Yeaa well I’m sure everyone has gone through that phase of life where you have feelings for that one person even though you know it’s never going to happen.You keep trying and trying to keep the conversation going day by day because if it stops permanently you can’t do anything.
Some people question if this “one sided love” is even real love?
I would say it depends on how you describe the way you feel! In some situations, it starts as a friendship and it gradually grows and you start having feelings and start thinking how he/she became more than a friend! It’s a beautiful moment when you realise how you Love a person but what if the other person doesn’t feel the same way! That’s when all of a sudden your playlist takes a 360° turn and is filled with sad songs.
LOVE CAN BE DESCRIBED IN WAY TOO MANY WAYS BUT IT COMES DOWN TO HOW YOUR HEART REALLY FEELS!
I guess I’ll share my own little story!
This guy and I have been friends for a really long time and we ended up being best friends. I realised how I have feelings for him but he was in a serious relationship at that time! So I kept it to myself because I didn’t want to ruin the relationship. I eventually did tell him or it was more like he figured it out. And that’s when I realised I’ve liked him for more than 2 years. But yea it never happened but we are still good friends! It gets to a point where you’re frustrated about a slim chance of this relationship ever happening after waiting for so long.
I guess he wasn’t ready for another relationship that soon and I think it just started to get frustrating at some point knowing if me and him would ever end up being together because I have just been patiently waiting for years.
Well to end the story~ Some one Sided Love stories workout and some don’t but the love is real no matter what. If you are faking the love how many years would you fake it for?
Btw him and I are still good friends!
As of my experience, it’s always best to express how you feel but there is a way of doing it. It might be a Yes and that could be the best feeling in the world but if it’s a No, make sure you prepare yourself because you don’t know how the other person feels about you. Atleast you told them how you felt and your part is done! You might regret it if you don’t end up expressing your emotions at the right time!
I mean we don’t know if we would wake up the next morning so express how you feel otherwise it could be the biggest regret in your life!
Most one Sided love happens through friendships and most of us refuse to confess how we feel because we don’t wanna lose that special friend! Which is totally understandable but then how long are you gonna keep it inside you? Are you good at controlling your feelings?
One sided love hurts but it’s special Everyone’s stories can be different but what I have learned from my experience is that if its meant to be it will happen! There is no point in forcing anyone to love you because that wouldn’t be true love!
” It’s hard to wait around for something that you know might never happen. But it’s even harder to give up when you know it’s everything you want”Unknown