Hello friends!
Everybody on earth is struggling to get peace. No one is an exception to it irrespective of age and gender. Everyone is trying for it in many ways.Some are trying by working very hard, some are faithfully following the paid advices of the gurus but nothing is achieved. In this world, many of us try to get peace in this way. Peace is not a product that you can buy it and none should try for it using money.
Please understand that no one can give you peace truly in his/her own capacity rather he/she can be a contributory factor in the process of getting peace as a counsellor. Peace is an abstract thing. It can be gained with a very big effort.Peace may be found on one's face. It comes to one's mind only and is reflected on face. It is purely related to mind. It is mind that feels and realises peace. A piece cannot be equal to two minds.Ultimately, it is the mind that may bring peace but it has to be trained a little.
Please note that whatever I am writing here is my thinking and one may differ. Now, I am giving below certain things which should be either done or practiced to bring in a change in one's mind or the mindset and thus one can find peace to some extent as no one knows what is perfect peace.
1.keep your cool in all critical circumstances. You should be very judicious then.
2.Try to understand what is good or bad and to do this, you should have a good sense of reasoning.
3.Get control over your anger anyhow.
4.Don't think that you are always right, as to err is human.
5.Look at the positive sides of the people you mix up with and your relationships may run smoothly.
6.Remain positive always and avoid the association of negative minded people.
7.Try to keep your health fit always. This is very important and try to be joyful and for it you can do any thing as your mind says.
8.Take care of your family always.
*** Couples who recognise and appreciate the characterstrengths of one another have more and successful relationship.
At the end I can say that it may not be possible to have command over all the above items quickly and it may take time but till such time, one may keep these in his memory with care and if so done, some result may come early.
I would like to end here for today. I will come with another post very soon and till then bye from me.
Thanks for your patience and regards for you all.
Kalyan Ghosh.
Everybody on earth is struggling to get peace. No one is an exception to it irrespective of age and gender. Everyone is trying for it in many ways.Some are trying by working very hard, some are faithfully following the paid advices of the gurus but nothing is achieved. In this world, many of us try to get peace in this way. Peace is not a product that you can buy it and none should try for it using money.
Please understand that no one can give you peace truly in his/her own capacity rather he/she can be a contributory factor in the process of getting peace as a counsellor. Peace is an abstract thing. It can be gained with a very big effort.Peace may be found on one's face. It comes to one's mind only and is reflected on face. It is purely related to mind. It is mind that feels and realises peace. A piece cannot be equal to two minds.Ultimately, it is the mind that may bring peace but it has to be trained a little.
Please note that whatever I am writing here is my thinking and one may differ. Now, I am giving below certain things which should be either done or practiced to bring in a change in one's mind or the mindset and thus one can find peace to some extent as no one knows what is perfect peace.
1.keep your cool in all critical circumstances. You should be very judicious then.
2.Try to understand what is good or bad and to do this, you should have a good sense of reasoning.
3.Get control over your anger anyhow.
4.Don't think that you are always right, as to err is human.
5.Look at the positive sides of the people you mix up with and your relationships may run smoothly.
6.Remain positive always and avoid the association of negative minded people.
7.Try to keep your health fit always. This is very important and try to be joyful and for it you can do any thing as your mind says.
8.Take care of your family always.
*** Couples who recognise and appreciate the characterstrengths of one another have more and successful relationship.
At the end I can say that it may not be possible to have command over all the above items quickly and it may take time but till such time, one may keep these in his memory with care and if so done, some result may come early.
I would like to end here for today. I will come with another post very soon and till then bye from me.
Thanks for your patience and regards for you all.
Kalyan Ghosh.
