2022-08-15 22:30
Today I’m grateful to God for everything I have and where I am today. I am confident that God is able to keep me and lead me in His will for my life. His arm has not lost its power; it… Read More
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2022-08-14 21:41
I want to share with you what I took from church today, I hope you gain something as well.
Worship is a state of the heart.
Put God’s word above and first Matt 15:6.
Worship G… Read More
2022-08-13 20:44
I think I’m at a place where I don’t know what’s happening again.
I just feel a little unsure and frustrated. Left to me, I’ll isolate but I really can’t do… Read More
2022-08-12 21:43
Sometimes we forget that we have God backing us up. We struggle and struggle with keeping up or making things happening, however, it’s the Spirit in us that empowers us, not our own st… Read More
2022-08-12 01:11
I didn’t think yesterday’s entry will be published today
I slept off in an interesting way. After taking a walk (which I didn’t complete actually because of rain), I go… Read More
2022-08-10 22:52
Today I’m going to share a few things I learned in church.
Here are two (2) reasons to give thanks to God as Christians;
⁃ We give thanks because it is the will of God for… Read More
2022-08-09 22:18
I’m currently learning that I should take things one thing at a time. When I need rest, I should rest. I should learn to weigh options appropriately because if I fall sick or drop dead… Read More
2022-08-08 22:54
Have you noticed that there’s always enough excuse for someone that has made up their mind to not do something or someone that is scared of doing something. It’s crazy.
I just… Read More
2022-08-07 22:58
Today I’m going to share something short I got from the person that led prayers this evening.
God does not send you to the war without passing through battlesStephen Fasonye (SFF)… Read More
2022-08-06 22:46
I hope you had a restful Saturday. Mine was okay, filled with tasks, but okay, thank God.
I saw something I wrote in my notes some months back and I thought to share it today.
I think… Read More
2022-08-05 22:49
This week, I’ve had to do a lot of learning. It’s also been a busy week but I’ve also been feeling thankful, grateful and content. God is good.
Happy new month btw (I&rs&hell…Read More
2022-08-04 22:54
So far this month, I’ve been in a really good mood. I think being the beginning of a new month, I’ve had to look back and I’m just grateful. I’m thankful.
Anyway… Read More
2022-08-03 21:06
I feel so tired and sleepy, I’m not sure what to say today. I slept for barely 4 hours last night and I think I have a headache. So I’m going to leave you with something that cam… Read More
2022-08-02 22:47
If you’re reading this, I just want to ask how you’re doing. How are you?
You can leave a comment or send me an email [email protected]
Also, I just want to let you… Read More
2022-08-01 22:52
Happy new month. How was July for you?
It’s been a month since I started to document daily on my blog 5 more months to go.
Throughout the month of July, my church has taught on… Read More
2022-07-31 22:58
Today’s content is a little different. Church today was amazing and I thought to share some of what was shared in church.
In church, the sermon title was “The zeal of the Lord… Read More
2022-07-30 22:54
One good thing I love about challenges and setbacks is the growth that comes when you overcome them.
You just become better somehow, through learning, whether intentionally or unintention… Read More
2022-07-29 22:40
Today has been somewhat hard. Been in a bit of pain, but I’m okay now. Thankfully, I have a few things to share with you too.
Firstly, God is all-knowing. Sometimes He gives you ins… Read More
2022-07-28 22:52
Today was a somewhat good day. It was my sister’s birthday and we had a little something in the evening for her.
Anyway, I have a question.
Have you ever been okay, then somethin… Read More
2022-07-27 22:51
I’m here searching in my heart what to write about and nothing exactly is coming to mind.
Let me vaguely share something deep that’s currently on my mind.
Do you ever feel… Read More
2022-07-26 22:39
Here’s a quote I saw
“When dealing with people, remember you are not dealing with creatures of logic, but with creatures bristling with prejudice and motivated by pride and va… Read More
2022-07-25 22:10
I don’t have much to say today, so I’ll leave you with something I tweeted earlier today.
Remember, be a light in your space Read More
2022-07-24 22:32
With life, I’m beginning to realize the more that, if you don’t learn your lessons well, you will go through another experience that will hammer that lesson into your brain.
A… Read More
2022-07-23 21:46
Today, I’m so tired. I really didn’t feel like putting out anything today, I just wanted to sleep and do it in the morning. Anyway, here I am.
I don’t really have much t… Read More
2022-07-22 21:32
El-Roi is one of my favorite names and revelation of God. It means “The God who sees me”.
I remember the first time I came across this name intentionally (in February or so)… Read More
2022-07-21 22:45
I was chatting with a friend and I mentioned what I don’t like about meetings, after she said she just came out of a long meeting. Then she was like ‘you should blog on this&rsqu&hell…Read More
2022-07-20 22:48
Today, it really hit me how I limit myself. I was going through someone’s IG on sales and marketing, and I knew most of what he shared. I saw how he carried himself and called himself… Read More
2022-07-19 22:17
Jesus saves.
That’s really all I have for today.
Remember, be a light in your space Read More
2022-07-18 21:19
Today is one of those really good days. I had a good time hanging with my friend, it was what i didn’t know I needed tbh.
Here’s a little something for today’s entry:… Read More
2022-07-17 21:46
I’m watching a movie currently (Abejoye), and it’s a reminder that one doesn’t need to know a lot biblically to preach the gospel and perform miracles. You can start with t… Read More
2022-07-16 21:20
I had an okay day today, mostly filled with introspection, reflection, and a little awkwardness.
Sometimes I want to be vulnerable but it can be hard. I’ve been called aloof, stolid… Read More
2022-07-15 21:57
Today, I’m going to share highlights of my week. So here goes.
I got to rest a lot this week, there was no work pressure and I really enjoyed that. The past two weeks before this we… Read More
2022-07-14 22:35
Nothing much to say today, literally, but I’ll leave this with you.
“Whatsoever you give yourself will consume you. I hope whatever it is, it’s good for you.”
R… Read More
2022-07-13 22:35
I had a tiring day today, I was mostly out, trying to get things sorted out. From my waka about, I went to church. I’m so tired that I just want to sleep, but I have to share something… Read More
2022-07-12 21:23
Today I learned something and I’m glad God gave me the grace to learn, because it was painful to admit.
I was pissed about something and getting a second opinion made me realize I w… Read More
2022-07-11 21:59
Today is one of those days where I really don’t have a message to share, but thank God this blog series isn’t only about lessons and the likes.
So what will I be doing today?… Read More
2022-07-10 21:53
I hope you had a good Sunday today. Mine was relaxed and I pretty much liked it.
Today, I have nothing much, only that I realize people hardly take responsibility for their wrong actions… Read More
2022-07-09 22:20
There were two (2) things I had in mind to share today but as it is, I can’t remember the second one, I should have written it down.
Today was the mid-year worker’s retreat in… Read More
2022-07-08 22:11
I saw a tweet that said ‘when you’ve reached rock bottom, the only way is upwards’.
It reminded me of something I’ve always had in mind. When everything is bad, es… Read More
2022-07-07 22:51
Before I go into what I have for today, I’d like to know what you do when you feel overwhelmed with things happening in your life. How do you find relief?
Personally, when overwhelm… Read More
2022-07-06 22:22
This night, I’m a little bummed out and have been cringing for most of it, but here’s what I want to share today with you.
Sometimes I feel the way we relate normally with peo… Read More
2022-07-05 22:37
So, today was a very unproductive day for me. I had things to do but just couldn’t bring myself to be productive. I dunno why. This means tomorrow and next is going to be really busy… Read More
2022-07-04 22:21
Today, I documented things to share and had about three (3) things to talk about. I’m going to talk about one in detail and the rest briefly.
The first one is how God makes you a be… Read More
2022-07-03 22:09
Church was awesome today and I loved every bit of it. One thing I took away that I think is worth sharing is that, in the revelation of who God is, we discover who we truly are; our identity… Read More
2022-07-02 22:59
Today I was listening to a sermon by Pastor Emmanuel Iren and he said ‘you’re expressive for the things that really matter to you’.
He explained further on how you&rsquo&hell…Read More
2022-07-01 21:38
Hi guys,
Today is the very first entry of my documenting something, anything be it a thought, lesson, observation, rant etc.
Today, all I want to say is you’re stronger than you… Read More
2022-04-08 09:30
There’s a popular quote people say a lot
‘Work smart, not hard’
I think I understand the quote however, it can be a bit misleading. Some people might think they don&r&hell…Read More
2022-03-24 18:55
For the past two weeks, I’ve been feeling a bit stuck. I’m not sure how to explain it, at the same time I think I can try.
2 weeks ago, I had an idea or a bit of an epiphany c… Read More
2022-03-18 07:12
Photo by Khoa Võ from Pexels
Have things happened to you and you wonder what’s wrong with you or why things are just against you?
Anyone?
Well, I have… Read More
2022-03-11 11:20
Reflecting on a lot that has happened in my family, it got me thinking about how being physically close to each other made us close and more understanding of each other.
In December o… Read More
2022-03-04 12:01
Photo by Anastasiya Gepp from Pexels
2 weeks ago, I was thinking about how I’ve had beautiful conversations with people, mostly people in passing or strangers.
I a… Read More
2022-02-25 16:13
Photo by Secret Garden
Just a few weeks ago, I read the book of Esther wholly for the first time (as long as I remember).
Of course, I knew about Esther and had even read a couple of c… Read More
2022-02-18 20:05
On Wednesday was my birthday and I was going through lots of emotions (mostly good) and reflected on what I’m currently learning in this season of my life.
They say the strongest pe… Read More
2022-02-11 13:05
Photo by Kristina Nor
Expectations are expected.
That’s funny saying that right? Why will I start by using the same words in a sentence?
Well, expectations are expected.
Wh… Read More
2022-02-04 20:44
Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.comI remember a certain time in my life where people had to say or do certain things to trigger me.
There was also a time where out of anxiety, fear or anger, I… Read More
2020-10-12 20:59
What is Emotional Numbness?
Numbness means a loss of sensation, Emotional numbness is simply a coping mechanism used to shut out feelings and emotions. The person gets to a point where th… Read More
2020-09-08 22:57
As much as we are told to show ourselves, vulnerability is risky. However, I believe most things in life are risky. I really have no point here. I guess I want to state that to let people in… Read More
2020-09-07 20:57
I think it’s quite interesting that the more you know, the more aware of how much you don’t know; the more ignorant you think you are (rather, the more ignorant you are).
Ther… Read More
2020-09-07 20:54
When you know exactly what to look out for or what to do, it saves a lot of time. This is why knowledge is needed and not just knowledge, but understanding also. Knowledge can come in differ… Read More
2020-09-07 20:31
You’d think one would know this but I’m still learning that the best thing you can do in any given circumstance is to be yourself.
Sometimes there is a certain pressure or sho… Read More
2020-09-07 20:22
You know how people’s insecurities seem like you are the problem, you’re not. They are the problem, it’s their insecurities that pushes them away and makes them almost sabo… Read More
2020-09-03 22:30
So this might sound obvious but I realize that things bother us and cause us to overthink because we really care about it.
So whether it’s your job, reputation, a project, your frie… Read More
2020-09-02 22:50
Do you know that life continues when you die?
I mean, that work you want to stress over or kill yourself for, that responsibility you think you have that won’t let you take a break… Read More
2020-09-01 21:15
I think it’s amazing how everyone has their own problems that bother them so much that they don’t think about the problems of others.
I don’t think it’s selfishnes… Read More
2020-08-31 22:51
When you find yourself complaining so much about life, maybe it’s time to count your blessings.
It helps bring you back to what really matters Read More
2020-08-30 22:13
Most of the battles we fight (if not all), starts in the mind. Battlefield of the mind is a hard one.
Some things are false but we tend to believe that lie presenting itself as truth. Fun… Read More
2020-08-29 22:50
I started reading ‘The Obstacle is the way’, a book by Ryan Holiday. I read a few things and I’d like to share.
‘The impediment to action advances action.What stan… Read More
2020-08-28 21:39
Sometimes, it takes someone getting you to speak out about your fears to let you know that you’re doing well.
Sometimes, mentioning good things about a situation let’s you kno… Read More
2020-08-28 21:38
I’ve realized that everyone has something they do really well. Some people do most things well, so their list is longer.
I also notice that people think that because they do well in… Read More
2020-08-25 22:46
I’m a to-do list kind of person, it keeps me on track so I know what to do. Today, I had a lot to do but my family had other plans. It’s either I’m helping my mom to do som… Read More
2020-08-25 22:43
You can’t come and kill yourself.
To my non-Nigerian readers, it simply means you can’t be stressed by things you can’t exactly control Read More
2020-08-25 22:42
We all like attention, even though it’s a little bit of it. This makes us want to be heard, to be seen, to be appreciated. That’s not bad on it’s own.
However, today, I… Read More
2020-08-23 22:26
I’m learning that some things will never make sense until much later and that’s fine. You don’t have to know everything or understand everything. Sometimes understanding co… Read More
2020-08-22 22:05
There are certain things you literally can’t do anything about but simply trust God Read More
2020-08-21 22:09
Learning that real life practical is harder than theory. You know what to do in certain situations until it actually happens to you.
Emotions come in. Things happen.
Even if you’… Read More
2020-08-20 22:50
They say there are optimists and there are pessimistic but there are realists too that most times tend towards pessimism. I’m the latter and it can be hard to be hopeful sometimes… Read More
2020-08-20 22:42
Procrastination sometimes is not because you just want to put off a work, it’s more like you’re not ready to take on such a task that has the possibility of stressing you and so… Read More
2020-08-17 22:50
I realize that it can be hard to state what you want but it’s easier to state what you don’t want.
However, what you don’t want can give you an idea of what you want… Read More
2020-08-16 22:44
When you don’t like what certain people stand for, you tend to get defensive even when they do the basic things.
Today a herder came near our compound and I was already triggered. B… Read More
2020-08-15 22:31
When there are challenges, I learn something new about myself; some negative and some positive. I’m grateful for being aware enough to take note of this.
The first step to solving a… Read More
2020-08-15 22:27
I have realized that some people get angry at you just because you did the right thing and that’s fine.
They even get angrier when you don’t engage them in their insults or fo… Read More
2020-08-15 22:24
There are people that have a good sense of who they are and there are those that have a false sense of who they are. It’s either they are better than they think or simply not as good a… Read More
2020-08-12 22:50
Sometimes we feel anxious that we want it all to be settled but truth is, some things will scare us and it could actually because we want it to work out but we’re not sure if it will b… Read More
2020-08-12 22:49
I was worried about doing something and I talked to my sister. She left me with the following words and I was encouraged.
‘No is an answer. ‘What if…?’ is a quest… Read More
2020-08-10 22:55
Today, I completed my first ever class I taught and it went well. True that the turnout was low compared to what I pictured but I’m glad it happened this way.
I’ve learned wha… Read More
2020-08-10 22:53
Guess I made it to day 70. That means 70 lessons so far.
I was supposed to post this yesterday but unfortunately I couldn’t.
There are days you feel on top of the world and there… Read More
2020-08-08 22:45
I’m learning that when you do things that scare you often, it becomes better and not as scary as before. Today I taught my first class and I was a bit nervous but I’m glad that h… Read More
2020-08-08 22:44
Some days, you simply don’t have the strength to do certain things and that’s okay Read More
2020-08-06 22:02
I’m learning more and more to see myself the way God sees me. Sometimes when something big happens, I have doubts, insecurities creep in and that’s all I begin to think about… Read More
2020-08-05 22:45
There’s always a process when doing something great. In due time, it’ll all make sense Read More
2020-08-04 22:26
I’m learning to show people I don’t like kindness. Jesus said to love our enemies and it’s hard. Today, I tried something new and I saw positive results.
When you choose… Read More
2020-08-03 22:50
I’m learning to not react to everything around me.
I realize that some people take joy in your reactions and so they make things happen for you to react. It’s not easy to not… Read More
2020-08-02 22:59
I’m learning that one should get used to taking risks because most of the things in this life have a form of risk taking. Not everything is sure.
When I take a risk and it doesn&rsq&hell…Read More
2020-08-01 22:42
Life is goes on and on and doesn’t wait for any man. The earlier you realize this, the more useful you’d be Read More
2020-07-31 22:50
I’m learning and will continually learn (I need a constant reminder tbh) to take things one day at a time so I’m not easily fatigued.
I’m also learning that fear will be… Read More
2020-07-31 21:43
If you don’t expect anything from anyone, you’ll be less disappointed. However, it’s hard to not have expectations for people, particularly people you care about.
What t… Read More
2020-07-29 22:50
I was in a zoom meeting with people that wanted to start a mental health project. I was impressed at how fast paced some of them thought and how they wanted to move. They were already making… Read More
2020-07-28 22:13
I was having a conversation with my mom and my sister earlier today. She was talking about someone that is going through a lot and felt like God had abandoned them. To be honest, I understan… Read More
2020-07-27 21:31
Today I felt like not putting anything up but the essence of this series is consistency right?
Between yesterday and today (particularly today), I’ve been feeling like doing nothing… Read More
2020-07-27 00:12
Not many people will understand your struggles and that’s okay. Because people don’t and might not understand, there’s a chance that they’ll be insensitive and non ap… Read More
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