When the clock ticked and saw you leaving age 12 to 13 and you also said a big good bye to the kid you were, your parents told you they expect you to be more responsible since you are now what they call "Teenager"
Teenager? You may have thought. What comes along the way for been a teenager? What changes do you observe as a teenager? Find out as we go on
Surely the change won't start immediately,it will take some time but as time goes on maybe in your Mid 13's of early 14's you notice that you start thinking self dependent you don't want assistance from people and so any problem you have you stick it to your self and sometimes tell your peers,since you all have the same thinking and the same way of viewing matters. At this point too you tend to reject peoples opinion especially those who are older than you because of your self dependence,but most cases accept and apply opinion from your peers since they have the same thinking and way of viewing issues like you do,but please note that your parents are far older than you are and they love you as well so obeying them is better for you.
You probably have notice your undivided attention to your person appearance and dress to impress others,well its not strange because its something that all teen pass through,and this is when you clash with your parents most of the time because what you deem Modest is Indecent to them and so your dressing upsets them,leading to clash,but I would advice that you adhere to their instructions I have seen the benefits and had seen those who failed to adhere to their parents view of dressing.
You too notice you get bored easily,Oh yeah that's the thing scrolling your news feed on Facebook or chatting could get boring at times and you feel lonely,but bear in mind that you can do thing that make you break the Boredoms. You could pay a visit to Grand pa and Ma or visit the museum or probably the park play there sometimes you have to do thing you did as a kid to keep you lively,and most important speak to your parent about it.
No doubt as you progress school load increase and you have no time for your self and school work most cases you are stressed up and usually tired,it is hard and I know how that feels. It would interest you to know that your parents too have faced such too and have been able to go through such problems, so why not you ask them for assistance to tell you how they coped it would be great if you do so.
Yes all challenges are though and so you should calm down it's just a stepping stone to Maturity. I know you will adhere to the advice here and given to you by your parents.
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