Adultery is extra Marital sex affair,it is having sexual affair with any other person outside your marriage partner.When a married man sleeps with any woman apart from his wife and vice versa,the sin of Adultery is established.
There are a number of couples today who are under pressure for one reason or the other to cheat on their spouse,however fantastic the reason may be,the bible completely condemns adultery(Exodus 20:14) to the extent it gave adultery as the only ground by whichcouples can divorce(Mattew 5:32)
From spouse not satisfying their sexual urge to pressures from office colleagues,business associates,lack of finance for family,distant marriage and all other forms of temptation just to get a married man or woman to cheat,only discipline in the fear of God can keep most couples from breaking their marital vows.Below are a few tips to follow in order to avoid adultery.
1.Let people know you are married(stop bahaving single)
2.Dress properly as a married person
3.Don't deny your spouse sex even when it is not convenient(Denial with mutual consent is necessary in cases of ill health)
4.Avoid hanging out basically with unmarried friends
5.Avoid the wrong association
6.Don't ever flirt with the opposite sex,remember you are married
7.If anyone suggest extra marital affair to you,put them off.
8.Be content with what your marriage can bring today,there surely will be a better tomorrow
9.Avoid masturbation(Your spouse is there for you)
10.Avoid sex toys
11.Avoid porn sites
12.Avoid porn movies
13.Don't meditate on any sexy person,beautiful or handsome you see(Job 31:1) except that person is your spouse.
14.Don't be desparate to do anything to get that job(Marriage is for life,job is for a time)
15.Treat colleagues as colleagues,business associates as such
16.Be guided by the fear of God
17.Studt God's word regularly