What does it mean to be shy? There are different levels of shyness, but where are YOU at right now? Do you have trouble saying hello to a female? Do you get on Russian dating sites and think, ” I am not good enough for her, so I won’t say anything.” If this sounds like you, then don’t worry, a lot of people deal with a form of shyness if they like to admit it or not. Why are we shy? Are we afraid of being embarrassed? Is it a self-confidence thing? Being on dating sites does take a bit of self-confidence. Are you Shy? Here are opening tips on how to talk with beautiful women online.
Read Before You Start
Before we talk about your first Message you send someone on dating sites. Let’s talk about how shy you really are. Have you noticed how when you are around your closest friends, you can say anything? What about when you are chatting online in a forum you are comfortable with? You notice how everything that comes to mind becomes words on the screen. In reality, there are scenarios where you are completely not shy. It is possible to battle shyness because you know that you are vocal when you are comfortable. Before you dive into Russian dating sites, it is best to build confidence first. You have to believe that you are good enough to talk to these women and that you can do it. It will take time to understand that talking on a dating site is a skill. You have to be patient and knowledgeable. Just like anything, you have to find your comfort level and get better at the skill. If you are committed to learning and finding that confidence in yourself then keep reading.
Set Yourself up for Success
You have made it this far. You want to make changes in your life. Talking to beautiful women is not the easiest thing for someone who has battled shyness all of their life. That is why the more you practice, the more you learn, the more comfortable you will be. The first skill to learn is the opening conversation when chatting with someone online. You have to go into the conversation feeling confident that you are what she is looking for. A good rule of thumb is to look at her profile and understand who she is. Find that common interest you have with her before you ever send the first message. If you don’t have a common interest with her then find something interesting about her that you have a question about. Doing these steps will give off a good impression that you like her for more than her looks. In fact, never message a female because of her photos. Let your first message be because you find her attractive AND you have a common interest with her. You will learn how to pace yourself and be selective about what you want in your relationship.
The Opener
The moment has come. You have been searching all through the Russian dating sites and you find someone that you find attractive and have a common interest with. Now it is time to open up the message and send your first message to her. Here is a very unique spot in if you succeed or fail in the relationship. There is a very fine line here that is important to understand. You can’t send something that she gets every day. You have to message something unique that could build into a conversation. I know, unique is such a tough word to understand. You are probably thinking, “I am shy already, what do you mean by being unique?”
Your first message should be confident and upbeat. It should start off with a simple, “Hey, (insert her name)! Make the first sentence stand out with her name. It grabs her attention in that you took the time to get to know her name. Your second message is the common interest. One of the more popular things females put on their dating profiles is that they like to travel. Your second message could be about her love for travel. It could say something like, ” I saw you love to travel, I actually just got back from Cancun, Mexico and it was so hot but so much fun on the beach with clear waters. Where is your favorite place to travel to?” What you have done here is that you have expressed interest in something she likes and she found out you like her interest. She sees that you also traveled recently, so it shows your fun side. It also opens up for her to have a conversation with you. Will this work 100 percent of the time? No. What it does do is give you an opening to actually connect with her if she responds. It helps you become more comfortable so you can show your personality to her.
Recap…
Being shy and becoming an online dating master will take time. It will all come down to how comfortable you get talking with women on Russian dating sites. Remember, you know how you act when you are comfortable. Being uncomfortable makes us all feel out of place. You have to look at dating online as a skill so you can get the results you want. The better you are and the more practice you get, the better your results will be. Be confident in your opener, find a common interest to talk about, and feel positive. If it doesn’t work with one female, don’t feel down. Practice makes perfect. Keep getting better and you will see your success rate turn.
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