Ladies, the more revealing the outfit the less the guy listens to you. Why? Because his mind is busy wandering and lusting after you. If you are looking for an easy lay then go right ahead, but if you want something more then keep it classy yet sexy.
Guys, look your best as well. Most ladies go far and beyond to look good for their dates and what do they get in return? Guys that show up looking like they just woke up. Ditch the basketball and sports apparel as well as sweatpants please...big turn off for dates.
Guys, don't ask a woman out on a date and expect her to pay. In my world? That's a no no no. If you don't wanna pay up then don't bother asking her out.
Ladies, please stop the pretense and enjoy your meal. Is it supposed to be part of feminine traits for women to eat only salads while on dates? I see it happen a lot and it is totally ridiculous. I remember one of my college roommates from years ago: whenever she came back from dates she would go straight to the kitchen and chow down. Absolutely ridiculous. Why go to a restaurant for a date of you would not eat and pretend your appetite is smaller than that of a newborn baby? So childish!!!
Guys, if you are the type that likes to go for a first date kiss please ensure your breath won't be mistaken for a decomposed corpse. Bad breath is the biggest turn off ever. I don't care if you look like Tom Cruise with the body of The Rock, if your breath kicks and punches then you are out the door. Some years ago, I went on a date with a guy that had the worst breath ever recorded in the history of mankind. At the end of the date, he had the effrontery to go for a kiss. When he tried to kiss me, I did the matrix move and leaned all the way back pushing away from him . I'm sure he felt embarrassed and all that but sorry I don't stick my mouth in toilet. Btw, didn't know I was so flexible till that day because that lean back was epic.
Finally, be yourself. If you have to lie through your teeth and constantly be on edge while on a date then that's a good sign there shouldn't be a second date with that person. Going on dates should be fun, relaxing and better yet super duper awesome!
