Life is all about making choices, making mistakes and forgiving mistakes. If we don’t make mistakes then I feel we are not humans, we are dead zombies walking on the road waiting for the world to get ended. The point is not making mistakes but what we do about it when it has happened. Do we run away and feel guilty all our lives or we stand and face everything? If we are the Victim then do we try to end our lives or we try to move on and live a better life? Let study both these situations.
What if it is our mistakes? I feel realizing that it is our mistake is the first step to correct them. This also shows that we are really sorry for our mistakes. Being forgiven for our mistakes is not in our control but saying sorry and not repeating again is only that we can do. One of the most important thing about this situation is,” Forgiving yourself”. The guilt of the mistake made by you can haunt you for life. It is better to forgive yourself because it is the only thing that will help you to move on and live a better life.
What if we are the victim? Sometimes it is better to move on as a victim instead of being the only person to fix things. Moving on never helps the opposite person, It helps you to deal with the situation and lead a positive life. If you have got hurt by someone and your heart has been broken multiple times, a wiser person is a person who is able to stand still in such a situation and smile and learn something positive from that situation. Sometimes it is just done, just walk away and move on, no ugly words, no formal goodbye, just no more and no looking back. You have to accept things the way they are and moving on can be the only solution.
Maybe sometimes it is not always about trying to fix something broken, maybe it is about starting over and creating something better. Sometimes we just have to let things go. Once you realize you deserve better, letting go will be the best decision ever.