When I was younger my sex drive was extremely high (higher than usual). I started menopause at 38 and now at almost 50 I NEVER think about sex or actively want it.
My frustration is multiple because:
1. I don’t physically or mentally desire/think about it. [However, once I can mentally talk myself into it...it is FANTASTIC].
2. Intercourse often hurts [thank goodness we found G-spot sex].
3. Hubby lasts forever (at least an hour) and I get really sore.
I took HRT for a while, but had to give them up because of breakthrough bleeding/risk of cancer.
I don’t look my age, don’t act my age, I eat right, and workout 4-6 days a week but the once-a-week-sex is now looking like it’s once-a-month-sex (if I’m lucky).
Hubby is nearly 64 and is in better shape than most guys in their 30s / 40s and could have sex several times a day.
Advise? tips? empathy?
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