Can people change? This is something that has been in my mind for a while now! Isn’t it weird to Realise how someone you know has changed a lot in the past couple of years/months time. Don’t get me wrong here, a change is good but it depends on how they change too! There is obviously the good and bad side to everything in this world.
EXPERIENCES CHANGE A PERSON !
I will share my own change with you guys! I was someone who used to be really scared to speak up or like even express how I feel. I used to try and avoid any sort of arguments and fights even if it was necessary. But I went through this friendship breakup and I lost my long time best friend, and it affected me more than I thought. It just made me think about a lot of things in life but Obviously the past is in the past, and we are not going to get back those days. Experiences do play a big role in life and it could either destroy you or make a big change in your life.
I think it made me realise how I am so soft to people that everyone says and does whatever they want and I’m supposed to be okay with it. Even if it took me years to realise how I should be a bit more bold, I am happy with the change that Happened my life. Like whatever has happened in my past has happened for a reason. Everyone has a different story and a different experience to share. But in my life I figured out how because of the way I changed it has only made me a better human being in every way.
You can’t forcefully change yourself, it happens itself but when it happens, make sure if it’s a good or bad change before it’s too late
There is also the Bad side of changing.
Some people purposefully force themselves to be someone else or try to display a specific behaviour and it could affect their relationships really badly. If you realise how someone isn’t the same anymore or how you don’t like something about them, just be straightforward with them. If they value your relationship they will definitely try and do something about whatever the issue is
Well let’s all end this year on a good note by leaving the past in the past, making every day special and fun, and also most importantly sharing love and happiness with each human being out there
I hope every one of you had a wonderful 2019 and I wish nothing but a great 2020
“Maybe sometimes people did not actually change. Maybe you just never knew who they really were“
Peace out Y’all