where all original content and ideas goes out of the window and all of your favourite bloggers will be writing posts exactly like this. Blogging goals for 2020… Read More
2019-12-01 17:00
If you know me as a person even a little bit, you will know that I am basically an open book. I'm not sure why, but I have always had a very open attitude to life, sex included. You'll have… Read More
2019-11-24 17:00
As most people nowadays, I'm a sucker for a good series to binge watch in the evenings and Netflix has really been smashing it out of the park with some incredible new TV shows recently. As… Read More
2019-03-31 19:26
Over the last year or two, we’ve been having plenty of public discussions around consent: from the revelations of the #MeToo movement, which have highlighted just how much work there… Read More
2019-03-18 19:59
Musical theatre is a big part of my life and something I'm kind of a little bit in love with. From the classics like Les Mis to more modern productions like Dear Evan Hanson, give me some j… Read More
2019-03-10 16:25
Instagram has long been viewed as a bit of a troublesome social platform. It's generally pretty good at making us all feel a bit inadequate, a bit uglier than everyone else and like the wor… Read More
2019-03-03 16:00
Yes, you heard correctly. Stationary giants and all round spreaders of good will Moonpig teamed up with sexual happiness experts Lovehoney for what I can only describe as my dream giveaway… Read More
2019-02-17 17:00
The thought of the coil was always something that scared me a little. Whilst I'm used to going to the doctors and being poked and prodded in my lady areas, the thought of the coil kind of f… Read More
2019-02-10 17:00
The thought of turning 25 this year fills me with dread. A whole quarter of a century of life, halfway to 50 for goodness sake, and I feel like as each year goes by I'm achieving less and l… Read More
2019-02-03 17:00
It's coming up to just over a year and a half since landing my first job after University. I was incredibly lucky to be accepted at my job around 6 weeks after my graduation, but I know eve… Read More
2019-01-27 16:09
I'm a big lover of skincare and face masks, so it's surprising that it has taken me this long to discover the wonder of sheet masks. Less fuss and mess and generally less time consuming tha… Read More
2019-01-20 16:21
The conversation surrounding popular contraceptive methods, and most often, the pill, has been growing recently, with more and more women and girls opening up about their struggles and side… Read More
2019-01-13 16:00
I think everyone is a fan of a good old fashioned movie night. Whether it's a trip to the cinema or snuggling up in your duvet in your fave pyjamas on a cold winter evening, movie nights ar… Read More
2019-01-06 17:00
Despite living a short train journey from the capital, I have rarely visited London and it's attractions. In the last few years, with my partner living even closer to London, I've been able… Read More
2018-12-30 17:00
2018 was a pretty great year for me. When I look back on my 2018 goals, I am proud of how many things I have managed to accomplish or at least improve on. As I've said before, I don't like… Read More
2018-12-02 17:00
I personally think I'm quite a good gift giver, as I try to find gifts that will really mean something to that person. If I can, I will try and avoid common high street stores as I find the… Read More
2018-11-22 16:57
When I first started my blog, I was a full-time university student in my final year of studying. I was doing a media related degree, balancing the stress of revision and my dissertation wit… Read More
2018-11-17 18:00
I am starting this series is to try and normalise discussions amongst women and break the taboo. We're going to talk about everything from periods to contraceptives, from sexuality to mastu… Read More
2018-11-06 17:01
As a true chocoholic, it's an huge understatement to say I was excited when I was approached by Hugo's Chocolate Club for a review. Hugo's provide a monthly subscription box of delicious ar… Read More
2018-10-17 16:30
What's this? An extra post? Aren't you lucky! Come on in to learn a little bit more about me and see which of my favourite bloggers I have nominated to take part!
The post The Mystery Blog… Read More
2018-10-14 16:30
Feeling lonely in your twenties is not something we tend to associate with young people. We assume that those in their twenties will be living the time of their lives, going travelling, bei… Read More
2018-10-07 18:36
Nobody should be made to feel like their weight or their size is more important than their health and happiness. Our generation in particular has become obsessed with our bodies and how we… Read More
2018-09-30 16:30
I cannot believe it has been two years since I decided to create What Abigail Says. Time has gone so fast! I'm very proud of myself for sticking at blogging, and it has brought my so much h… Read More
2018-09-23 16:30
I used to picture self-care in a very specific and stereotypical way; a bubble bath, a face mask and glass of wine is usually what springs to mind. Whilst this is great, self-care is so muc… Read More
2018-09-09 16:30
A trip to Dubrovnik had been a feature on my must-travel list for quite a few years now. So about a year ago now, when my boyfriend and I finally booked our flights and accommodation, it&rs&helli…Read More
2018-09-02 16:30
I don't think I could call myself a blogger if I didn't love purchasing, using and reviewing Lush products! As we are nearing the end of the summer here in the UK, I thought I would do a li… Read More
2018-08-26 16:30
As a woman, we hear a lot about body confidence in the media. We are more frequently being encouraged to embrace our bodies and celebrate them, no matter what shape or size. Whilst this is… Read More
2018-08-19 16:30
I'm not normally someone to focus on material objects. I would much prefer to do and do and see things, than own them. However, I have recently been enjoying what I suppose are more persona… Read More
2018-08-12 09:53
Have you ever craved a glass of wine without the hangover? Or wanted a drink with the girls only to realise it's your turn to be designated driver? Enter Vinoos Real Wine Gums, your new bes… Read More
2018-07-30 13:16
Rhodes is and has always been one of those destinations that I have been in awe over. The crystal clear blue seas, the architecture and the heat have all contributed to making Rhodes a fami… Read More
2018-07-15 18:00
I recently made the choice to cancel my Birchbox subscription after around 2 years of being a member. I chose to switch to Glossybox, arguably their biggest competitor, having seen lots of… Read More
2018-07-08 18:00
You may have noticed that I’ve not been posting as regularly over the past few months, and I’ve been taking frequent breaks away from social media. I’ve purposefully been… Read More
2018-07-01 06:00
I was recently nominated by the lovely Lacy at Rock Paper Spirit for The Sunshine Blogger Award, which aims to highlight bloggers who are inspiring, positive, and creative. I’m so thr… Read More
2018-06-22 18:00
It’s been around 4 years now since I passed my driving test. It really doesn’t feel that long ago! I didn’t have the easiest experience learning to drive with anxiety. Two… Read More
2018-06-08 18:00
A very different post from me today! I've never done a 'tag' post before, but I saw this and couldn't resist as Gilmore Girls is one of my all-time favourite shows.
The post Gilmore Girls T… Read More
2018-06-03 18:32
It’s been about 4 years since I first visited Amsterdam. It was booked quite spontaneously with one of my close friends and was my first holiday without my parents, and I then revisit… Read More
2018-05-18 17:30
Bakerdays are an online bakery that specialises in personalised and uniquely designed cakes that can be posted directly to your door. They offer a wide range of flavours and designs for all… Read More
2018-05-11 18:00
After studying a Media based degree, I can really understand the importance of what social media can bring to our lives. To connect with others around the world at the touch of a button is… Read More
2018-04-28 16:00
Yet another month has passed and it’s time for another Birchbox Review! The April Birchbox is in collaboration with UK fashion and homeware brand Cath Kidson, to celebrate their 25th… Read More
2018-04-15 16:30
Around 4 years ago now, I was knee deep in planning for the best holiday I have ever been on. Interrailing is a great way to travel around Europe on a budget, and it really kick-started my… Read More
2018-04-08 16:30
When I was younger, 23 seemed like the sort of age where you would start to have things figured out. I would be thinking about marriage, making progress in my career, brunching with my girl… Read More
2018-03-31 16:40
Ohh, look, a new fancy internet space that is all mine! As you’ve probably noticed, things are looking a little different around here. I finally took the plunge and went self-hosted a… Read More
2018-03-18 16:45
It’s that time of the month again where I share with you the contents of my Birchbox. For those who aren’t aware, Birchbox is a beauty subscription service that sends you a perso… Read More
2018-03-11 18:00
When I was approached by Fair Squared regarding a review of their products, I was intrigued. I’m always looking for new skincare products to try, so I jumped at the chance to do a bit… Read More
2018-03-11 18:00
When I was approached by Fair Squared regarding a review of their products, I was intrigued. I’m always looking for new skincare products to try, so I jumped at the chance to do a bit… Read More
2018-03-04 11:24
A few weeks ago now, I experienced what I can only describe as a total outfit and body confidence crisis. I was away at my boyfriend’s house, so I had packed limited clothing options… Read More
2018-02-11 19:42
Jen's Sweet Shop is a traditional and retro sweet shop, based in Sutton Coldfield in the UK. Set up 8 years ago, Jen's Sweet Shop aims to bring the nostalgic sweets of the past to your doors… Read More
2018-01-28 19:30
During December, Boots UK ran a 12 days of Christmas campaign on their Instagram page. As part of this, one of the prizes was the L’Oréal Paris Age Perfect makeup collection. On… Read More
2018-01-21 19:30
This week, I completed my second and final week of jury service. For those who aren’t aware, jury service here in the UK requires you to go to court and form part of a 12 person jury t… Read More
2018-01-14 15:54
Birchbox really have outdone themselves this month! They have teamed up with possibly one of my favourite UK brands, the stationary company Ohh Deer. Ohh Deer specialise in quirky, funny, an… Read More
2018-01-07 17:14
Many of you will soon be returning back to university after a (hopefully) very relaxing Christmas break. The dread will soon kick in, the panic about graduate life will start and you will re… Read More
2017-12-28 20:18
As the New Year approaches, everyone’s minds tend to wander towards what we can do in 2018 to improve ourselves and our lives. Rather than resolutions, I like to set myself goals of th… Read More
2017-12-10 19:00
After taking a break from these reviews last month, I am back with an absolute stunner of a Birchbox for December. With a theme of ‘Life’s Little Treasures’, it seemed perf… Read More
2017-11-25 20:24
This is not my story. For those who do not know, #MeToo was (and still is) a social movement that became associated with the Harvey Weinstein assault allegations that emerged recently. Origi… Read More
2017-11-17 14:16
I am very happy to say that I have been nominated by the lovely Kirsty for The Versatile Blogger Award! For those who don’t know, this award was created to recognise and highlight blo… Read More
2017-11-05 20:30
It seems almost like criteria that at some point, every blogger must do a post on Lush products! I’m all aboard the stereotype train as I adore Lush and have been buying their product… Read More
2017-10-29 19:52
I believe being organised is one of the best skills you can have in the working world. When we are organised, we think clearly and can channel our attention onto the finer details of the ta… Read More
2017-10-15 20:32
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This month’s Birchbox theme is ‘feeling good’ and in honour of Breast Canc… Read More
2017-09-25 19:05
‘Hit The Ground Running’ is released not long after the best-selling singer songwriter celebrated the 10 year anniversary of his debut album ‘Hand Built By Robots’… Read More
2017-09-13 19:25
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Is anybody else suddenly shocked that we are in September?! Where has this year gone&hellip&hellip…Read More
2017-09-04 20:26
It’s that time of year again when everyone starts to think about heading off to University. Whether you are an eager fresher bursting with excitement, or an anxious second year strugg… Read More
2017-08-28 18:30
It’s something that has been said to me a lot recently and got me thinking. The phrase “you’re shy aren’t you?”
I’ve been pretty shy for most of my life… Read More
2017-08-21 18:30
I’m officially one week into being a ‘real adult’ and I’m so happy to tell you guys I’m having an amazing time. Don’t get me wrong, I’m permanently… Read More
2017-08-14 18:30
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Following the positive feedback I got for my last Birchbox review, I thought I would continu… Read More
2017-08-07 20:00
Positive thinking is a massive part of my personal well-being. I always find that if I am ‘thinking happy’, it really does improve my mood and lift my spirits. I’m not cl… Read More
2017-07-31 19:45
As you may know, I have recently finished university for good and have now moved back in with my parents. To begin with, it was really calming to be back and have time to myself as final ye… Read More
2017-07-24 19:45
On Friday, I had the absolute pleasure of graduating from university with a 2:1 in Communication and Media Studies. Never in a million years did I think I would be the first in my family to… Read More
2017-07-17 19:30
Disclaimer: This post contains triggering subjects, mainly anorexia. If this bothers you, I urge you not to continue reading, because I – in no shape, way, or form – intend on ha… Read More
2017-07-10 19:19
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This is a slightly different post for me, but I thought it might be interesting to review my… Read More
2017-07-03 19:49
Body shaming is described as an action or practice of humiliating a person by making mocking or critical comments about their body shape or size. It is something that is seen almost daily a… Read More
2017-06-27 19:55
Summer has always been my favourite of all seasons. As a kid, I used to look forward to going to summer camp, going on family holidays and being free. Now that I’m older, I find I long… Read More
2017-06-19 20:06
It’s official. I have finished University and have moved back home for the inevitable future. It can be hard to go from such a structured life of lectures and revision to being free, a… Read More
2017-06-12 20:00
Music can be such an influence on your mood. It can make you smile and laugh. It can make you dance and forget the world. It uplifts and energises you. The power of a song should never be un… Read More
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