Everybody wants to get boo’d up, but no one wants the extra stress that comes with it. It’s like half the country expects a partner to fall right in their laps.
The thing is, it doesn’t work that way. In fact, it might take you some good fashioned Preparation to be entirely in line. While that preparation entails plenty of things, there are a few I can help out with.
For example, on your first date, you need to make all the right moves. Asking the wrong question will ruin that chance for you, totally. To help you, use this list of top 5 things not to do on the first date.
Want to go back to my place?
Never ask the girl you’re on a date with if they want to go back home with you. First, that’s not being security conscious. Second, try to get to know the person before you think of sex, will you?
You’re not a feminist, are you?
Holdup, champ! And if she is? It’s not wrong to subscribe to opinions and have standards, so don’t sound like it is. Thank you.
How much do you weigh?
You might as well outrightly establish yourself as a bully. You shouldn’t be going on date if you plan on body shaming your date, anyway. Plus, what does her weight have to do with anything? If you really want to get to know her, refrain from that line of questioning.
Are you a virgin?
Whoa! Never ever ask this question. It’s insulting, especially on a first date. Also, it’s not your business. If it’s so important, probably because of your religion, ask when you two are closer friends. Be sure to ask constructively too.
How old are you?
If you’re familiar with courtesy, this question is ruled out of the first date questions. It only validates the warped belief that how Women look is very important. Society has forced the idea that women should look young irrespective of whether or not they are. Don’t entertain that with this question.
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