Hello guys! Hope you are all doing well? I am actually really happy,maybe because it's another Wednesday and the week is almost over! Today is yet another topic on my blog and I have actually being asked a couple of times the same question. What will you do to get over a break up? As it is, there are couple of articles you might find online discussing this particular topic. So I am going to tell you how I will get over a Breakup in my style
There are 5 ways for me, ladies and gents!
1.) Avoid isolation: as it is right now, your worst enemy is isolation. Your brain does evaluation when you are alone, therefore making you think of unnecessary things. I will avoid every chance of being alone. I would rather surround myself with positive people, people that love you, people that won't judge you and people who understand how you feel. You need the love and you need to share a laugh with people that truly care about you.
2.) Get occupied: you will at a point be alone, maybe a day or two or at night. Get some sleep at night. Create some kind of project, or an assignment or a task, start a healthy diet not just for weight loss, for cleansing, start a workout plan, start a blog, start an home business, get more hours at work, volunteer, take more credit hours in school. make sure your plate is full, it makes it harder to think about the bad breakup!
3.) Avoid Social media: the last thing I need now is to see my ex rebounding or getting a new girlfriend or doing and saying things like they never knew you existed. You do not necessarily have to deactivate your account. Pay attention to what you say on social media! Direct all your pains, complains and agony to The Lord not facebook! You can stay away from Social Media as long as you want or you might keep using it but do not let it get the best of you
4.)Start Fresh: it's very ok to go on dates! Maybe avoid getting into another relationship, but going on dates makes you meet new people and it's a nice way to help you get over your breakup by getting new friends to hang out with! Be careful though, you don't want to tell every single person about your breakup!
5.) keep hate far from you: You wanna make sure you don't hate your ex, it's very beneficial for you, it's the only way if you want to move on and find the right person! A lot of times breakups happens because the other person thinks you are not the right person for them due to certain reasons. This doesn't mean they are assholes or douchebags, it's only right that they do the proper thing if they think it's not going to work between you and them.
As you guys know, I like to keep it short and simple! I don't do the long articles. Lol..Smiley face
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