Every now and then,we hear lovers cry and complain of being cheated on by their partners! These cheaters are people who are dearly loved by their partners and who also profess to love their partners as well. So why cheat? Yes why? If you love someone based on choice and not by force,why would you go cheat on him or her?
Is cheating an intentional act or does it happen by accident or mistake? Should a cheater be forgiven by his or her partner? Can a lover make a cheating partner stop cheating? Can cheating partner ever change?
Answers to these questions will help us see whether one can help a partner stop cheating or not.
How can I stop my partner from cheating?
Can anyone actually stop a cheater from cheating? Does anyone have the power to change another person's behavior? Well I doubt! This is because behaviors are choices of desire,products and evidences of ones thought. No reasonable person wakes up and does anything for no reason. Before someone does anything,he is aware of it already! He has resolved in his heart to carry out any action he wants to and so,if you think you are the person that could stop this one from what he does,my dear this is a big dream that may never come true! He who has the power to do it,is the one who has the power to also stop it!
Is cheating an intentional act?
Truly speaking,no one is born to be a cheater. It is not natural for anyone to become a cheater but one can choose either to cheat on ones partner or to be faithful. Yes,we hear cheaters say ''please it was not intentional,I didn't know when it all happened and so on and so forth...'' Lies...
You didn't know when it was happening? So who was doing it on the bed? Who was torching the ups and downs on the body and mooing in sweetness huh? The devil abi? Tell me how and why it is not intentional when it was you who calculated when,where and whom you would do it with?
So it is obviously intentional that you wanted to have another person but you didn't call it 'cheat'. You called it 'fun'! So go on and tell your partner that it was only fun you had and see what and how it feels to have an illicit romantic affairs with a non romantic partner.
What should I do with a romantic partner?
Okay,now you know you have an unfaithful partner whom you cannot change no matter how much you try,what should you do? Leave him? Continue putting up with him hoping he will change some day?
Well while some people would suggest you find out why he cheats I advise you simply find out if he is ready and willing to change. This is because,there is no cause that quantifies or justifies the act of cheating! If your partner needs what you lack and he really wants to be faithful to you,he will simply tell you and help you to have what he needs from you rather than going after someone else who has it. He doesn't want to tell you to adjust or improve your personality makeup for his likes because he really desires and wants to have another romantic partner! If he told you,he knew you would quickly do so and he wouldn't be willing or have any reason to cheat on you!