I’m in a new relationship with a great guy who has a Groin Hernia.  When we have sex, he doesn’t last very long due to the pain, so he’s very frustrated that he can’t please me.  It makes him feel like less of a man, and it frustrates me as well because I really enjoy being with him.  Is anyone else in a similar situation?  Are there positions that would not be painful for him?  Any advice would be appreciated.