Yes. Yes. Yes. And well, YES! Because it's not their Responsibility, is it? Tell me where is it written? Nowhere. I researched, ahi nahi likha. In fact, it's the responsibility of the person who feels the butterflies first and is a lot more confident! It's an old age tradition planted in our minds and since we are trying to curb the traditions that don't make sense, why leave this one behind?

You signed up as a modern, independent and FEMINIST Woman, and a woman with all these qualities doesn't play the signal games. She goes after she wants, whether that's her career, a 6:00 a.m. sale at Forever 21 or love! So, stop flickering your eyes, or laughing on very lame joke your crush cracks. Instead, look into his eyes and ask him if he will go on a date with you!'

I know, I know, you will say, that guys think girls who ask boys out are desperate, well, honestly, a modern, smart, intelligent guy won't. In fact, he will appreciate the fact that you had the courage to be explicit about your feelings, unlike other women. I don't how many times you've heard this but it is true, it's a major turn on for a guy when he realizes that a woman knows 'who and what' she wants and goes after it! So, all your girlfriends who say, 'don't acha nahi lgta!' GET RID OF THEM! Those girls are the reason why someone said, 'aurat hi aurat ki sabse badi dushman hoti hai!'

It's very important to not think about what people will say. And it's equally important to not dream too much and too soon. I beg you, don't think that the guy you are going to approach, will be your 'happily ever after!' Just go with the intention of having a good time(always doesn't mean sex) and building on that confidence!

We don't get dates because we don't put ourselves out there and when we do, we wait for the guys. Well, why wait? Why not try? Just think of this practice as an offline version of online dating! Go talk to them, if you can feel the sparks, continue and if not, go back to where you were and start hunting again! I once asked a guy out for lunch and he said, 'Sure, after my exams!' It's been three years and I guess, he is still writing his papers! Rejection can be hard( ask the guys you friend-zoned) but it doesn't mean you stop! You go on and don't blame yourself or the other person. I mean, did you stop eating after you were diagnosed with food poisoning? You still binge on pizza or pasta or whatever you like every now and then! So, don't wait and don't stop!

Also, I made a video on my channel, SIX REASONS WHY GIRLS DON'T ASK GUYS OUT'. I know, you can see the embedded video, so watch the video and don't forget to subscribe to my channel and blog. Karlo yaar, free hai!